Is singlehood good or bad ? ( Archived) (72)

Oct 5, 2012 7:22 PM CSTIs singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots
GreenBootsGreenBootsBuenos Aires, Argentina8 Threads 6 Polls 202 Posts

Is singlehood good or bad ?(Vote Below)

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Yes.
32
34%
No.
11
12%
I don't know.
13
14%
I don't care.
9
10%
It's a conundrum.
29
31%
Total Votes
94
People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?
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Oct 5, 2012 8:11 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?

myself enjoy being alone.but ya,it not healthy to live alone forever..at least for me it was frightening one when i used to live alone and i got ill,that time i understood why people marry..
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Oct 5, 2012 8:23 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
When single you can achieve a lot and it can be very interesting and lots of fun but then it doesn't beat being with someone with whom you get along fine and both love being together.
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Oct 5, 2012 9:07 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?


Singlehood is neither good nor bad. It is what it is. Some prefer singlehood, and some, like me, prefer to be married.

Interesting, though, that in Genesis in the Bible, God said, "It is not good for man to be alone." I guess that means marriage, which I am incredibly in favor of. Let the marriages begin.
angel
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Oct 5, 2012 9:10 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?


I didn't vote, because there was no choice for "Neither good nor bad".
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Oct 5, 2012 9:13 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots
GreenBootsGreenBootsBuenos Aires, Argentina8 Threads 6 Polls 202 Posts
A man eager to be married? how rare... anywho... be cautious and be sure to get a prenup.
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Oct 5, 2012 9:29 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots: A man eager to be married? how rare... anywho... be cautious and be sure to get a prenup.


Hmmm...well, I guess that eliminates the scammers.
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Oct 5, 2012 9:32 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Onlyguy: When single you can achieve a lot and it can be very interesting and lots of fun but then it doesn't beat being with someone with whom you get along fine and both love being together.
head banger agree with this

it really felt good to single after I got over the shock of my divorce - I have have grown a lot - learned a lot and have had a chance to become my own person

but there are times when it would be nice to have a partner - or at least someone to have sleepovers and movies withgrin
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Oct 5, 2012 10:07 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
GreenBoots
GreenBootsGreenBootsBuenos Aires, Argentina8 Threads 6 Polls 202 Posts
Love bots like 'Gigolo Joe' (Jude Law in A.I) can't get here soon enough...
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Oct 5, 2012 11:49 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Lively_Waters
Lively_WatersLively_WatersMooresville, North Carolina USA1 Threads 176 Posts
strict: myself enjoy being alone.but ya,it not healthy to live alone forever..at least for me it was frightening one when i used to live alone and i got ill,that time i understood why people marry..


I agree with you end enjoy my solitude. I don't think singlehood can be declared either good or bad...just what it is to each individual person. And, there are both positive and negative aspects of a single life.

If this is where I am right now, I'm not going to put my life on "hold" waiting for someone to come along. I have made a life for myself and intend to 'grow where I'm planted.'peace wink
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Oct 5, 2012 11:53 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
Lively_Waters: I agree with you end enjoy my solitude. I don't think singlehood can be declared either good or bad...just what it is to each individual person. And, there are both positive and negative aspects of a single life.

If this is where I am right now, I'm not going to put my life on "hold" waiting for someone to come along. I have made a life for myself and intend to 'grow where I'm planted.'
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Oct 6, 2012 12:03 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
There are more and more single people living on their own these days makes you wonder about human nature I find it rather confusing.

For example a couple are together 20 plus years and then it's over just like that. I often think what's it all about Alfie confused dunno :blues
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Oct 7, 2012 12:14 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
curly28: There are more and more single people living on their own these days makes you wonder about human nature I find it rather confusing.

For example a couple are together 20 plus years and then it's over just like that. I often think what's it all about Alfie

I know the feeling but look at as an opportunity to find yourself, you never know you might meet someone in the process.
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Oct 7, 2012 7:04 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
LuckysEdge
LuckysEdgeLuckysEdgeMississauga, Ontario Canada18 Posts
I'm trying to achieve a happy medium. Is there one? That's the conundrum!!dunno
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Oct 7, 2012 7:28 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Someone once said, "If you need to be married, you should remain single. If you don't need marriage, you should get married." What he meant by that is that a needy person who marries will just make their problems worse by marrying. a person who is perfectly happy being single will make the best marriage partner because this type
of person is comfortable in their own skin and they know what they want out of life. This makes total sense to me. If a person thinks that marriage will "complete" them, they might not be a good marriage partner. If the person is complete within, they make a much better marriage partner.
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Oct 7, 2012 7:54 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?


In my past, whenever long live-in type relationships ended, I would always tend to feel lonely and would actively look for someone else to fill the void.

But this time I've had a decade to get used to being single and it would take a lightning bolt to make me ever consider living with someone again.

That's not to say it couldn't happen. But I'm not looking for it.
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Oct 7, 2012 8:12 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?
who me ? Ok here's my 2 since worth.1997 was a good year 4 that sort of thing,ur hot
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Oct 8, 2012 9:59 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Maybe it's better to just live together. If you stay inj love you will stay together. If not a flimsy piece of paper won't bind you together.
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Oct 8, 2012 9:59 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
house_trained
house_trainedhouse_trainedJönköping, Jonkoping Sweden1 Posts
It's good and bad. It gives you time to yourself, and gives you chance to get your priorities right.
But after time it can be really bad and lonesome.
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Oct 8, 2012 10:13 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
"Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then."

~Katharine Hepburn~
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Oct 8, 2012 10:22 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
2intrigued: "Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then."

~Katharine Hepburn~

"Long distance relationships rarely work."

~galrads~
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Oct 8, 2012 10:28 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
GreenBoots: People say it's not healthy to be single forever... what do u think ?
being single is working fine with me for a now,but forever would be extremly unhealthy.
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Oct 8, 2012 10:28 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
galrads: "Long distance relationships rarely work."

~galrads~


"Precisely"

~2intrigued~ grin
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Oct 8, 2012 10:57 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
2intrigued: "Precisely"

~2intrigued~


~" wave "~
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Oct 8, 2012 10:59 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
galrads: ~" "~


~"hug"~ giggle
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Oct 8, 2012 11:11 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
if i had money i would not be lonely
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Oct 14, 2012 5:27 AM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Christina2012
Christina2012Christina2012*******, Michigan USA2 Posts
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, Good or Bad, yes or no? If I reply yes, am I saying it is good or bad? Hahaha. Being single is good for the soul. It beats, being with anyone, just to be with someone.
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Oct 14, 2012 2:08 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
2intrigued: "Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then."

~Katharine Hepburn~
laugh good one! applause
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Oct 14, 2012 2:12 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Single hood is way better than a bad relationship
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Oct 14, 2012 2:33 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
Jillll: Single hood is way better than a bad relationship


As much as desire to be with someone - I have to say I agree with you completely. I think I am less willing to compromise on peace & happiness now as I am a little older. I'm not in it for the stuggle and "work" the relationship has to be on the balance a happy timeapplause
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Oct 14, 2012 2:33 PM CST Is singlehood good or bad ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Human nature for genders means coupling,and doesn't mean bonding and living together as a couple for the rest of you life,just because religious and social laws say so.
curly28: There are more and more single people living on their own these days makes you wonder about human nature I find it rather confusing.

For example a couple are together 20 plus years and then it's over just like that. I often think what's it all about Alfie
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