The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree? ( Archived) (25)

Jan 6, 2013 11:41 AM CSTThe longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
NecaRob
NecaRobNecaRobNew Castle, Pennsylvania, USA10 Threads 10 Polls 39 Posts

The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?(Vote Below)

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No, I still have hope of finding someone.
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Yes, I'm learning to live with myself.
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58%
Total Votes
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I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!
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Jan 6, 2013 11:49 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
I've already readjusted to being single and I don't really see that changing again. I have a very good life, in general, and a partner (not a marriage) might be the cherry on top, but you know it is... the cherry isn't what makes the black forest cake. So I agree with you. Finding someone is definitely not a priority.
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Jan 6, 2013 11:59 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
NecaRob
NecaRobNecaRobNew Castle, Pennsylvania USA10 Threads 10 Polls 39 Posts
Scubadiva: I've already readjusted to being single and I don't really see that changing again. I have a very good life, in general, and a partner (not a marriage) might be the cherry on top, but you know it is... the cherry isn't what makes the black forest cake. So I agree with you. Finding someone is definitely not a priority.


I'm tending to agree with the Partner (not a marriage) comment. I like the thought of finding someone to do things with, but then we go to our separate homes when we are done. Is this the definition of Friends With Benefits?
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Jan 6, 2013 12:26 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Its true...Ive been single for a long time now and I have to say I like it. Theres something abut single life that is so easy. Im open to a relationship if it were to happen but at this point, it would really take someone special to make me want to change my status. wine
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Jan 6, 2013 3:08 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Single............is delicious
Partner...........is nutricious
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Jan 6, 2013 5:47 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!


I've been single 1 yr after a 17 yr marriage, I can truly say that I'm LOVING it, but like you I would like someone in my life, but it's not something that I'm losing sleep over.....good luck, hope you find what your looking for!!!!

cheers hug
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Jan 6, 2013 6:02 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I don't want to get to that point again tbh. Yes, you do get used to it and I have no problems being single and never was with someone just for the sake of not being on my own, but if you have a GOOD relationship, it does beat being single for me. smitten
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Jan 6, 2013 6:25 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
I have been single for 10 years now and am quiet sure I could not handle another relationship , it is such hard work and at the end of it all it seems like very little rewards from it all and to be frank a complete waste of time and energy makes me feel tired thinking about all the years I put into the last marriage being my second one to come out of it feeling drained tired and unhappy. I wouldn't be prepared to put myself in that position ever again.

Single life is great I don't have any baggage I can please myself don't have to answer to anyone. I can spend quality time with my friends , go wherever I want to. Why on earth would I want to be tied down again I don't think so. I am def happy with my single lifestyle. thumbs up very happy


To me marriage is for when two people who want to breed..... babies and need each other to make them and raise them , strange though a lot of the time when these babies have grown up & left home those two people are totally lost and look at each other and say what's it all about Alfie " who The Bleep are you" lol BUT! it is true and a lot of the time they separate and divorce.

The world is a different place to live these days loads of people young and older are single and lovin it thumbs up
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Jan 6, 2013 10:18 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
you need to vist a castle my friend handshake then that way you know for sure handshake
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Jan 7, 2013 4:15 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
I am single for a long time and it doesnt bothered to me at all u know what is nice being single u dont need to worry what kind of underwear you are wearing
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Jan 7, 2013 4:33 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
L_B76
L_B76L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 1 Polls 1,117 Posts
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!

i hope u r kidding....confused confused
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Jan 8, 2013 12:44 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
NecaRob
NecaRobNecaRobNew Castle, Pennsylvania USA10 Threads 10 Polls 39 Posts
L_B76: i hope u r kidding....


