Is being hyper sensitive a negative or a positive trait? ( Archived) (57)

It's not important what I see it as, Kettle.

I'm interested how babe sees it.

Again, there are very specific (and terribly clever ) reasons why I've asked babe1994 the questions I have.

You and Molly just gave me a perfect opportunity to tap into babe's possible reactions, that's all.

With respect to the other person who may have gone off line ,
And i do mean this with respect as already said ,

The worst thing they can do is to try and solve any personal issues they have on a World Wide internet .

They should seek private health consultations with Medical Professionals , not try and seek any help out of a Comic .
It will do them more harm than good .

We are not the professionals ,

We maybe able to give friendly advice ,but that is all .

Maybe some know more than you realise and maybe not everyone can afford to access health consultations with medical professionals.

But I do agree with you, nearly every single response on this thread is going to directly feed and exacerbate the OP's difficulties, rather than help her resolve them.

Jac ,{im not having a personal pop at you ,as i think you know }

Maybe some people dont have access to health care but an Open Forum with access to everyone is a very insecure unsafe place to get comments that some may not like or be looking for , even do harm to vulnerable people with health problems as it isnt like a 1 to 1, and progress being personally monitored by other Care Officials .

Thats all im saying . Just think its common sense . {jmho}on a serious matter .

And that would apply to all responses on all threads, I agree.

Well maybe your rite , but on a so un-serious site like this , maybe there are other sites more beneficial than this that are more specialised .

I think what you're saying Kettle, is that my responses are potentially damaging to vulnerable people without professional supervision, but your responses are not.

This is not a professional site. I can respond as I please, just like everyone else. I can evaluate whether my responses are appropriate, or not, just like you do. Neither of us really knows what impact our responses will have on the OP. We just respond how each of us thinks is best.

Well Jac , youve just gone all Negative and read my comment all wrong , "Your responses are damaging and mine are not " ?

Wich part of my comment did you read that ,?

There you go , reading into things that are not there Jac ,

Thats the Danger of you and i not being professionals .

And your comment about you can respond how you like also goes for every one else who responded with there comments .
Every one has that right including you .

But please dont try and take me down a road you maybe aiming at , ive been in cyber land as long if not longer than yourself , maybe even this site .

Chill Out .

Maybe you need to seek some professional help with anger management.


I wish you luck.

This is a serious thread for serious people saying serious things
But as its seriously the weekend lets go seriously down the pub and have a serious Drink ,

Slainte

I do think that a lot of people get upset about things said to them.

If you can't seem to snap out of it and actually realise yourself that this is a problem for you, either kick yourself seriously in the bum and try to change it or talk to someone who can help you.

Best of luck.

I must have missed something.

It was your comments (directly responding to me) talking about vulnerable people, professional healthcare and professional supervision that lead to me me thinking that you were directly responding to my comments.

Personally, I don't think this is a professional issue when someone asks a question on this site, as no one is getting paid for their posts.

What I do think is that by asking the question in the first place, the OP is evaluating herself based upon other people's opinions of her, rather than her opinion of herself. Ergo, if anyone offers their opinion, they are feeding her tendency to rely on other's opinions of her, rather than her own opinions of herself. It becomes all very cyclical and doesn't resolve any discomfort, or distress she's feeling.

By asking the OP questions my intention was to open a space where the OP could decide for herself the positive (if any), or negative (if any) aspects of her emotional sensitivity; which bits are working for her that she might want to keep, which bits aren't that she might want to change.

I was thinking that myself earlier {lol}

What a Pantomime

It is though a bit dodgy on a site like this though Jac .
But hopefully myself and you and others would help those that needed it .

Also the none cyber world were we all tread as well have lots of situations were we dont look away but try and help those who are in need .

Best wishes