Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man? (124)

May 21, 2015 2:09 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
sunsmile007: Thumbs up!



sunsmile,,, you're still that young,,, are you my kabayan?
handshake bouquet
May 21, 2015 2:19 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tarris
tarristarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 Posts
sunsmile007: Hei all, thanks for the reply. It's just awkward for me to have conversation with 18 or 21 y.o. and have to explain my age. Feels like you're sooooooo old. But I agree with mental age. Cheers everybody!
yes, I agree. Someone a lot younger than me is difficult to talk to in terms of historical and current events. Even down to reminiscing on music etc. and historical sport events and the like. Even physical compatibility is limited.
Similarly with older than myself, their knowledge and memories will be different to mine in terms of general events and milestones.
Attraction begins in the mind and with common interests etc so someone near my own age is more likely more compatible.
BTW, how old are you?!! :-)
May 21, 2015 2:36 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: tarris, there are lots of women who bake muffins, paint walls, change the wall papers, mower the lawn, if ever you did have an aweful time with your woman , it's your choice, i presume you have mutual consentment when you got married. Respect can't be won with your argument, nowdays woman shared the financial burden in the house , and most of the time, arriving home from work, they still do the cooking, the cleaning, tuck the kids to bed, the laundry,, your wife, maybe you spoiled her too much, or you're under her skirt,,or she didn't love you that much for you to be annoyed with your relationship, they say, in union there is force.

and thankyou for thatlips bouquet
May 21, 2015 2:53 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: and thankyou for that



tom, thumbs up daisy
May 21, 2015 3:07 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: tom,

ok I love you too, we know what we mean, my G/f is ok with that.
May 21, 2015 3:25 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tarris
tarristarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 Posts
Lolette: tarris, there are lots of women who bake muffins, paint walls, change the wall papers, mower the lawn, if ever you did have an aweful time with your woman , it's your choice, i presume you have mutual consentment when you got married. Respect can't be won with your argument, nowdays woman shared the financial burden in the house , and most of the time, arriving home from work, they still do the cooking, the cleaning, tuck the kids to bed, the laundry,, your wife, maybe you spoiled her too much, or you're under her skirt,,or she didn't love you that much for you to be annoyed with your relationship, they say, in union there is force.
disagree with you. The majority of relationships still have gender specific roles.
Whilst I enjoy cooking my ex wife usually cooked while I cleaned up the dishes.
Most homes are built and maintained by men
Most nurses are women
These roles have evolved as women are generally more nurturing by nature while men are more physical.
Were I in a place where I needed gentle, caring help I'd prefer a woman to hand.
If I need to achieve a physical task I'd prefer men helping.
Feminism lives in a dream world far removed from life's realities!
May 21, 2015 3:29 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
tarris: disagree with you. The majority of relationships still have gender specific roles.
Whilst I enjoy cooking my ex wife usually cooked while I cleaned up the dishes.
Most homes are built and maintained by men
Most nurses are women
These roles have evolved as women are generally more nurturing by nature while men are more physical.
Were I in a place where I needed gentle, caring help I'd prefer a woman to hand.
If I need to achieve a physical task I'd prefer men helping.
Feminism lives in a dream world far removed from life's realities!

In your opinion, and in your country.
May 21, 2015 3:39 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tarris
tarristarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 Posts
tomcatwarne: In your opinion, and in your country.
gee you dribble.
Ok, here's a scenario, be it in England or NZ; you are building a house of stone. Lots of lifting and heavy work.
You decide to employ youths.
Would you approach a girls school or a boys school asking for apprentices and labourers?
May 21, 2015 3:42 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Irritates me when men try to do it.

Couldn't care less that women do it.


I probably ought to look at that. laugh
May 21, 2015 3:51 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Ocee102: Irritates me when men try to do it.

Couldn't care less that women do it.I probably ought to look at that.

The balance of power.
May 21, 2015 3:57 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
jac_the_gripper: If women ruled the world there'd be no wars. Just intense negotiations every twenty eight days. ~ Robin Williams

sudenly I like you Jaq how stupid is life?????????
May 21, 2015 3:59 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
woman should design....then men to build it.....thumbs up
May 21, 2015 7:09 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
tomcatwarne: In your opinion, and in your country.


thumbs up
May 21, 2015 9:07 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
on the real. Depends, I have kids, so NAW. PEACE HH
May 21, 2015 9:26 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
tarris
tarristarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 Posts
truheart1941: woman should design....then men to build it.....
ha ha ha, women design?!! Maate!! I was a builder for 20+ years. We'd get plans approved and build a home accordingly (as ya do!) soon as the kitchen was installed we'd get some doughy housewife wanting things changed! 'I didn't know it was going to look like that'!!! WTF?!
Let em design your house if you like.

