Are You As Frustrated As I Am...? ( Archived) (455)

Jan 11, 2009 10:12 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
mbcasey: Interesting reading you guys...keep posting!!


Morning Stud-Muffins........ I tried to break into SM last nite but the group was already tired ............laugh
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Jan 11, 2009 10:13 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
HJFinAZ: Don't even begin to "think" I do not have fun in life..

There is a book I study. It states, "we absolutely insist on enjoying life"..
I guess it don't matter how we enjoy it as long as we do
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Jan 11, 2009 10:14 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
jvaski: Morning Stud-Muffins........ I tried to break into SM last nite but the group was already tired ............


Yes, you were very bad! very mad rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 11, 2009 10:14 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
HJFinAZ: "Failure", is not not succeeding at something you want to do! Failure is wanting to do something and being to afraid to attempt it.


Right on HJ.thumbs up
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Jan 11, 2009 10:15 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jvaski: Morning Stud-Muffins........ I tried to break into SM last nite but the group was already tired ............


laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 11, 2009 10:25 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
In response to: There are people here on CS who have been here a long time. Some have found love and are married while others have found love, but nothing has worked out. I applaud the ones who have found true love.

Some here have never found love and have been here for years.

Even newer members complain there isn't anyone around their area, or it hasn't happened yet...

Personally, I am frustrated as hell with the whole concept of internet dating.

Please share your frustration, anger, sadness if you feel this way.



Ken I don't feel frustrated in a sense that I haven't met someone here cause even though I thought I was ready for a relationship reality set in and I suddenly realized I really wasn't.My late husband has only been gone less then two yrs and it's still kinda early for me to just jump into a relationship with someone.I have only been on this site since July of last year.

When I first joined I was still in the begining stages of grieving and moruning my husband's death. But since I've been on this site I think I've grown alittle I think in more then one way. I've also had the privilige of meeinging some very nice people here and at least two of them have become I guess you could say my close online friends.They've been there for me from the very first time they read about my situation and were there for me in always giving me encouragement along the way.They've also put up with my mood swings etc. They've shown me what true friendship and love is all about. For that I will always be truly grateful.

One of those beautiful & gorgeous men and myself have been chatting online for quite sometime and everyday in fact. We've gotten to know quite abit about one another just by sharing and communicationg back and forth which I feel is also important for any kind of a realtionship,friendship to survive and even if the two of us only turn out to be just good friends that's fine too.But we're taking it slow for now just to see where it leads.And if after awhile we become only friends it won't be the end of our worlds. At least we'll both know that we've become better people because of it.
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Jan 11, 2009 10:27 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
somechick: Ken I don't feel frustrated in a sense that I haven't met someone here cause even though I thought I was ready for a relationship reality set in and I suddenly realized I really wasn't.My late husband has only been gone less then two yrs and it's still kinda early for me to just jump into a relationship with someone.I have only been on this site since July of last year.

When I first joined I was still in the begining stages of grieving and moruning my husband's death. But since I've been on this site I think I've grown alittle I think in more then one way. I've also had the privilige of meeinging some very nice people here and at least two of them have become I guess you could say my close online friends.They've been there for me from the very first time they read about my situation and were there for me in always giving me encouragement along the way.They've also put up with my mood swings etc. They've shown me what true friendship and love is all about. For that I will always be truly grateful.

One of those beautiful & gorgeous men and myself have been chatting online for quite sometime and everyday in fact. We've gotten to know quite abit about one another just by sharing and communicationg back and forth which I feel is also important for any kind of a realtionship,friendship to survive and even if the two of us only turn out to be just good friends that's fine too.But we're taking it slow for now just to see where it leads.And if after awhile we become only friends it won't be the end of our worlds. At least we'll both know that we've become better people because of it.


Well Guys........ she's taken ........... CHECK "X"
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Jan 11, 2009 10:28 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
toughsob
toughsobtoughsobTowson, Maryland USA2 Posts
Well I have been on here for a month and haven't received a message so, much like in life everybody passes me by for the pretty people. I which I had been born a long time ago like in caveman times when the big and strong determined things but then that just makes me a caveman and contrary to most peoples first glance there's a lot more than meets the eye. But I also believe somebody said that "the meek shall inherit the earth" well it's looking that way to me.
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Jan 11, 2009 10:28 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
somechick: Ken I don't feel frustrated in a sense that I haven't met someone here cause even though I thought I was ready for a relationship reality set in and I suddenly realized I really wasn't.My late husband has only been gone less then two yrs and it's still kinda early for me to just jump into a relationship with someone.I have only been on this site since July of last year.

When I first joined I was still in the begining stages of grieving and moruning my husband's death. But since I've been on this site I think I've grown alittle I think in more then one way. I've also had the privilige of meeinging some very nice people here and at least two of them have become I guess you could say my close online friends.They've been there for me from the very first time they read about my situation and were there for me in always giving me encouragement along the way.They've also put up with my mood swings etc. They've shown me what true friendship and love is all about. For that I will always be truly grateful.

One of those beautiful & gorgeous men and myself have been chatting online for quite sometime and everyday in fact. We've gotten to know quite abit about one another just by sharing and communicationg back and forth which I feel is also important for any kind of a realtionship,friendship to survive and even if the two of us only turn out to be just good friends that's fine too.But we're taking it slow for now just to see where it leads.And if after awhile we become only friends it won't be the end of our worlds. At least we'll both know that we've become better people because of it.
Email me sometime I would like to get to know you better and we can hang out when you come up .time to napsleep
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Jan 11, 2009 10:28 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
sweetowen: Yes, you were very bad!


