star53: after 30 yrs.? get over it!!!! geeesh, the past is just that...the past, can't change the past ok? you can't have a future if your living in the past.
How do you know Star - he hurt me so much............
star53: after 30 yrs.? get over it!!!! geeesh, the past is just that...the past, can't change the past ok? you can't have a future if your living in the past.
Thanks for your comment Star - I cant ake it any further than this though - I was havin a laugh with a couple of others - a thread my bessie mate made - lets not allow it to get out of hand - much as I would love to play this game - it would be wrong - thanks for your concern sweetie - we have your number........
trish123: oh people - I know you are all strangers but help me please - this man.. he hurt me and I dont know where to turn for the best - he said I was ugly, he said I was insensitive - how will I ever live these insults down - my family will be etertnally shames by me - what can I dooooooooooooooo
Sorry to say, Trish, but I'm afraid you're doomed to at least another thirty years of heartache.
trish123: oh people - I know you are all strangers but help me please - this man.. he hurt me and I dont know where to turn for the best - he said I was ugly, he said I was insensitive - how will I ever live these insults down - my family will be etertnally shames by me - what can I dooooooooooooooo
how about a loooong holiday .... on his credit card
Beauty depends on the seer. You can not please all people on anything. You are not here to fill the standards of other not matter how foolish they are. The one that said these things to you is not the law giver of the world. His judgement only shows his own failures.
You would make a lousy horse....you have only two legs...your back is too short for a saddle.....your legs are too short to gallop.......horseshoe don't fit you worth a darn. Whos standard must you meet......a horse owners or your own.
Be yourself first, then if a trait you have causes you repeated problems....then change if it will give you a better life. We all improve each day by the problems life gives us. The guy was a fool and did not even know what such remarks could do to a person. He truly was more wrong than anything he could have judged you on. it was his failure that brought forth cruel remarks that have no base except his opinion at that moment of his own pain.
One of the sweetest and most loved women around....who had many after her fighting for her attention was a circus freak. If you will look at others and consider.....you will find you are not the best and not the worst......you are like most of us....just average and normal. Then what you do with that normal will make it better or worse.
HE was the one with the problem....not go forth and live as a normal woman and not as a sorry excuse of a horse.
Yep, a couple of us did them - just a bit of jollity and its all your fault Gra - it started out as seeing the funny side of your crutches situation - I think Jan was right though, Im maybe wishing I hadnt done it.........
RillyNiceGuy: Beauty depends on the seer. You can not please all people on anything. You are not here to fill the standards of other not matter how foolish they are. The one that said these things to you is not the law giver of the world. His judgement only shows his own failures.
You would make a lousy horse....you have only two legs...your back is too short for a saddle.....your legs are too short to gallop.......horseshoe don't fit you worth a darn. Whos standard must you meet......a horse owners or your own.
Be yourself first, then if a trait you have causes you repeated problems....then change if it will give you a better life. We all improve each day by the problems life gives us. The guy was a fool and did not even know what such remarks could do to a person. He truly was more wrong than anything he could have judged you on. it was his failure that brought forth cruel remarks that have no base except his opinion at that moment of his own pain.
One of the sweetest and most loved women around....who had many after her fighting for her attention was a circus freak. If you will look at others and consider.....you will find you are not the best and not the worst......you are like most of us....just average and normal. Then what you do with that normal will make it better or worse.
HE was the one with the problem....not go forth and live as a normal woman and not as a sorry excuse of a horse.
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I dont do it often Dru - and theyll get used to it in time - time heald all wounds you know