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Jul 6, 2014 2:51 AM CSTIs there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur

Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur(Vote Below)

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Yes, “the one” is in a relationship with another
16
42%
Yes, “the one” is not interested in me
10
26%
No, “the one” meant for me will never get away
8
21%
No, there is no such thing as “the one”
4
11%
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Yesterday, I read an article about Lori Loughlin and John Stamos on WebproNews that made me wonder about missed opportunities… How many of us wonder about “the one who got away”?

The article, written by Amanda Crum, read as follows:

…Lori Loughlin and John Stamos were an onscreen couple for many years while working on Full House, but both claim they never got together in real life beyond a date or two in their younger days. And it wasn’t for lack of trying; Stamos has called Loughlin “the one that got away”, and the actress–who is now happily married–says it came down to timing.

“I was married at the time I was doing the show to my first husband,” Loughlin said earlier this year. “Literally when I was getting divorced, he met Rebecca .”

Stamos has acknowledged that she is a happily married woman now, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t think about what might have been.

“We were friends, we were on the soaps together and we actually did date,” Stamos said. “We went on a date to Disneyland before, you know, before we were both married. In real life, when we were 18, 19 years old. We did have some off timing, but no disrespect to her family and her husband now, I would say that she could be the one that got away.” …
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Jul 6, 2014 3:30 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
"The one that got away"?

I wonder about the roots of that turn of phrase.
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Jul 6, 2014 3:36 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Flopping branches, roots, trees are rich in metaphors.
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Jul 6, 2014 6:30 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
raphael119: Flopping branches, roots, trees are rich in metaphors.


And metaphors aren't meant to be taken literally, and like old sayings, some are good and some not so good (see favourite sayings poll) :)
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Jul 6, 2014 6:42 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
ludde55
ludde55ludde55vetlanda, Jonkoping Sweden1 Posts
the one can never get a way
beucouse she been created in the moment of love
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Jul 6, 2014 7:02 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
What is preventing me from pursuing her ? She makes me crazy: Was insane over her in 1992 and still would be... I don't know if it's like this for everyone, but for me, if something comes-up in life that's more important than God, I don't have it for very long.
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Jul 6, 2014 4:05 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
jac379: "The one that got away"?

I wonder about the roots of that turn of phrase.


Hello Jac,

That is a good question. According to the Free dictionary, it is an idiom that has its base in the practice of fishing (i.e. "the big fish that got away, especially as the subject of a fisherman's story. The one that got away is always bigger than the one that got caught").
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Jul 6, 2014 4:10 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
CuddlingSoul: What is preventing me from pursuing her ? She makes me crazy: Was insane over her in 1992 and still would be... I don't know if it's like this for everyone, but for me, if something comes-up in life that's more important than God, I don't have it for very long.


Hello CuddlingSoul,

Thanks for sharing your experience. May you find the one who does not drive you crazy to the point of forgetting God! To be frank, that person is probably not the one for you. wave
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Jul 6, 2014 4:12 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
ludde55: the one can never get a way
beucouse she been created in the moment of love


Hi Ludde55,

That is beautifully said! It must sound even more poetic in Swedish.
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Jul 6, 2014 4:15 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
MionConnect: Hello Jac,

That is a good question. According to the Free dictionary, it is an idiom that has its base in the practice of fishing (i.e. "the big fish that got away, especially as the subject of a fisherman's story. The one that got away is always bigger than the one that got caught").

Oh dear, I wish I hadn't asked. laugh

Thanks for the info, though. Much appreciated.
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Jul 6, 2014 4:27 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
MionConnect: Hello CuddlingSoul,

Thanks for sharing your experience. May you find the one who does not drive you crazy to the point of forgetting God! To be frank, that person is probably not the one for you.
Thank you, Mion. handshake
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Jul 6, 2014 5:26 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
I would say the one who got away is usually your first love. Though someone might have loved you, the only ones that matters are the ones you loved....and as it has being said: your first love is usually the one in which you fell because that is when you learn that love is more than just a crazy feeling.laugh
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Jul 6, 2014 7:19 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
bayareagirl
bayareagirlbayareagirlsanfanscio, California USA10 Threads 10 Polls 12 Posts
"The one that got away"
I'll always live and miss him, he's married to someone else now. I pursued him for months, after we broke up. Till the day I heard they were together.
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Jul 8, 2014 3:36 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
MionConnect: Hello Jac,

That is a good question. According to the Free dictionary, it is an idiom that has its base in the practice of fishing (i.e. "the big fish that got away, especially as the subject of a fisherman's story. The one that got away is always bigger than the one that got caught").


professor The root that got away!!




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 8, 2014 3:39 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
raphael119: The root that got away!!

