p.s. if in this poll joking around is required here is mine to throw into the bunch...and i quote...if a man is alone in the woods does that still mean he is wrong!....lol
sweetiefireball: ahhhh no way to do so happiness comes from within....and even if a person could do things for another....all of the time...no way...life is not like that...it definetely was a list of how to enhance a relationship...again ea one is dif....what works for one chick does not work for another...
shadi1986: How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy All the Time
we should know these things that every girl love it ...
There is no way, no how to make a girl happy all the time. It is impossible, because if somebody is searching happiness in others, that person will never be happy.
If the person has happiness within, then it is shared. That person is happy with or without the partner.
Your question shows, you really don't know women very well. They are often fickle, vane, self centered beings, that mask their vanity, and ego narcissistic tendencies by making herself hard to get, by flirting in order to get attention, and thus she feels better, by making somebody jump over hoops. It pleases them for a short moment, that they got such power over a guy, that he will do anything for her. - - - I don't date girls, I honestly, don't even care much for them.
Who needs all that emotional, narcissistic, self centered drama.
I would recommend, that you seek out a woman. ( Some I am lucky to know on this site, you know ladies who you are K and P L - Lori ). Who is way above such creatures, called "girls". . . . ( Age has nothing to do with it here, because I am talking about that difference, that separates those few women, and that vast number of "girls". OR as I like to call them - - "Little stuck up princesses". . . .
Why would anyone want to try, and please such a creature, that will not be happy with anything ever. . . .
Besides, even when it comes to making a woman happy all the time. It is unrealistic. We are all human, we all make mistakes. There is no perfection. So stop seeking it.
If she is not happy with the way you are, is she is not putting equal amount of work into the relationship, as "you". Then she is not worth it anyway. . . ( Goes both ways, why a woman would try and make the man happy, if he is a judgmental, criticising moron ). Women - - your "love and care" will NOT change him.
Obstinance_Works: Go out with a beautiful and thick girl. Thick people are always happy. And the other great thing about her being thick is that she'll never question why everybody's so nice to her. She'll never be like "oh I feel so shallow and empty on the inside" no, she'll be like "uhuhhuhuh everyone likes me".
Does this hold true in the converse? Should I be looking for a handsome and thick man? Now where would I find such a rare specimen?
LadyLori: Well, aren't you too funny! And while I'm confident enough to say I do find many ladies attractive, I only go for gents!
As do I find many ladies attractive, even if they have been born before world war one -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ( He whispers, scared, ready to run for his life ) Like you .
54xmax: As do I find many ladies attractive, even if they have been born before world war one -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ( He whispers, scared, ready to run for his life ) Like you .
RE: This comment and you telling me in the previous post to lay off O_W: You are slowly moving up on my bad list!
54xmax: Yes, so very true. That was my case - - - She was in the end, never happy. I was stupidly in love, I even wanted to marry her. She even said yes, yet in the end, nothing I did, was good enough. I went way and beyond the call of duty one might say. I also learned allot from that experience.
After I put her through university, made a nice apartment for us on the upper floor of their hose. As the idea was to stay in the house of her parents, because it was big. ( I even had a great in laws actually. Very good people. ) - - - When all was done, her diploma in her hand. She said
I think we are not compatible in character, you don't earn enough money in the army to give me all I want. I think we should break up.
So, I took it as a man should. I simply said
"Ok, if this is what you want. So be it." I simply left.
No pleading, no arguing, nothing. Why would I plead, and try to stay with her, if she didn't want to.
Later I learned from people that thought I knew about it, that she was cheating on me with a guy, who had much much more money than I did. That she was with him basically since I started making the apartment ( about 6 months ).
Our friends all knew, and her best friends helped her to cheat on me. I had 12 hour shifts in the Air Traffic Surveillance, and Intercept Centre, then I went working on the apartment. I tried to make her every wish to come true. As the OP said, to really make her "happy".
The lesson was. . . You cannot make anyone happy, if they are not happy within. Nor should I ever fight for a woman, if she does not want to be with me.
Yet if a man still tries to be with a woman after she broke it off in some cases, actually in allot of the cases, her ego and vanity will be pleased. That he is putting an effort, and is "fighting for her". Even thou the guy has no chance in hell. As long as he tries.( I am talking here about the levels of normality, and not about stalking and obsessions. That is a whole different story ).
How many women break up with guys, then they are offended that they didn't fight for them. Thus showing their "true love". What a joke. Either you are with somebody, and you care for each other. Or you break up, and go your own separate ways. All these mind games. No way, no how.
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