I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
morgen90210: I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
Look its a very unattractive scene when I cry ,cause I cry very loud,green balloons come out my nose ,Im having difficulties to breath ...and she promised at that moment never to use teargas on me ever again...
morgen90210: I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
I am not saying that EVERYONE thinks or reacts this way, but in my adult life I've never known women to really be "OK" with their guy crying. American women like tough guys, to a fault. There is no doubt about this. Also, I believe that a man breaking down and crying is unsettling for many women, regardless of what they may say otherwise. (Much is expected of the American male, and crying throws a wrench into the spokes).
i respect a man that can cry and not feel the need to hide it from me. father, brother, son, friends...seen them all cry at some point. i think it's called .... being human. and yes, can feel unsettling...just like when a woman cries...reminds me that i can't fix everything...reminds me of my helplessness in some situations...reminds me of the fragility of some things... and i hurt when he hurts... but would i trade it in for a 'he man'....not a chance. honesty can be a real challenge at times....but well worth it.
Carl96190: No man should allow a woman to see him cry. He will be seen as weak and unworthy to mate with her. This is instinct hard wired into the female brain.
Each to their own,,but surely we are all human???and i will say that is certainly not hard wired in my brain.i think that being able to be yourself in front of your partner is the thing and if that means crying sometimes then so be it.I did believe this attitude and sense of machoness was nearly gone,but obviously not..its not good for you to keep emmotions in you know,it causes stress.
aramaya: Each to their own,,but surely we are all human???and i will say that is certainly not hard wired in my brain.i think that being able to be yourself in front of your partner is the thing and if that means crying sometimes then so be it.I did believe this attitude and sense of machoness was nearly gone,but obviously not..its not good for you to keep emmotions in you know,it causes stress.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
aramaya: Each to their own,,but surely we are all human???and i will say that is certainly not hard wired in my brain.i think that being able to be yourself in front of your partner is the thing and if that means crying sometimes then so be it.I did believe this attitude and sense of machoness was nearly gone,but obviously not..its not good for you to keep emmotions in you know,it causes stress.
...I was...crying last nigt......just missed the train ,,,to swindon,,,,,,,,,
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
morgen90210: I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
Its perfectly natural for a man to cry when he is hurt, there is nothing wrong in this in fact I would rather see a guy cry than not it shows he is human and not conditioned by society and this stupid nacho thing. And further more it is far better for his health to let it out!.
morgen90210: I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
In my experiences when I've seen a man cry, I did not look at him as less of a man only more of one. I saw his sensitive side, the fact that he cared and was either remorseful or passionate about something. Men have feelings too.
morgen90210: I did when my very 1st girl left me ,tears flowing down when she walked away ,she came back a minute ,saw me ,hug me and I cried on her t shirt. But it lasted 1 more Year ...
yes, and I dont see anything wrong with it. but maybe some man just dont cus they think it showing off their weakness or something
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