its called LUST....... .....some woman can ........handle it.........others chose not too. but wished they had......being on a site like this, can have its drawbacks.......good morning.
truheart1941: its called LUST....... .....some woman can ........handle it.........others chose not too. but wished they had......being on a site like this, can have its drawbacks.......good morning.
Yep...the thread author has been misled though. He declared his love for her.
In most cases it is just men getting carried away with lustful thoughts, and sure, women are guilty of it too.
There is the odd exception, a success story emerges occasionally.
Mar 30, 2014 5:07 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
kettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 Posts
kettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 posts
No offence intended {though unfortunately it may come across like that .{so sorry}
How the heck can you fall in love over the internet .
If anyone was to proclaim this to me i would cut off all communication on the grounds that they were possibly mentally unstable . { and if they were genuine ,then think they were in a very vunerable state of mind wich can be connected to other on going mental health problems .
Half the worlds loopy without this none sense as well .
OutsideofBali: There's really no point in trying to figure out "why" he did this to you. The better question would be "what" are you going to do about it?
I feel meeting a person in real life before taking any love proclamations seriously and into your heart would be a great first step.
kettleson: No offence intended {though unfortunately it may come across like that .{so sorry}
How the heck can you fall in love over the internet .
If anyone was to proclaim this to me i would cut off all communication on the grounds that they were possibly mentally unstable . { and if they were genuine ,then think they were in a very vunerable state of mind wich can be connected to other on going mental health problems .
Half the worlds loopy without this none sense as well .
That sums it up really brilliant
I used to think like this until it hit me and I fell in love over the internet. After temporarily loosing and regaining my mind I'm convinced that my thoughts were accurate in the first place.
Mar 30, 2014 5:55 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
kettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 Posts
kettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 posts
OutsideofBali: That sums it up really brilliant
I used to think like this until it hit me and I fell in love over the internet. After temporarily loosing and regaining my mind I'm convinced that my thoughts were accurate in the first place.
I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well . Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }
But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .
These people being those who just want to be loved by some one , But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .
What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .
kettleson: I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well . Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }
But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .
These people being those who just want to be loved by some one , But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .
What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .
I say don't put any stock in mail I love you's... You have to meet someone and have some type of relationship.. We can spend all day trying to figure out why people do what the do and say... Good Luck...
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
kettleson: I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well . Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }
But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .
These people being those who just want to be loved by some one , But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .
What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .
This also depends on what they are contacting others for as I see it. A few years back I got involved with a lady on CS. We did meet and shortly after we moved in together. It was a good thing that eventually fell apart. BUT we were both on CS while together and it was no secret. WHY?? you ask.. and that returns me to my opening statement. Its not that they are contacting others.. its why. She and I both made a few decent online friends and we stayed on CS to stay in touch. Nothing more. Online is no different than life. There are real people and there are (for lack of a better word) liars. There are cheats and fakes, scammers and users. The trick is figuring out the difference. Personally I have met one person from here with no regrets and I have had quite a few say all the good stuff with only their own greed in mind. I as well have a few good friends that e-mail back and forth from here. Guard your heart and only the ones worth having it will put out the effort and time to get to it.... just my two cents worth!
SunshineWV: I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.
Most votes go to player, yet no player would proclaim his love on a dating site. He could be an arsehole, a cheater and completely heartless but above all what makes a player a player is his ability to play the game.
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