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Feb 20, 2012 12:38 PM CSTHave Your Standards Dropped??

Have Your Standards Dropped??(Vote Below)

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We all need some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to work...

Do you think your usual standards have dropped since joining a dating site??

To be honest i think mens standards have dropped while womens have gone up!!

What do you think?? dunno
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Feb 20, 2012 12:41 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
well I'm in the IRA....I'd Ride Anything...supposed to be meeting a wan tomorrow night...this one is huge about 6ft tall and a big build bout the same size as meself...I'll be getting blind drunk before I buck herheart1
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Feb 20, 2012 12:45 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
martini100
martini100martini100wexford, Wexford Ireland19 Threads 2,158 Posts
pedro27: i know her


laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 20, 2012 12:56 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
Urbuddy
UrbuddyUrbuddyYellow Brick Rd , Larganville, Mayo Ireland94 Threads 4 Polls 2,441 Posts
mcattack: We all need some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to work...

Do you think your usual standards have dropped since joining a dating site??

To be honest i think mens standards have dropped while womens have gone up!!

What do you think??
I'm keepin my standards but I've found that women very definitely have upped theirs (standards I mean grin)
If I asked them to 'move the goalposts' they'd say , "F'#k off and move them yourself laugh
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Feb 20, 2012 1:18 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
mcattack: We all need some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to work...

Do you think your usual standards have dropped since joining a dating site??

To be honest i think mens standards have dropped while womens have gone up!!

What do you think??


I wouldn't say they've dropped, or has anything to do with being on the site. Personally my standards have changed with age and experiences. Nothing to do with looks or status etc, but more to do with how I allow myself to be treated.
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Feb 20, 2012 1:29 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
pedro27: i know her


rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 20, 2012 2:15 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
mcattack: We all need some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to work...

Do you think your usual standards have dropped since joining a dating site??

To be honest i think mens standards have dropped while womens have gone up!!

What do you think??

Ohhh great... sigh

Explains the increase in emails.


crying
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Feb 20, 2012 2:18 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
70Libra: Ohhh great...

Explains the increase in emails.


Nope it doesn't. Your beautiful hug

When Mac talks about women bing more picky and mens standards dropping he is only talking from his experience of these matters laugh

bouquet
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Feb 20, 2012 2:20 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
vinny1967: Nope it doesn't. Your beautiful

When Mac talks about women bing more picky and mens standards dropping he is only talking from his experience of these matters

Sweet-talker wink

bouquet
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Feb 20, 2012 2:33 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
Me personally, i don't have standards, if someone is pretty in my eyes then that does me...

Is there such a thing as leagues though?? You know the saying.."ah she's waaaaay out of my league"..would you approach someone who you thought was out of your league?? (as in too good looking for you)
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Feb 20, 2012 2:41 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
mcattack: Me personally, i don't have standards, if someone is pretty in my eyes then that does me...


Am not sure how that is not a standard. What we are attracted to is what we are attracted to. I would imagine the same would apply to most people on this site. Is that not a standard we aspire to and we either look for that or we drop our standards and 'settle' for someone we do not find pretty ?

mcattack: Is there such a thing as leagues though?? You know the saying.."ah she's waaaaay out of my league"..would you approach someone who you thought was out of your league?? (as in too good looking for you)


Not really when it comes to looks. Maybe to financial status dunno
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Feb 20, 2012 2:45 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
It's not a standard, i think a standard is a measure of comparison?? is it not?? dunno
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Feb 20, 2012 2:54 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
mcattack: Me personally, i don't have standards, if someone is pretty in my eyes then that does me...

Is there such a thing as leagues though?? You know the saying.."ah she's waaaaay out of my league"..would you approach someone who you thought was out of your league?? (as in too good looking for you)

Hmpf...

No man is out of my league snooty
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Feb 20, 2012 2:55 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
mcattack: It's not a standard, i think a standard is a measure of comparison?? is it not??


It has a lot of meanings really and depends on whether its used as an adjective or a noun laugh

However I have standards when it comes to who I am attracted to and I would suggest everyone, including you, does. For example I would not be interested in someone who's hygiene is gross.

I was only using 'standard' as how you applied it in your thread question. thumbs up

But thats off topic. I was interested to find why you think mens standards have dropped yet womens have become higher because I have not found that. Genuinely interested. cheers
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Feb 20, 2012 2:58 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
jazzmanlover
jazzmanloverjazzmanloverDublin, Ireland2 Threads 60 Posts
i dont know i think our standards change as we get older , im happy for first time in ages , i like my own company and now it would take a very special person to enter into it. It depends on who you are and how happy a person you are as to the standards you set

either that or im getting mature !!! God forbid!!
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Feb 20, 2012 2:58 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
70Libra: Hmpf...

