Why is it so hard to connect in here? (121)

Aug 23, 2014 1:38 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Ccincy: Oh my goodness I can't believe it I actually agree what OB has posted.


Yes, same....he does make a whole lot of sense....sometimes....laugh

For me, I would very much like to find a partner....who I am compatible with.

...but I'm here on this site for the forums. I think there are some great people here. Just a shame about the distance, otherwise I'd be sharing a drink with a few.

I'm inspired by what I read sometimes. Sometimes, I've had a bellyful and need to have a break for a couple of days.

Most of the forum posters are here for the friendly banter.
Aug 23, 2014 1:49 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
galrads: George Bush granted you a lifetime visa and is waiting to share a bicycle ride with You.
It was very kind of him.Politely declined his offer,but accepted Obama's one.grin
Aug 23, 2014 1:53 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
SoonerGal: So why would it benefit me to look for locals but not you? why do you have to take a trip across the ocean? C'mon now what's good for the goose is good for gander
frustrated frustrated frustrated What you cancelled your trip to Europe????laugh laugh laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:01 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
SoonerGal: What is the deal here that everyone thinks someone is out for something?? Maybe, just maybe there is genuine people out there looking for someone. This is why I left the first time, thought I'd give it another whirl but find the same disbeliefs floating around


I don't want to connect here with locals.

For me it was giving another way of meeting a chance, but 95% of locals are just looking for a leg over anything.

I do like going out and meeting people, I met all my exes through friends on social occasions and that's for me the only way I would want to meet someone. I like to post in the forums and blogs on CS, but have limited communication to existing contacts. wave
Aug 23, 2014 2:09 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
I voted for " most women just want to use me" .....and the more the merrier grin devil
Aug 23, 2014 2:14 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: I voted for " most women just want to use me" .....and the more the merrier


Hm, I can think of a few ways to put you to good use. devil laugh

Evening rascal wave Been away breaking a few hearts have you? hug
Aug 23, 2014 2:16 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: Hm, I can think of a few ways to put you to good use.

Evening rascal Been away breaking a few hearts have you?
laugh Hello trouble!
Now, a gentleman never tells
wink wave bouquet
Aug 23, 2014 2:18 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: Hello trouble!
Now, a gentleman never tells


Pity, a few torrid tales would liven up the forums tonight. laugh hug
Aug 23, 2014 2:19 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: Pity, a few torrid tales would liven up the forums tonight.
Not as much as a grenade would! laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:20 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: Not as much as a grenade would!

laugh You wouldn't happen to be smuggling one or two under that kilt you sometimes wear, would you? wink laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:22 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: You wouldn't happen to be smuggling one or two under that kilt you sometimes wear, would you?
No, that is a bazooka grin
Anyway, I imagine no one would be interested in my 3 weeks of seduction whilst sailing the seas, and it would not be fair on the ladies involved. grin
Aug 23, 2014 2:27 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: No, that is a bazooka
Anyway, I imagine no one would be interested in my 3 weeks of seduction whilst sailing the seas, and it would not be fair on the ladies involved.


shock You must be exhausted! laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:28 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: You must be exhausted!
No, just a headache from dreaming laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:29 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: No, just a headache from dreaming


comfort Come on, scoot over here, I've the perfect remedy for a headache. devil
Aug 23, 2014 2:34 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: Put that Bazooka away mister! I was about to administer my granny's garlic and warm apple juice cure.
Where does that go? uh oh
Aug 23, 2014 2:35 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
rebel2: I voted for " most women just want to use me" .....and the more the merrier



wave hug hey there good lookin' how you been?
Aug 23, 2014 2:37 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
SoonerGal: hey there good lookin' how you been?
Helloooooooooooooo batting I have been my normal self..............god forbid grin
Its good to see your lovely smile again bouquet
Aug 23, 2014 2:37 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: Where does that go?


rolling on the floor laughing now you have me thinking...devil laugh
Aug 23, 2014 2:38 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz2: now you have me thinking...
Well don't! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 23, 2014 2:39 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
rebel2: Well don't!


rolling on the floor laughing hug
Aug 23, 2014 3:01 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
rebel2: Where does that go?
giggle
Aug 23, 2014 3:30 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
I know if you view something as hard, it is hard. If you feel positive, It usually attracts positive .
Aug 23, 2014 6:13 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
SoonerGal: What is the deal here that everyone thinks someone is out for something?? Maybe, just maybe there is genuine people out there looking for someone. This is why I left the first time, thought I'd give it another whirl but find the same disbeliefs floating around


It pays not to have pre-determined requirements or expectations, to be frank.

Its a free-for-all at the end of the day, but then it is with all other similar sites and with all other alternative methods of inter-action.

The best way is to have no particular achievements in mind and just see what happens, if it does.

If it doesn't, in the meantime, you have probably made some great friends or at very least inter-acted in the sense of a few good debates, learned a few things, and had some great laughs in the process.

There have been successes on this site, and some heartaches.....

You take a chance but if you don't stick around, you'll never know.....

bouquet
Aug 24, 2014 9:32 AM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
A friend married a wonderful woman he met on the internet.
He said he received 5000 responses the first day.
I'll have to ask him which site he used.
Aug 24, 2014 9:37 AM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
SoonerGal: What is the deal here that everyone thinks someone is out for something?? Maybe, just maybe there is genuine people out there looking for someone. This is why I left the first time, thought I'd give it another whirl but find the same disbeliefs floating around


Well in my case I can't connect cause I have circuit-break.grin
Aug 24, 2014 2:19 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
WinxAngel
WinxAngelWinxAngelDublin, Ireland8 Posts
SoonerGal: What is the deal here that everyone thinks someone is out for something?? Maybe, just maybe there is genuine people out there looking for someone. This is why I left the first time, thought I'd give it another whirl but find the same disbeliefs floating around


i still think that the right person is out there..how u meet this person doesnt really matter. Just this site as a tool to find him/her quicker

ps: what do we do with the grenade again? :)
Aug 24, 2014 2:57 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
monteisback
monteisbackmonteisbackTwinkletoes, New Jersey USA2 Threads 152 Posts
heatherhuntsman: I know if you view something as hard, it is hard.



Does that really work flirty cartwheel giggle
Aug 26, 2014 4:18 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
postneoludite: A friend married a wonderful woman he met on the internet.
He said he received 5000 responses the first day.
I'll have to ask him which site he used.


It must of been Prince Barak Abu on a Saudi site.
Oct 24, 2014 10:59 AM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
Eyes.

When you can't SEE someone it's a whole new bowle game.

thumbs up
Oct 25, 2014 5:59 PM CST Why is it so hard to connect in here?
blues That's too damn sad. The answer on the poll that was chosen the most is: I think most men want to use me. I don't know what to say. moping

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