Ask any builder and I'd bet they'll tell the same scenario nearly word for word!
May 21, 2015 11:01 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
I really have to laugh at the neanderthal like complaints from men who think that they feel physical strength is the be all and end all...well...it is not!!...very narrow minded and sounds like some are angry at women or need to be constantly reminded how good they are...smells of weakness to me...

We all are individuals and have different strengths...to measure people in such a narrow view is wrong...maybe you need a history lesson to understand the inequities faced by women and other people who are viewed as a minority...in regards to professions women enter...or people of colour...devaluing worth and hindering self determination are problems we still face...
May 21, 2015 11:03 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
loulou77: I really have to laugh at the neanderthal like complaints from men who think that they feel physical strength is the be all and end all...well...it is not!!...very narrow minded and sounds like some are angry at women or need to be constantly reminded how good they are...smells of weakness to me...

We all are individuals and have different strengths...to measure people in such a narrow view is wrong...maybe you need a history lesson to understand the inequities faced by women and other people who are viewed as a minority...in regards to professions women enter...or people of colour...devaluing worth and hindering self determination are problems we still face...


Very well said and agree with you totally thumbs up thumbs up
May 21, 2015 11:08 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
loulou77: I really have to laugh at the neanderthal like complaints from men who think that they feel physical strength is the be all and end all...well...it is not!!...very narrow minded and sounds like some are angry at women or need to be constantly reminded how good they are...smells of weakness to me...

We all are individuals and have different strengths...to measure people in such a narrow view is wrong...maybe you need a history lesson to understand the inequities faced by women and other people who are viewed as a minority...in regards to professions women enter...or people of colour...devaluing worth and hindering self determination are problems we still face...


thumbs up I don't even get involved in the cavemen discussions anymore. It's just interesting to note just how many there are.
May 21, 2015 11:25 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Nidi.
So are you telling me that the "me Tarzan , you Jane" days are behind us?
May 21, 2015 11:26 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
tarris: more to this Jacs. I've worked in the fields of construction and oil exploration all my life. Both are fairly physically demanding jobs. Have seen a few girls give it a go. Good on them but they invariably want concessions made for their femininity! Need a lift? I'm a girl it's too heavy!.
Equality means equality, end of story.

So what do you make of men's inability to give birth? That would make you unable to be at a woman's level.
I've seen so many men intimidated by my muscles or even envious. Few saying that a woman with muscles was not feminine. Did that make me superior? I was probably stronger than quite a few of them.
Equality refers to the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, or opportunities. Are you saying that it takes physical strength for a woman to be treated respectfully, as an equal by a man?! Seriously?
May 21, 2015 11:27 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
2intrigued: Very well said and agree with you totally


Thanks...very hard to hear some views by people that have no idea the challenges that others face...
May 21, 2015 11:30 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
Nidifugous: I don't even get involved in the cavemen discussions anymore. It's just interesting to note just how many there are.


I would have liked to ignore but the narrow minded view got to me...as if it were that simple?...some have no idea...
May 21, 2015 11:36 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Loulou.
I'm sure a certain NZ guy is saying things deliberately to provoke a reaction & it seems to be working.. No one could be that narrow minded.
May 21, 2015 11:38 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
tarris: disagree with you. The majority of relationships still have gender specific roles.
Whilst I enjoy cooking my ex wife usually cooked while I cleaned up the dishes.
Most homes are built and maintained by men
Most nurses are women
These roles have evolved as women are generally more nurturing by nature while men are more physical.
Were I in a place where I needed gentle, caring help I'd prefer a woman to hand.
If I need to achieve a physical task I'd prefer men helping.
Feminism lives in a dream world far removed from life's realities!

Long live CS! You'll be here for a while.





Until you get bored and pursue some outdoor activities, like hiking. doh
May 21, 2015 11:41 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Nidi.
So are you telling me that the "me Tarzan , you Jane" days are behind us?


Did you know cheetah had a passionate crush on Tarzan and hated Jane?!!! According to Maureen O Sullivan you could tell by his pinkness.rolling on the floor laughing Reminds me some CS characters.rolling on the floor laughing
May 21, 2015 11:44 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Raphael119.
I kinda suspected it !
May 21, 2015 11:44 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Loulou.
I'm sure a certain NZ guy is saying things deliberately to provoke a reaction & it seems to be working.. No one could be that narrow minded.


Yes you could be correct...but what a way to represent New Zealanders...the land that time forgot...giggle
May 21, 2015 11:44 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Loulou.
I'm sure a certain NZ guy is saying things deliberately to provoke a reaction & it seems to be working.. No one could be that narrow minded.

Oh yes they can.
May 21, 2015 11:49 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Loulou.
I know many kiwis & I can assure you he's outlook on women doesn't represent he's nation.
May 21, 2015 11:52 PM CST Is that ok, if an adult woman dating with much more younger adult man?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Liebe.
Maybe but luckily for women, they are a dying breed.
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