Help!!! I'm a terrible + miserable cook. I've just recently met someone fabulous! and would love to cook something nice for him but knowing me, I'd sooner burn the whole house if I embarked on that.
Dreamcatcher99: Help!!! I'm a terrible + miserable cook. I've just recently met someone fabulous! and would love to cook something nice for him but knowing me, I'd sooner burn the whole house if I embarked on that.
What shall I do? Please help....
Rather be honest. Why try to impress with a skill you don't have? Any lie will turn against you in the end. If he does not see past your shortcomings and appreciate your qualities, he's just not worth it. But if you're so concerned, you could learn. There's a beginning for everything. Good luck!
Dreamcatcher99: Help!!! I'm a terrible + miserable cook. I've just recently met someone fabulous! and would love to cook something nice for him but knowing me, I'd sooner burn the whole house if I embarked on that.
What shall I do? Please help....
Cook him something you do know how to make well, I have no doubt he will appreciate the effort made, I would.
What's the worst that can happen? You poison him and he dies, but you did make an effort.
Liebe2: Rather be honest. Why try to impress with a skill you don't have? Any lie will turn against you in the end. If he does not see past your shortcomings and appreciate your qualities, he's just not worth it. But if you're so concerned, you could learn. There's a beginning for everything. Good luck!
Hi Liebe
He is aware that I'm a lousy cook, I confessed to him.
I've never liked cooking and that's not really a norm for an Asian woman. All my girlfriends can whip up a storm at a moment's notice
I guess you're right, I could always start now........
Yeh, I'm guessing you have other womanly attractions besides a cooking skill. Don't worry about it. Be honest. Let him Cook if you want. I love cooking and am pretty critical of those who try 'n' bluff
Dreamcatcher99: Help!!! I'm a terrible + miserable cook. I've just recently met someone fabulous! and would love to cook something nice for him but knowing me, I'd sooner burn the whole house if I embarked on that.
What shall I do? Please help....
Hiya Mimi
Maybe get your mam to cook for him, and tell him that when you grow up, you will be that good too
tarris: Yeh, I'm guessing you have other womanly attractions besides a cooking skill. Don't worry about it. Be honest. Let him Cook if you want. I love cooking and am pretty critical of those who try 'n' bluff
Use other womanly attractions to distract him.....
Psstttt...Tarris, I look more like this in real life
Oh nooooooo!! I can't allow him to die, I'm just beginning to get to know him
Hmmmm......the only one thing that I'm good at, that is passable, is chicken curry.
But....but, he can't be eating that everyday?!? Would you?
No, chicken creeps me out even more than women do, so not every day.
I can't see him expecting you to cook every day, so take turns, share the duties, and eat out when you both feel like it. It's not that difficult, and it isn't the end of the world.
kidatheart: No, chicken creeps me out even more than women do, so not every day.
I can't see him expecting you to cook every day, so take turns, share the duties, and eat out when you both feel like it. It's not that difficult, and it isn't the end of the world.
You know what we call those 'working girls' over here? Chicken!!!
Eating out sounds divine to me :
After all, we are in Malaysia, the land of great food!
allthegoodnamest: Dreamcatcher. You can always slap a bit of raw fish with some sticky rice and call it " sushi", alternatively , give him some "bush tucker". !
Thanks for the tip
Slap a bit of raw fish with some sticky rice and if there's no sticky rice, just place the fish on my body
hi D/C....just look him straight in the eye....ahd say...cooking is not my best subject.....then note his reaction.....honesty is every thing...if he hugs you,,says never mind...alls good.
truheart1941: hi D/C....just look him straight in the eye....ahd say...cooking is not my best subject.....then note his reaction.....honesty is every thing...if he hugs you,,says never mind...alls good.
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