Carrots and parsnips! Run for your lives!
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Jul 8, 2014 3:55 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Mimi1973
Mimi1973Mimi1973Perak,, Malaysia1 Threads 1,085 Posts
There were actually 2 of them ; my 1st and 2nd love.

1st love, he found me through a mutual friend after 17 years.

2nd love found me on FB after 14 years.

Met both of them for coffee ( separately, of course! ). Both were married and divorced with kids.

Both wanted to rekindle the romance where we left off but I hesitated.

For me, the feelings are not the same anymore....sad flower sad flower sad flower
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Jul 8, 2014 4:09 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
The one that got away....my first love was tragically killed in a car accident.

I don't often use the word when speaking of men, but he was.....beautiful.



sad flower
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Jul 8, 2014 4:21 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Mimi1973
Mimi1973Mimi1973Perak,, Malaysia1 Threads 1,085 Posts
Carmengetme: The one that got away....my first love was tragically killed in a car accident.

I don't often use the word when speaking of men, but he was.....beautiful.
Hi Carmen wave

hug
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Jul 8, 2014 4:23 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
Mimi1973: Hi Carmen



Hi Mimi hug

wave
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Jul 8, 2014 5:21 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
No, I was with good guys in the past and I always worked on the relationships when I was in them. When it ended, there simply wasn't anything to hold on to.

I wish them well and wouldn't want to rekindle anything. There have been some "infatuations", but none of them where I do regret not happening more.
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Jul 8, 2014 3:07 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
Why is there no choice for can't find her or that was more than half a century ago and she is probably no longer that person, even if still alive?
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Jul 8, 2014 3:30 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Yes. There is one girl(or maybe ten girls)who taunt me from the shadows of my past.
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Jul 8, 2014 6:21 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
If you had a romantic relationship with someone (or any other kind, for that matter) and its is no longer, there is a reason its in the past.

If they were meant to be in your present and your future, they would be.

Let sleeping dogs lie, as they say.

There are relationships I would have preferred to have worked out better than they did but they didn't and there's a reason for that. I love the romantic notion of going back and it all working out beautifully but that's the movies.

No, I wouldn't go back.....
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Jul 8, 2014 6:25 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've never been concerned about the one who got away.Obviously if it would have been met to be obviously it would have happened.


Life goes on.
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Jul 9, 2014 8:04 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
Not a single one. All the relationships I've had ended because they had run their course or they were not right. Would never want to return to any of them.
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Jul 10, 2014 2:52 PM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Oasisfan42
Oasisfan42Oasisfan42Brighton, East Sussex, England UK1 Posts
No because surely if you feel that strongly about someone being sfor o special you have too fight for them.I am in this situation now,no one else is involved however i cant be with them until next year.The connection we have is so strong and deep no matter how much this situation hurts i have to trust and find the strength that the end result will be worth the pain.
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Jul 20, 2014 2:45 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Lonely1: I would say the one who got away is usually your first love. Though someone might have loved you, the only ones that matters are the ones you loved....and as it has being said: your first love is usually the one in which you fell because that is when you learn that love is more than just a crazy feeling.


Thanks, Lonely! I have heard this from a couple of men.
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Jul 20, 2014 2:49 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
bayareagirl: "The one that got away"
I'll always live and miss him, he's married to someone else now. I pursued him for months, after we broke up. Till the day I heard they were together.


Hello Bayarea,

May you find the one who makes you think 'the one that got away' was really not the one!
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Jul 20, 2014 2:53 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Mimi1973: There were actually 2 of them ; my 1st and 2nd love.

1st love, he found me through a mutual friend after 17 years.

2nd love found me on FB after 14 years.

Met both of them for coffee ( separately, of course! ). Both were married and divorced with kids.

Both wanted to rekindle the romance where we left off but I hesitated.

For me, the feelings are not the same anymore....


Hello Mimi,

Thanks for sharing! I completely understand what you mean. Time changes one, doesn't it? Thank God!
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Jul 20, 2014 2:55 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
Carmengetme: The one that got away....my first love was tragically killed in a car accident.

I don't often use the word when speaking of men, but he was.....beautiful.


Hi Carmen,

That is a sad story. But your love did not get away! He is with you in spirit. teddybear
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Jul 20, 2014 2:58 AM CST Is there a love interest you consider “the one who got away”? If so, what is preventing you from pur
KNenagh: No, I was with good guys in the past and I always worked on the relationships when I was in them. When it ended, there simply wasn't anything to hold on to.

I wish them well and wouldn't want to rekindle anything. There have been some "infatuations", but none of them where I do regret not happening more.


Hello KNenagh,

That is the way to live and love. Let Go and Let God!
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