IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER (46)

Oct 23, 2011 10:37 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
I hope I am not bitter. I tend more often to be optomistic.
Oct 23, 2011 1:01 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
I do get bitter at times but then I get even. If they only knew!! But they don't have to . . . I do . . . . devil
Oct 23, 2011 1:11 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Bodeciea
BodecieaBodecieaCanton, New York USA1 Threads 43 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??


Given the results of the poll so far, it seems that the majority of people do indeed find it hard not to be bitter over some things. However, when you read through the thread here, the majority of POSTERS say that it is not worth being bitter. Interesting, that...it is almost like people are ashamed to admit publicly that they can feel bitterness; as if its some kind of fault...dunno

I for one, am not ashamed to admit that yes, I can feel bitterness sometimes. If I feel I have been wronged unfairly, then you are damn right that I will feel it.

Feeling bitterness is not the problem; its how much you let it use you that is..
Oct 23, 2011 1:46 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
octapus10
octapus10octapus10Upington, Northern Cape South Africa5 Posts
I was bitter all my life, for the tricks people did to me to destroy my life, so that I could never get on my feet and achieve things. But trying to get revenge on all of your enemies, just makes life worse for you, and you should just try focus on trying to improve your situation or life, putting your energy there.
Oct 23, 2011 2:00 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Sharing my bitterness with others gives them a deep look into the dark side of life.
If they have earned the right to know or feel my pain I will share it.
On a lighter note, why gives others your power, you need it to live a better life.
Oct 23, 2011 2:01 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
octapus10: I was bitter all my life, for the tricks people did to me to destroy my life, so that I could never get on my feet and achieve things. But trying to get revenge on all of your enemies, just makes life worse for you, and you should just try focus on trying to improve your situation or life, putting your energy there.


yes. the best revenge is a good life. I have this also to liveapplause
Oct 23, 2011 2:29 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
felixis99: yes. the best revenge is a good life. I have this also to live


I completely agree handshake wine
Oct 23, 2011 4:04 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
octapus10
octapus10octapus10Upington, Northern Cape South Africa5 Posts
jac379: Not that you're likely to have any juice left by the time EW finishes with you.


Hi jac37, is time4fun4you also giving you a hard time. He tells everybody to get a life, but it looks as though he needs a life, as all he does is follow certain people, trying to get some kind of revenge on them. Jac, you have the same enemies I do. Destroy them if you can, like they do to you. The aquarius is a pathetic weak creature jac.
Oct 23, 2011 4:11 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy
mrLonelyboymrLonelyboyvictoria, British Columbia Canada14 Threads 12 Polls 81 Posts
octapus10: Hi jac37, is time4fun4you also giving you a hard time. He tells everybody to get a life, but it looks as though he needs a life, as all he does is follow certain people, trying to get some kind of revenge on them. Jac, you have the same enemies I do. Destroy them if you can, like they do to you. The aquarius is a pathetic weak creature jac.


what is this??doh
Oct 23, 2011 4:13 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Whats your problem?
Oct 23, 2011 4:19 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
octapus10: Hi jac37, is time4fun4you also giving you a hard time. He tells everybody to get a life, but it looks as though he needs a life, as all he does is follow certain people, trying to get some kind of revenge on them. Jac, you have the same enemies I do. Destroy them if you can, like they do to you. The aquarius is a pathetic weak creature jac.


Yikesadoodle uh oh Its always the faceless ones sigh roll eyes
Oct 24, 2011 7:58 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,517 Posts
DBguy: For a nominal fee of just $100 a hour with a minimum of 10 hours required. Hope that doesn't make you bitter
Splash on some Old Spice and set the timer, Stud.
Nov 24, 2011 3:07 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
One can forgive, but that doesnt mean you can forget. Life isnt easy but lessons are there to be learnt, the point of a mistake is to learn from it and not to repeat it.thumbs up
Nov 24, 2011 4:15 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??

My life was hard from the first breath.
Bitter is the lessons we have learned. With learning we become stronger, the stronger we get we see the red flags fast and back off.

As far as thanks,forgiveness, and tenderness
I give what I get,
I forgive but remember and
I'm tender to those that need it.

dunno I may be bitter for better reasons.
I need to live in safety, peace and harmony.
Dec 2, 2011 2:34 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??


We all get bitter at one point or another but the tougher part is getting over it. My heart is hardened but not because I am bitter; its called survival. I found when I opened my heart to people; they took advantage of me; so I learned at a very young age not to let that happen. My heart is only opened to my friends and family as I know they will always be there for me and I truly love them.
Dec 2, 2011 4:09 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
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