The bad times are only there to remind us that we have good days also. It's normal to feel hurt because we know what bliss feels like too without the hurt we wouldn't understand the feeling ???? Chin up x
SassyLou29: The bad times are only there to remind us that we have good days also. It's normal to feel hurt because we know what bliss feels like too without the hurt we wouldn't understand the feeling ???? Chin up x
going through the grinding mill has made me a ''all round better person in most aspects'' i hold all in my heart
Apart from my Ex husband and his antics I got home to find that the love of my life had packed his bags and gone. There was no argument etc. The shock made me numb which helped me get some distance before having to deal with it. The biggest problem was when he started ringing and texting and I couldn't bear hearing his voice and tears on the end of the phone.
my husband the fairytale of my life broke mine.He didn't cheat oh hell no.He didn't believe in me.But I put pieces together,and now he is miserable without me.
Jun 13, 2015 1:01 PM CST where you ever crippled emotionally?
goldenglossMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads389 Posts
goldenglossMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland389 posts
Hi Pedro, I have been emotionally 'crippled' as in broken, self esteem on the floor, anxiety, depression etc., I believe we need to grieve , be that a broken relationship, a death or whatever, it is no good pushing the positive thinking before our bodies and minds have time to heal and accept. I fully believe though, that putting a reins on your thoughts like the gentleman from Manchester has said, not being a victim, choosing to think a certain way and fighting the negative part of us, does work. It has enabled me to come off antidepressants after 30 years. I amnot advocating this for people. I decided [having studied the side effects] that I was sick of being chemically lobotimized. I came off slowly, very slowly, it was hell, i had to face demons, but They were faced and ran away. Shyness, anxiety etc., memories that were supressed. ~~ I know now that each day brings pain and joy, I have to keep reading lists like the ones in this Blog. Not blaming, living in the now. The Doctors and specialists said I could never get off medication, that it had been too long in my system. Anything is possible if we really want something, Thats all I have to say. I have indeed been crippled , many times and have a background and childhood conductive to Depression but refuse to allow this to stop me living as good a life as I can.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
hi Cris,, huh,, still following on the expectations,, About crying,, me i cried ,, my family cried, it's a relief,, not crippling,, though i prefer wear a smile if i can ,,
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