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Mar 30, 2014 2:54 AM CSTwhy is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
SunshineWV
SunshineWVSunshineWVgreenville, Virginia, USA1 Threads 1 Polls 11 Posts

why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people(Vote Below)

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cheaters
8
11%
heartless
2
3%
players
42
59%
users
3
4%
scamers
12
17%
married
4
6%
Total Votes
71
I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.
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Mar 30, 2014 3:16 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
I never said I Loved You!uh oh cswelcome laugh
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Mar 30, 2014 3:19 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
I do sympathise with you, but this site is a revolving candy shop.

Too many temptations.

moping
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Mar 30, 2014 3:27 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Carmengetme: I do sympathise with you, but this site is a revolving candy shop.

Too many temptations.


So Very True, It takes time to find your Rainbow!handshake
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Mar 30, 2014 3:30 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
HotrodLarrys: So Very True, It takes time to find your Rainbow!


True...forget about the pot of gold.

The rainbow is plenty...handshake
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Mar 30, 2014 3:39 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Carmengetme: True...forget about the pot of gold.

The rainbow is plenty...



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Mar 30, 2014 3:51 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
its called LUST.......grin .....some woman can ........handle it.........others chose not too. but wished they had......being on a site like this, can have its drawbacks.......good morning.innocent
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Mar 30, 2014 3:59 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
truheart1941: its called LUST....... .....some woman can ........handle it.........others chose not too. but wished they had......being on a site like this, can have its drawbacks.......good morning.


Yep...the thread author has been misled though. He declared his love for her.

In most cases it is just men getting carried away with lustful thoughts, and sure, women are guilty of it too.

There is the odd exception, a success story emerges occasionally.
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Mar 30, 2014 4:00 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Carmengetme: Yep...the thread author has been misled though. He declared his love for her.

In most cases it is just men getting carried away with lustful thoughts, and sure, women are guilty of it too.

There is the odd exception, a success story emerges occasionally.
yes......I have hopes.....wink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 30, 2014 4:15 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
truheart1941: yes......I have hopes.....


I wish you lived Closer Paw, I would fix you up with Something

Someone..... ELSE


lips rolling on the floor laughing wow
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Mar 30, 2014 4:19 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
HotrodLarrys: I wish you lived Closer Paw, I would fix you up with Something

Someone..... ELSE
really. applause applause applause ..........giggle giggle giggle thanks
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Mar 30, 2014 4:21 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
A good rule of thumb is: If you haven't met them, they probably don't love you.
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Mar 30, 2014 4:24 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
truheart1941: really. ..........

You may find your Pot of Gold!

wow Allway's keep that hope alive!shimmy giggle
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Mar 30, 2014 4:28 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
mollybaby: A good rule of thumb is: If you haven't met them, they probably don't love you.
morning Molly.....yes good Irish logic.......blues rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 30, 2014 4:41 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
SunshineWV: I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.


because they want to have more than one lover at the same time grin all of them are the bad ones, the best way is no contact and to end all the relations.
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Mar 30, 2014 4:47 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
mollybaby: A good rule of thumb is: If you haven't met them, they probably don't love you.



I have not met You!flirty giggle hug wave
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Mar 30, 2014 4:54 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
OutsideofBali
OutsideofBaliOutsideofBaliBaden, Aargau Switzerland112 Posts
SunshineWV: I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.


There's really no point in trying to figure out "why" he did this to you. The better question would be "what" are you going to do about it?

I feel meeting a person in real life before taking any love proclamations seriously and into your heart would be a great first step.
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Mar 30, 2014 5:07 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
kettleson
kettlesonkettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 Posts
No offence intended {though unfortunately it may come across like that .{so sorry}

How the heck can you fall in love over the internet .

If anyone was to proclaim this to me i would cut off all communication on the grounds that they were possibly mentally unstable . { and if they were genuine ,then think they were in a very vunerable state of mind wich can be connected to other on going mental health problems .

Half the worlds loopy without this none sense as well .
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Mar 30, 2014 5:09 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
OutsideofBali: There's really no point in trying to figure out "why" he did this to you. The better question would be "what" are you going to do about it?

