First date, you leave the venue and then: (51)
LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 PostsAll depends on my date's expertise in the art of seduction. 
LadyDiz2: All depends on my date's expertise in the art of seduction.
Lady 
SoonerGal: Lady
Hellooooo wonderful SoonerGal!
Very happy to see you, but wish it was over a cup of coffee discussing your new man than on here.
If there is nothing in common, the first date,then why the second date,would any defferent????
LadyDiz2: Hellooooo wonderful SoonerGal!
Very happy to see you, but wish it was over a cup of coffee discussing your new man than on here.
Very happy to see you, but wish it was over a cup of coffee discussing your new man than on here.
that would be nice!chris27292729: If there is nothing in common, the first date,then why the second date,would any defferent????
I know right....but then again maybe it was the wrong setting, being nervous...but I pretty much know immediately if we click or not
LadyDiz2: All depends on my date's expertise in the art of seduction.
Few hints,please.-SoonerGal: .but I pretty much know immediately if we click or not
Exactly my point.BerrySmoothie: Yes, I can relate to that...though if the chemistry is explosive on first date, do try my best....to be a lady.
Sometimes it works....sometimes, well....ya just got to go with it...
So if it is explosive,on the first day,who's doing the seducing??? Both i guess!!!!Sometimes it works....sometimes, well....ya just got to go with it...
chris27292729: So if it is explosive,on the first day,who's doing the seducing??? Both i guess!!!!
It kinda just happens....if it feels right for both....
You know...I cant do anything which remotely resembles a blind date or a date where you dont know the person that well.
Actually, I do say no to these types of dates a lot.
If i know the person...then they will get many dates, no matter what.
The best date venue for me is a place with a dance floor, playing "normal" music...none of this "modern" stuff.
Actually, I do say no to these types of dates a lot.
If i know the person...then they will get many dates, no matter what.
The best date venue for me is a place with a dance floor, playing "normal" music...none of this "modern" stuff.
I meant to finish, go home and wonder why you bothered but hey you made an effort.
sorry did you say something...... 
minnieme2: I meant to finish, go home and wonder why you bothered but hey you made an effort.
Well number 3 and 4 of course are the best options but too often we're landed with 1 or 2! yikes! Goes the opposite way too of course for guys!
Shrup tru!!! You're cruisin' for a bruisin'
Shrup tru!!! You're cruisin' for a bruisin'
Persephoneee: Everyone has different expectations of how the first date should go (lets assume it is with someone you actual like).
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
Perhaps I'm a little ole-fashioned, I'd go for the first option.
1. You never know what you might catch.... euwww!!!
2. If the other person is that 'ready, willing and able', it won't be just with you, it will be with others (possibly MANY others)?
3. There's nothing to look forward to.....
I know, I know.....BOOOOO!!!!
Dedovix: Pee on her leg, to mark my territory ...
LOVE IT!!!
SoonerGal: I don't know, usually a kiss goodnight and plan on another date...but then there has been a time when the chemistry was so overpowering that really what else can you do
BerrySmoothie: Yes, I can relate to that...though if the chemistry is explosive on first date, do try my best....to be a lady.
Sometimes it works....sometimes, well....ya just got to go with it...
Sometimes it works....sometimes, well....ya just got to go with it...
on a first date after dinner the lady came in her pitch dark living room in a kimono, she said I looked so freightened she got the giggles. I didnt "get" anything. Old age I guess.
raphael119: on a first date after dinner the lady came in her pitch dark living room in a kimono, she said I looked so freightened she got the giggles. I didnt "get" anything. Old age I guess.
Was the kimono a bit too foreign for you???
Persephoneee: Everyone has different expectations of how the first date should go (lets assume it is with someone you actual like).
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
It depends on the circumstances. If it were somebody you had been chatting to for ages online, or if it was your first time ever conversing etc.
It also depends on chemistry, liability etc.
There are no hard and fast rules, not in my head anyway.
There is a huge range of activity to be had between 0 and 100
I did have one that , I swear, kept clamping down like it was biting one. Mr. Limp to the rescue too!!
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