Persephoneee: Everyone has different expectations of how the first date should go (lets assume it is with someone you actual like).
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
I would say it all depends on how the date goes and what both are expecting from each other. Personally being a bit old school, I prefer a chaste kiss and plan for some other time..
It's up to her...some women are more aggressive than others. If she wants to call it a night early, I'm totally fine with this. A light kiss on the lips, we keep in touch, and possibly arrange another date. If a woman greets me in laungerie, and wants to get down to business ...I won't refuse (it's happened)
t84rod: It's up to her...some women are more aggressive than others. If she wants to call it a night early, I'm totally fine with this. A light kiss on the lips, we keep in touch, and possibly arrange another date. If a woman greets me in laungerie, and wants to get down to business ...I won't refuse (it's happened)
I don't like the kiss at the desperate end. Boring script makes me feel like a dog earning a treat. I'll just tell her I had a great time and leave her to enjoy her happily restless nights sleep. She'll thank me later in the best way possible.
And same night lays are not for me anymore. I'm not a teenager and I have broadband anyway if needs must.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
Persephoneee: Everyone has different expectations of how the first date should go (lets assume it is with someone you actual like).
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
Omg, I don't even kiss anybody on a first date. I'm hard to get (not on purpose).. I just reserve any kind of intimacy until I know who and what I'm dealing with.
NotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia1,210 posts
Nidifugous: Omg, I don't even kiss anybody on a first date. I'm hard to get (not on purpose).. I just reserve any kind of intimacy until I know who and what I'm dealing with.
I think it depends on a few things, there's no hard and fast rules.
If you've been talking to someone for months, sometimes years, before the opportunity to meet arises that's completely different to arranging a date with someone you only spoke to the previous day.
Persephoneee: Everyone has different expectations of how the first date should go (lets assume it is with someone you actual like).
What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?
First date, as in first face to face meeting. I would be cool for a pretty long time. Then give him , well I better not say. If I really liked the connection, we both were on the same page, I would be sure to please my partner with a great evening, noon and morning. Peace HH
I don't know, usually a kiss goodnight and plan on another date...but then there has been a time when the chemistry was so overpowering that really what else can you do
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
SoonerGal: I don't know, usually a kiss goodnight and plan on another date...but then there has been a time when the chemistry was so overpowering that really what else can you do
Yes, I can relate to that...though if the chemistry is explosive on first date, do try my best....to be a lady.
Sometimes it works....sometimes, well....ya just got to go with it...
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What would you say is acceptable to you and what sort of thing would mean that you wouldn't want a second date with that person?