shipoker58: Yes, I would. And I have gotten into trouble because of it! A former lover asked me if that was the greatest head I ever received....I said no!! She asked who did it better, and I told her!!
That ended the fun for the night!!
OMG, you didn't. Have you ever seen the movie Liar Liar with Jim Carrey? Sort of reminds me of that.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
hillbillyhoney: sure was a sightings more than one.Up a holler where couples parked.Even jumped on the hood of the cars.Had them deputies about to piss on themselves.
My ex haunted me I had to go into hiding. He was so jealous that I had to live in a home for battered women. You can't always tell someone what they want to hear.
aberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia1,328 posts
mylifewithu: I believe especially when my partner ask me questions to share it with him, I wouldn't go into details though. But that's just how I am, totally open. Doesn't mean my belief here is how it should be done.
I agree with Lela. If they ask, then they are opening the conversation, just keep some of the more sordid details to yourself.
I have no problem sharing. With my boyfriend now, he knows about my ex as I know about his and why they broke up. Sometimes it's important to know. If they say "ohhh she dumped me because I cheated" that'd be a red flag.
Hugz_n_Kissez: I would be honest and tell them...a relationship to me is based on full and total trust and honesty so if that's what I am asking for...then I need to be open and do the same thing.....
shipoker58: If a perspective partner holds back info on former relationships...it makes me wonder what else she is holding back. Why can't people just be open and honest with each other???
I like that idea, too, S. I'd say go ahead and be honest - but be prepared to suffer the fallout.
Shirley49WV: I would keep private things private. But I am one that if you ask me a question be prepared for the answer. If you don't want to know the truth or not prepared then you better not ask. Just me!
Well either way is a downfall.I was one who was raised on being truthful so I practice what I preach.But in my relationship it turned around and bit me in the butt.Then maybe as good as he and I would have been,his parents and I just didn't fit.So I believe if you tell most of it,leave out the past .Talk of it once they better listen,then no more.If they miss it,its done gone out of my mouth.
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Well i still might need it..
so keep it close