Just being me ......... something that can't be helped dunno
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Jan 11, 2009 10:29 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
loverboy690: Email me sometime I would like to get to know you better and we can hang out when you come up .time to nap


scold CHECK "X" scold
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Jan 11, 2009 10:30 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Maybe we all need some cheese to go with our whine..devil
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Jan 11, 2009 10:31 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
jvaski: CHECK "X"
what did I do wrong this time?dancing
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Jan 11, 2009 10:31 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Ohhh Before I forget .......... Dana sais to say Hi cheering

She's temporarily in exile ...................scold roll eyes
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Jan 11, 2009 10:31 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
somechick: Ken I don't feel frustrated in a sense that I haven't met someone here cause even though I thought I was ready for a relationship reality set in and I suddenly realized I really wasn't.My late husband has only been gone less then two yrs and it's still kinda early for me to just jump into a relationship with someone.I have only been on this site since July of last year.

When I first joined I was still in the begining stages of grieving and moruning my husband's death. But since I've been on this site I think I've grown alittle I think in more then one way. I've also had the privilige of meeinging some very nice people here and at least two of them have become I guess you could say my close online friends.They've been there for me from the very first time they read about my situation and were there for me in always giving me encouragement along the way.They've also put up with my mood swings etc. They've shown me what true friendship and love is all about. For that I will always be truly grateful.

One of those beautiful & gorgeous men and myself have been chatting online for quite sometime and everyday in fact. We've gotten to know quite abit about one another just by sharing and communicationg back and forth which I feel is also important for any kind of a realtionship,friendship to survive and even if the two of us only turn out to be just good friends that's fine too.But we're taking it slow for now just to see where it leads.And if after awhile we become only friends it won't be the end of our worlds. At least we'll both know that we've become better people because of it.


Losing your spouse at such a young age must be shocking. Not only you have grief for them, you go through a wide range of emotions. It just has to take time...a long time to gather yourself and try to move forward.

I am glad you have made close friends who you trust and speak with often. I guess you are not frustrated with the site, but thankful for it.
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Jan 11, 2009 10:32 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
loverboy690: what did I do wrong this time?


Nothing, you've just been up too late ...... Somechick is
TAKEN ! get it ? rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 11, 2009 10:32 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
somechick: Ken I don't feel frustrated in a sense that I haven't met someone here cause even though I thought I was ready for a relationship reality set in and I suddenly realized I really wasn't.My late husband has only been gone less then two yrs and it's still kinda early for me to just jump into a relationship with someone.I have only been on this site since July of last year.

When I first joined I was still in the begining stages of grieving and moruning my husband's death. But since I've been on this site I think I've grown alittle I think in more then one way. I've also had the privilige of meeinging some very nice people here and at least two of them have become I guess you could say my close online friends.They've been there for me from the very first time they read about my situation and were there for me in always giving me encouragement along the way.They've also put up with my mood swings etc. They've shown me what true friendship and love is all about. For that I will always be truly grateful.

One of those beautiful & gorgeous men and myself have been chatting online for quite sometime and everyday in fact. We've gotten to know quite abit about one another just by sharing and communicationg back and forth which I feel is also important for any kind of a realtionship,friendship to survive and even if the two of us only turn out to be just good friends that's fine too.But we're taking it slow for now just to see where it leads.And if after awhile we become only friends it won't be the end of our worlds. At least we'll both know that we've become better people because of it.



I've also learned from one of my two online friends that there's nothing wrong with taking risks in life.And when I'm ready for a relationship again I'll know it.
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Jan 11, 2009 10:33 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

I had my first date from someone I met on internet in
2006. Moved right in with him, married by the pipe,
Native American ceremony, left August 2008. Now here I
am getting to make new friends and touching base with some
I already knew. Of course I am still optimistic, and at times
get frustrated, but after a good nights sleep, getting up
smelling the cool crisp air and newness of the day, I now
can say. My every waking moment will not be focused on am
I ever going to find him. It isn't like a treasure hunt,
going from house to house to get your list, all thought now
that I think about it that does sound like fun wink
But I will continue with the other things I enjoy and if
it happens= GREAT. (JMO)
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Jan 11, 2009 10:34 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
toughsob: Well I have been on here for a month and haven't received a message so, much like in life everybody passes me by for the pretty people. I which I had been born a long time ago like in caveman times when the big and strong determined things but then that just makes me a caveman and contrary to most peoples first glance there's a lot more than meets the eye. But I also believe somebody said that "the meek shall inherit the earth" well it's looking that way to me.


Hey toughsob...I grew up in Towson...handshake

You have to be active in order to find someone. Noone will knock on your door...you have to make an all out effort. Keep posting to the forums. A great place to meet people. Send e-mails and flowers to women who interest you.

Expand your search to include longer distances. Good luck to you...go Ravens!!!handshake
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Jan 11, 2009 10:36 AM CST Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
jvaski: Nothing, you've just been up too late ...... Somechick is
TAKEN ! get it ?
Is it wrong to tell a person something?She may be taken I was only being friendly conversing
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