In response to: I think if they both work they should share the housework.. But if one of them doesn't work I think the one who doesn't work should handle the house work.
Of course, if both work they should split the housework. I cannot imagine that anybody would seriously think it ought to work differently??
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
Kargyle227: (Male Opinion) A _GOOD_ relationship will include the Sharing of almost Every aspect of it... It's just part of the ~Relationship Process~..!!
Personally, I absolutely Dispise doing Dishes by myself.... Sharing makes it ~At least~ tolerable..!!
...then . why owen a dog and bark yourself........
In response to: I think if they both work they should share the housework.. But if one of them doesn't work I think the one who doesn't work should handle the house work.
Don't you think we got more important stuff to think about?
In response to: I think if they both work they should share the housework.. But if one of them doesn't work I think the one who doesn't work should handle the house work.
My house, my responsibility; if too mush at any one time, I can hire a cleaning woman. But sometimes, for some things, it is nice to share...like preparing and cooking a meal...that can be quite creative...
In response to: I think if they both work they should share the housework.. But if one of them doesn't work I think the one who doesn't work should handle the house work.
The problem is that after the guy has done it I have to redo that housework! Is it sharing?
technology has made house work more easier so house work is no more a serious issue as anyone can handle it. woman who is a house wife must not wait for the man to come back from a long day work and start cleaning and cooking.
alonerdoHuixquilucan, Mexico State Mexico228 posts
This scientifically proven that men, due to less number of connections between brain hemispheres, are a danger to the delicate balance between functionality, comfort and cleanliness of a home.
In response to: I think if they both work they should share the housework.. But if one of them doesn't work I think the one who doesn't work should handle the house work.
Should men share house work with women? Of course, not! I’m sure that a strong and intelligent fellow is able to manage all house work on his own.
Clean as you go - no mess!!If he is at work all day and she is not (or vice versa) the home person should have the responsibility of house work. If both work give some of the responsibilities to the kids or hire a cleaning lady one day a week so you don't spend the whole weekend doing laundry and cleaning.If one is on night shift and the other day it makes it difficult to keep a routine.Clean as you go.Some people can live in messy dirty houses. I simply can not relax with bacteria multiplying around me EEWWWW!!!
I think that lack of help with household chores was a big factor in the demise of my marriage. In addition to working out side the home, I cooked, cleaned, homeschooled the kids, mowed the lawns, and made sure the cars were clean and working properly while my husband sat in the garage all day and smoked pot.
No...he helped out in the beginning when the two oldest were small, but by the time they were school aged and the two younger ones came along, he pretty much gave up helping in any way. I think that is what scares me about relationships now...that he will change in time
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