No, actually, I'm very serious. I'm enjoying life now, having the freedom to do as I want when I want with no nagging. LOL. As I said, I'm not opposed to a relationship should the right lady come my way but a relationship is definitely not high on my priority list.
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Jan 8, 2013 12:47 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
ParamaSathya
ParamaSathyaParamaSathyaColombo, Western Sri Lanka21 Threads 16 Polls 513 Posts
single life ..less attachments and bonds lightbulb lightbulb angel
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Jan 8, 2013 9:30 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
marijhie
marijhiemarijhielaiking, New Territories Hong Kong43 Posts
yes you are right...im learning to be myself this is the real life accept it positively...im enjoying and happy as i take good care myself....but if someone will accept me as who i am and we both understand each other then....why not to have a happy relationship?????kiss kiss kiss banana banana banana
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Jan 13, 2013 12:52 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
ParamaSathya
ParamaSathyaParamaSathyaColombo, Western Sri Lanka21 Threads 16 Polls 513 Posts
marijhie: yes you are right...im learning to be myself this is the real life accept it positively...im enjoying and happy as i take good care myself....but if someone will accept me as who i am and we both understand each other then....why not to have a happy relationship?????


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most of the time, after having the relationship people find mismatches and faults of their partners. Nobody in this world we could find 100% match to us. If we could accept it,try to make him understand about his faults using good strategies and adjust ourselves to the situation we could have a strong relationship till the death.
angel
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Jan 13, 2013 1:13 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
No, I like to meet someone someday, someone that love me for who iam ,, lol smitten
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Jan 13, 2013 1:59 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
L_B76
L_B76L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 1 Polls 1,117 Posts
NecaRob: No, actually, I'm very serious. I'm enjoying life now, having the freedom to do as I want when I want with no nagging. LOL. As I said, I'm not opposed to a relationship should the right lady come my way but a relationship is definitely not high on my priority list.

may be not now a relationship is not the high priority on ur list...
but sooner or later gonna come up...(lets hope u meet the "RIGHT ONE")
almost 3 yrs im single,and id say im happy like that LOL sometimes enjoy night stands LOL,but sometimes i feel something is missing...

just hope there is the "Right One" for me..laugh laugh
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Jan 13, 2013 2:29 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Who's your Nutritionist?????
hoolet: Single............is delicious
Partner...........is nutricious
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Jan 13, 2013 2:31 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
L_B76
L_B76L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 1 Polls 1,117 Posts
chris27292729: Who's your Nutritionist?????

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 14, 2013 10:12 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Papermate
PapermatePapermatelos angeles, California USA3 Threads 92 Posts
Always got used to whatever I'm in. Been into relationships, each failed but learned a gamut of lessons. I tend to look at the happy memories more than the regrettable ones. Being single, I enjoy the freedom that comes with it. But at the end of the day, there is always the fear of growing old alone.
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Jan 14, 2013 10:20 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Migsy: I am single for a long time and it doesnt bothered to me at all u know what is nice being single u dont need to worry what kind of underwear you are wearing
grin thumbs up
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Jan 14, 2013 10:23 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
shaaz_khan
shaaz_khanshaaz_khanglasgow, Pakistan5 Threads 2 Polls 306 Posts
wink
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Jan 25, 2013 1:46 AM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
I_am_your_Man
I_am_your_ManI_am_your_ManSydney, New South Wales Australia6 Posts
very true honey that's why it is working out for us
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Jan 25, 2013 10:08 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
NecaRob: I'm finding that the longer I am single, the more I enjoy it. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. I still hope that I will meet someone, but it seems that it's not a priority in my life anymore. Everyone! Please give me your thoughts, your feelings about this. Have a great day/night!


Personally, each state has its benefits and its downfalls. There is never an ideal. We are designed to interact with each other. We are designed to be communicative (why do sites like this enjoy success otherwise?)

There is good in being single. There is bad in being single. There is good in being in a relationship and there is bad in being in a relationship.

It what we choose to be content with that matters. It always comes down to our choice. Not our feeling.
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Jan 25, 2013 10:18 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
I'm the longer single , the remain it gets easier to single?confused dunno grin








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Jan 25, 2013 10:29 PM CST The longer I'm single, the easier it gets to remain single. Agree?
yup prolly true
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