I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!
I've already readjusted to being single and I don't really see that changing again. I have a very good life, in general, and a partner (not a marriage) might be the cherry on top, but you know it is... the cherry isn't what makes the black forest cake. So I agree with you. Finding someone is definitely not a priority.
Scubadiva: I've already readjusted to being single and I don't really see that changing again. I have a very good life, in general, and a partner (not a marriage) might be the cherry on top, but you know it is... the cherry isn't what makes the black forest cake. So I agree with you. Finding someone is definitely not a priority.
I'm tending to agree with the Partner (not a marriage) comment. I like the thought of finding someone to do things with, but then we go to our separate homes when we are done. Is this the definition of Friends With Benefits?
Its true...Ive been single for a long time now and I have to say I like it. Theres something abut single life that is so easy. Im open to a relationship if it were to happen but at this point, it would really take someone special to make me want to change my status.
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!
I've been single 1 yr after a 17 yr marriage, I can truly say that I'm LOVING it, but like you I would like someone in my life, but it's not something that I'm losing sleep over.....good luck, hope you find what your looking for!!!!
I don't want to get to that point again tbh. Yes, you do get used to it and I have no problems being single and never was with someone just for the sake of not being on my own, but if you have a GOOD relationship, it does beat being single for me.
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
I have been single for 10 years now and am quiet sure I could not handle another relationship , it is such hard work and at the end of it all it seems like very little rewards from it all and to be frank a complete waste of time and energy makes me feel tired thinking about all the years I put into the last marriage being my second one to come out of it feeling drained tired and unhappy. I wouldn't be prepared to put myself in that position ever again.
Single life is great I don't have any baggage I can please myself don't have to answer to anyone. I can spend quality time with my friends , go wherever I want to. Why on earth would I want to be tied down again I don't think so. I am def happy with my single lifestyle.
To me marriage is for when two people who want to breed..... babies and need each other to make them and raise them , strange though a lot of the time when these babies have grown up & left home those two people are totally lost and look at each other and say what's it all about Alfie " who The Bleep are you" lol BUT! it is true and a lot of the time they separate and divorce.
The world is a different place to live these days loads of people young and older are single and lovin it
I am single for a long time and it doesnt bothered to me at all u know what is nice being single u dont need to worry what kind of underwear you are wearing
L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK1,117 posts
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!
No, actually, I'm very serious. I'm enjoying life now, having the freedom to do as I want when I want with no nagging. LOL. As I said, I'm not opposed to a relationship should the right lady come my way but a relationship is definitely not high on my priority list.
Jan 8, 2013 9:30 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
marijhielaiking, New Territories Hong Kong43 Posts
marijhielaiking, New Territories Hong Kong43 posts
yes you are right...im learning to be myself this is the real life accept it positively...im enjoying and happy as i take good care myself....but if someone will accept me as who i am and we both understand each other then....why not to have a happy relationship?????
marijhie: yes you are right...im learning to be myself this is the real life accept it positively...im enjoying and happy as i take good care myself....but if someone will accept me as who i am and we both understand each other then....why not to have a happy relationship?????
most of the time, after having the relationship people find mismatches and faults of their partners. Nobody in this world we could find 100% match to us. If we could accept it,try to make him understand about his faults using good strategies and adjust ourselves to the situation we could have a strong relationship till the death.
L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK1,117 posts
NecaRob: No, actually, I'm very serious. I'm enjoying life now, having the freedom to do as I want when I want with no nagging. LOL. As I said, I'm not opposed to a relationship should the right lady come my way but a relationship is definitely not high on my priority list.
may be not now a relationship is not the high priority on ur list... but sooner or later gonna come up...(lets hope u meet the "RIGHT ONE") almost 3 yrs im single,and id say im happy like that LOL sometimes enjoy night stands LOL,but sometimes i feel something is missing...
Always got used to whatever I'm in. Been into relationships, each failed but learned a gamut of lessons. I tend to look at the happy memories more than the regrettable ones. Being single, I enjoy the freedom that comes with it. But at the end of the day, there is always the fear of growing old alone.
Migsy: I am single for a long time and it doesnt bothered to me at all u know what is nice being single u dont need to worry what kind of underwear you are wearing
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!
Personally, each state has its benefits and its downfalls. There is never an ideal. We are designed to interact with each other. We are designed to be communicative (why do sites like this enjoy success otherwise?)
There is good in being single. There is bad in being single. There is good in being in a relationship and there is bad in being in a relationship.
It what we choose to be content with that matters. It always comes down to our choice. Not our feeling.
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