To me it's more of a matter of maturity matching each other. I do have a problem with being with one young enough to be one of my kids. It's just my choice , not to go that young. I am not really interested in one too much older than me either, like 122 yrs old, ha!!
I think it is important, I prefer a man who is on my wavelength.
I know a girl who is my age and she is living with a man for ten years who is ten years younger than her, we have all sat back and watched him grow up.
Now, I see many attractive younger men, but I need some mental stimulation, along with attractiveness, integrity, can discuss the things that have happened in my lifetime, I suppose I want a man who is 40 and above, I am nt about to budge fron that criteria.
irishlass45: unh unh unh your not getting away with it sassy, so you believe what? yes, no, or you are not sure?
Not sure to be honest never been in the situation.
Honestly I think older wouldnt bother me, but to be totally honest when 18 and 19 year olds mail me it kinda turns my stomach, I have a daughter 19 sooo there is no way I could go down the younger, well that much younger anyway.
All previous reltionships have been older or same age. Never younger.
mylifewithu: To me it's more of a matter of maturity matching each other. I do have a problem with being with one young enough to be one of my kids. It's just my choice , not to go that young. I am not really interested in one too much older than me either, like 122 yrs old, ha!!
I think it is important, I prefer a man who is on my wavelength.
I know a girl who is my age and she is living with a man for ten years who is ten years younger than her, we have all sat back and watched him grow up.
Now, I see many attractive younger men, but I need some mental stimulation, along with attractiveness, integrity, can discuss the things that have happened in my lifetime, I suppose I want a man who is 40 and above, I am nt about to budge fron that criteria.
I agree, there has to be mental stimulation too, i can look at a younger man, notice i said man not boy and say hey "that is a nice......" well you know but as far as having a meaningful relationship? i doubt it happening, i too get emails and flowers all the time from youngsters, i tell them politely no thank you i have a son 26.
I've been thinking this through. I've been in relationships with younger women and relationships with older women. In retrospect, I suppose the latter were more successful, for reasons unknown. Perhaps I am mature or, perhaps, they were not?
rwantin: I've been thinking this through. I've been in relationships with younger women and relationships with older women. In retrospect, I suppose the latter were more successful, for reasons unknown. Perhaps I am mature or, perhaps, they were not?
I didn't have a confused part added to the poll guess you are in the not sure as well as sassy then?
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If you're referring to own age, it is just a number, that most of the times I don’t even remember unless I refer to my birth year.
In terms of relationships, yes and no.
Yes, as I never dated men younger than me and I don’t think I will…so it is an issue. And no, because I had older partners, but the age was not relevant, some were 2 or 4 years older, some more than that….on my side, it was never age difference awareness there.
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