Yes, to me age is vary important. I don't want a younger man, I have raised my children. I don't want one more then 5 years older(I'm 55)I don't want to bury another husband real soon. I guess you could say it scares me.
Lordslady: Yes, to me age is vary important. I don't want a younger man, I have raised my children. I don't want one more then 5 years older(I'm 55)I don't want to bury another husband real soon. I guess you could say it scares me.
hi lordslady . . . yes i can totally understand your feelings
For me it is not about age as much as life’s experiences. I have met some very young people who because ether their backgrounds or family life have lived a rich full life in a short number of years. On the other hand I’ve met people who are very old like me, lol who have not lived much at all? Also it depends on how you have used your experiences and can talk about it. Some people are very interesting yet they think they are not and therefore don’t share themselves with you. Others tell you every boring detail of their life and don’t realise they really haven’t had a very interesting life. My 2 cents Carol
mrLonelyboy: yes i been away from forums and polls for a while...
but i see some interesting polls and forums about age and a real interesting one . .would you want a virgin to be your wife...lol
the votes tended to disagree with the comments lol
anyway . .im back . hey halfpint . .i hope ur happy .
KNenagh: Age is important to a certain extend, I want to have things in common with someone and that's more likely the case with someone around my age.
Lordslady: Yes, to me age is vary important. I don't want a younger man, I have raised my children. I don't want one more then 5 years older(I'm 55)I don't want to bury another husband real soon. I guess you could say it scares me.
oh yes, I agree with everything you said. Age is very important to me. I am NOT dating any man old enough to be my son (even though I have no kids) or my dad !
Lordslady: Yes, to me age is vary important. I don't want a younger man, I have raised my children. I don't want one more then 5 years older(I'm 55)I don't want to bury another husband real soon. I guess you could say it scares me.
"I don't want to bury another husband real soon".
Ah,dear u never know u'r look,the second husband might bury u,even if u'r 20 years junior ! Life is to live,Not the numbers of age to count !! Wisdom in life is better,then any other calculations !
Women between 27 and 35 only think about when they can have their baby, or they have already a couple of kids (sometimes with a couple of fathers).
18-24 seems to be the best age, 24-26 if its a real match
blessya!!!!! Don´t worry...you´ll find one. Personally, my OWN age is very important cos I know I got less ahead than I have behind. Friends I have in all age groups.......but up till now I haven´t found my special man in any of them.
hoolet: blessya!!!!! Don´t worry...you´ll find one. Personally, my OWN age is very important cos I know I got less ahead than I have behind. Friends I have in all age groups.......but up till now I haven´t found my special man in any of them.
Your comment is, in fact, a reflection of your age and reveals why you feel the way you do about age. Not meant to be offensive but 3 years to you is eternity when to me 3 years goes by so quickly it is a virtual blink of the eye. At 82 (my age) even the weeks fly by like a momentary breeze. I do understand how you feel though because I too have been where you are. Taking the time to find the right girl is like trying to pick a bride on a TV show, very hard to do if you only want to do it once. Best of luck to you,
mrLonelyboy: yes i been away from forums and polls for a while...
but i see some interesting polls and forums about age and a real interesting one . .would you want a virgin to be your wife...lol
the votes tended to disagree with the comments lol
anyway . .im back . hey halfpint . .i hope ur happy .
have a good weekend
Yes a younger man is nice, but if they haven't had children yet and want children, it is only fair to tell them that maybe you are done with kids. Everyone deserves the right to have children. I think it is only selfish, the older woman thinks the younger man will not want to have children.JMO.
I like men around my age but not I'm not limited to a specific age group as long as we get along...although, I don't want to get involved with someone who's young enough to be my son or old enough to be my father.
2intrigued: I like men around my age but not I'm not limited to a specific age group as long as we get along...although, I don't want to get involved with someone who's young enough to be my son or old enough to be my father.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
mick681: age is important, i married a woman 20 years younger than me, only lasted 4 years,its not easy, will look for someone around my own age next time
Yes I understand your problem. My present partner is 20 years younger than me. But I am much younger in my outlook on life. She says I keep her young.
tomcatwarne: Yes I understand your problem. My present partner is 20 years younger than me. But I am much younger in my outlook on life. She says I keep her young.
tomcatwarne: Yes I understand your problem. My present partner is 20 years younger than me. But I am much younger in my outlook on life. She says I keep her young.
Hi Tom....Do you think that would work in reverse? When I was 50 I dated someone that was 22 years younger. It didn't last long for several reasons but it taught me a lesson not to get involved with men that are much younger then myself.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
montemonte: Hi Tom....Do you think that would work in reverse? When I was 50 I dated someone that was 22 years younger. It didn't last long for several reasons but it taught me a lesson not to get involved with men that are much younger then myself.
I think a man with age has the experience to be considerate and tolerant with a younger partner, of course this depends on the people involved. I was lucky that my partner needs an older person and I was able to satisfy her needs in this way. We are happy.
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is age important to you ??(Vote Below)
but i see some interesting polls and forums about age and a real interesting one . .would you want a virgin to be your wife...lol
the votes tended to disagree with the comments lol
anyway . .im back . hey halfpint . .i hope ur happy .
have a good weekend