I feel meeting a person in real life before taking any love proclamations seriously and into your heart would be a great first step.


Very well said!handshake wink
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Mar 30, 2014 5:14 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Ask Ali, he is the resident expert at this.
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Mar 30, 2014 5:19 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
mollybaby: A good rule of thumb is: If you haven't met them, they probably don't love you.


What she said thumbs up
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Mar 30, 2014 5:23 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
OutsideofBali
OutsideofBaliOutsideofBaliBaden, Aargau Switzerland112 Posts
kettleson: No offence intended {though unfortunately it may come across like that .{so sorry}

How the heck can you fall in love over the internet .

If anyone was to proclaim this to me i would cut off all communication on the grounds that they were possibly mentally unstable . { and if they were genuine ,then think they were in a very vunerable state of mind wich can be connected to other on going mental health problems .

Half the worlds loopy without this none sense as well .


That sums it up really brilliant thumbs up

I used to think like this until it hit me and I fell in love over the internet. After temporarily loosing and regaining my mind I'm convinced that my thoughts were accurate in the first place.
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Mar 30, 2014 5:55 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
kettleson
kettlesonkettlesonFAR FROM Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK414 Posts
OutsideofBali: That sums it up really brilliant

I used to think like this until it hit me and I fell in love over the internet. After temporarily loosing and regaining my mind I'm convinced that my thoughts were accurate in the first place.


I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well .
Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }

But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .

These people being those who just want to be loved by some one ,
But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .

What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .thumbs up
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Mar 30, 2014 6:26 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
kettleson: I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well .
Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }

But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .

These people being those who just want to be loved by some one ,
But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .

What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .



Yay. night out! cheering

When and where?grin
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Mar 30, 2014 6:29 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
night out seem a good idea grin
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Mar 30, 2014 6:33 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Nakitende
NakitendeNakitendeBaden Baden, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1 Posts
SunshineWV: I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.

All the above are correctuh oh
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Mar 30, 2014 7:50 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Squeezie1958
Squeezie1958Squeezie1958inglis, Florida USA4 Threads 484 Posts
I say don't put any stock in mail I love you's... You have to meet someone and have some type of relationship.. We can spend all day trying to figure out why people do what the do and say... Good Luck...
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Mar 30, 2014 8:03 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
thumbs up
mollybaby: A good rule of thumb is: If you haven't met them, they probably don't love you.
Yes could be she needs to read the scammer stories on here or google romance scamsdunno
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Mar 30, 2014 8:12 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
kettleson: I think there are some really nice and sincere peeps on the internet , but also some very vunerable peeps as well .
Chronic Loneliness plays a big part in some becoming a victim . {thats no fault of theres and would be good if they could get over this situation }

But like we know there are some people who will take advantage of these people .

These people being those who just want to be loved by some one ,
But they do need to try and wisen up a bit .

What they need is a nite out with us lot , and make some friends .


makes sense...thumbs up
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Mar 30, 2014 8:23 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
This also depends on what they are contacting others for as I see it. A few years back I got involved with a lady on CS. We did meet and shortly after we moved in together. It was a good thing that eventually fell apart. BUT we were both on CS while together and it was no secret. WHY?? you ask.. and that returns me to my opening statement. Its not that they are contacting others.. its why. She and I both made a few decent online friends and we stayed on CS to stay in touch. Nothing more. Online is no different than life. There are real people and there are (for lack of a better word) liars. There are cheats and fakes, scammers and users. The trick is figuring out the difference. Personally I have met one person from here with no regrets and I have had quite a few say all the good stuff with only their own greed in mind. I as well have a few good friends that e-mail back and forth from here. Guard your heart and only the ones worth having it will put out the effort and time to get to it.... just my two cents worth!
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Mar 30, 2014 9:41 AM CST why is it that you meet someone on CS they proclaim their love and then keep contacting other people
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
SunshineWV: I had this to happen and wondered what other throughts were.


Most votes go to player, yet no player would proclaim his love on a dating site. He could be an arsehole, a cheater and completely heartless but above all what makes a player a player is his ability to play the game.

I vote for desperate whino.
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