Yep I struck out...again ( Archived) (22)

Sounds to me like you need more time to heal, and you may never do so completely. Investing time, effort, and mostly your heart is a scary thing but unless you try you may never succeed.

The way I see it is, just, when I'm 90yrs old, and rocking on my chair on the front porch, I'd hate to look back with regret knowing that I could have found the one true love of a lifetime, all because I let my insecurities of the past get the better of me, and never gave that possible one to that could have fullfilled my life w/ love & completion a chance.

because individuals are different, thus altering the outcome or goings on when 2 worlds collide.

Sounds like you revealed too much to these women. Honesty is not necessarily the best policy when it is no one's business. Your past relationships are between you and those past women. They should not color today. Nor should they be discussed within newly formed meetings. It's not their business. Later on in relationships, when feelings are formed, then chatting about your past is okay. Don't feel like you have to tell all right off the bat. You don't.

As far as time heals all wounds, I don't believe that for a moment. jmo

Many of you have already said that your heart will know. I do believe that to be true, but somewhere along the line you have to just breathe and take a leap. You just never know what the future holds. There is a saying that I have came across several times it is something like this ... "I build walls around me not to keep people out, but to see who might decide to climb over them"

Pls leave the Past in the Past..

I am telling you it will ruin what may be in the future..

Believe me i know what i am talking about..

Dont Compare and dont think other women will be the ones in
your past..

Not all are cheater..liars...Play games..Etc..

Just look toward the Future and what can be..not what may
not be..

Definately agree, always leaves a sense of apprehension w/ future relationships to a degree.

however, imo, its how we deal w/ those apprehensions that helps or hurts us.

Thanks, I believe there is alot of truth in that saying. It is one of my favorites.

ya see, one word heah sticks out like a virgin in times squayah-honesty. ya might as well justa put onna dress and hung round a sailors bar than try ta nail some broad using honesty.
see, most dames ain't used to it, it confuses em when some guy starts actin all sensitive, talkin about their feelins and tampons and stuff. so, it's likely them broads just thought you was some kinda freaky lesbian an that's why ya didn't get none.
ya gottsta play it smart, use ya head. yar inna bar an there's alcohol there right? well then, just pour drink down their throats an stick ya hand uppa their skirt. see, be smart, keep it simple. an hey, who knows, mebbes next time ya can get all three broads loaded and make a movie or sumthin