No man is out of my league


I stand a chance yay banana
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Feb 20, 2012 3:19 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
allrounder08
allrounder08allrounder08Dublin, Ireland6 Threads 40 Posts
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo, my standards were terrible years ago rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 20, 2012 3:22 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
mcattack: Do you think women are more pickier though??
i have never found them too picky to be honest, i would say with alot of them they have a sort of checklist and if ya pass that, your on the ball, i think you have to be selective in who you mail then the results are better
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Feb 20, 2012 3:23 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
lreland12345
lreland12345lreland12345mullingar, Westmeath Ireland33 Threads 118 Posts
i agree you see verygoodlooking guys with women who normal looking guys would go for in bar or pub but you never see a verygooodlooking women with normal looking guy on less hes rich or famous i think it even very hrad for verygoodlooking guys to even get verygoodlooking women so what chance have us normal looking guys got if women are too picky
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Feb 20, 2012 3:35 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
Urbuddy
UrbuddyUrbuddyYellow Brick Rd , Larganville, Mayo Ireland94 Threads 4 Polls 2,441 Posts
jazzmanlover: i dont know i think our standards change as we get older , im happy for first time in ages , i like my own company and now it would take a very special person to enter into it. It depends on who you are and how happy a person you are as to the standards you set

either that or im getting mature !!! God forbid!!
Great post Jazzman cheers thumbs up
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Feb 20, 2012 3:35 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
mcattack: Vinny you're bustin me chops here

I just think men let their standards drop a lot more than women, this is nothing that i've experienced, i'm just talking about thigs that i've seen, like friends and relatives and stuff and i think it happens more on a dating site...a lot of men use this a last resort and so will take anything (not all men) whereas women (i think) are a lot more picky!!


rolling on the floor laughing

I'm sorry Mac, I was genuinely interested Bud laugh

I suppose some people might use sites like this as a last resort but I don't and never have. I think people use it as a way of meeting new people and if it works great, if not they still socialise as normal.
Personally I have found it to be different. Men are more comfortable using dating sites whereas more women do use them more grudgingly. I hope thats not a generalisation laugh doh
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Feb 20, 2012 3:38 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
jazzmanlover: i dont know i think our standards change as we get older , im happy for first time in ages , i like my own company and now it would take a very special person to enter into it. It depends on who you are and how happy a person you are as to the standards you set

either that or im getting mature !!! God forbid!!


Well done you.
Finding contentment and fulfillment is something only some of us aspire to.
cheers
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Feb 20, 2012 3:56 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
70Libra: That is very true. Most women haven't cottoned on to that fact and so haven't taken advantage of it. I reckon men would be far more satisfied (no pun intended) if they did.


Nooooooo laugh

The whole natural order of things would be disrupted. The earth would fall off its axis blues laugh
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Feb 20, 2012 4:00 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
vinny1967: Nooooooo

The whole natural order of things would be disrupted. The earth would fall off its axis

Yeah, but what a ride... pun intended laugh
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Feb 20, 2012 4:13 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
70Libra: Yeah, but what a ride... pun intended


laugh

You got that right.
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Feb 20, 2012 4:28 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
trisher69
trisher69trisher69Albuquerque, New Mexico USA60 Threads 58 Polls 317 Posts
No, I refuse to lower my standards! Been there. cheering I've been single d yrs with a few flings here & there so I can hold out longer!heart wings
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Feb 20, 2012 8:07 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
trisher69
trisher69trisher69Albuquerque, New Mexico USA60 Threads 58 Polls 317 Posts
jimbo79: i have never found them too picky to be honest, i would say with alot of them they have a sort of checklist and if ya pass that, your on the ball, i think you have to be selective in who you mail then the results are better
applause I agree, selective emailing!
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Feb 21, 2012 12:19 AM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
Sure its always been the same even long before internet dating became popular. Men are horngogs, thats the reason it would never work on Take Me Out as none of them would turn off their light.laugh But yeah some women seem to be very picky when you read their profile, if your not Brad Pitts brother then forget it. Funny part is that most of them would be average looking at best.
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Feb 21, 2012 12:37 AM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
My standards have never dropped ! I still like my women to be black and strong. Just like my coffee !!

lol
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Feb 21, 2012 4:39 AM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
there is only one woman 4methumbs up
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Feb 21, 2012 12:57 PM CST Have Your Standards Dropped??
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
heres something i read on fb...reminded me of this thread..

What I Want In a Man, Original List
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)
1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)
1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)
1. Breathing.
2. Doesn't miss the toilet.
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