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What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ? ( Archived) (16)

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Dec 13, 2008 3:34 PM CSTWhat does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
gingery
gingerygingery., Majjistral, Malta7 Threads 10 Polls 11 Posts
gingeryOP., Majjistral, Malta11 posts

What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?(Vote Below)

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This doesn't make sense
51
41%
He likes you as a friend only
31
25%
He doesn't really know what he wants in life
29
23%
He loves you, but doesn't want to tell you
4
3%
He is sooooo confused
6
5%
He just needs time to get to know you better
4
3%
Total Votes
125
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#1
Dec 21, 2008 2:17 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
Lucidfjb
LucidfjbLucidfjbFairfield, Ohio USA5 Threads 1 Polls 82 Posts
LucidfjbFairfield, Ohio USA82 posts
You forgot one - he is sooooo cheating on her.
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#2
Dec 21, 2008 2:22 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
Lucidfjb: You forgot one - he is sooooo cheating on her.
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I have no idea what it means,

perhaps the guy is just wanting anyone
and settling for that dunno

hope this has not happened to you bouquet
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#3
Dec 21, 2008 2:22 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
Lucidfjb: You forgot one - he is sooooo cheating on her.
#

I have no idea what it means,

perhaps the guy is just wanting anyone
and settling for that dunno

hope this has not happened to you bouquet
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#4
Dec 21, 2008 2:24 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
Okietony
OkietonyOkietonySmall Town Oklahoma, Oklahoma USA2 Threads 36 Posts
OkietonySmall Town Oklahoma, Oklahoma USA36 posts
I think it means that he likes her doing things for him, taking care of his kids, the laundry, the cooking and all the other things. BUT, although that's a bold statement, he probably lacks the balls to be self sufficient and responsible all by his itty bitty self. Just a thought.
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#5
Dec 21, 2008 4:16 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
Okietony: I think it means that he likes her doing things for him, taking care of his kids, the laundry, the cooking and all the other things. BUT, although that's a bold statement, he probably lacks the balls to be self sufficient and responsible all by his itty bitty self. Just a thought.
I agree, possibly also see's it as "Well iv'e been honest so i can have a bit on the side"
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#6
Dec 21, 2008 4:20 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain4,110 posts
He is looking for a functional object, not a modern relation.
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#7
Dec 21, 2008 4:26 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
That you fit all the criteria of a good wife, taking care of home and family, that you project the kind of image he wants others to see of his family life, but he feels no passion for you.
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#8
Dec 21, 2008 4:33 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain4,110 posts
jbibiza: That you fit all the criteria of a good wife, taking care of home and family, that you project the kind of image he wants others to see of his family life, but he feels no passion for you.


I was thinking along those lines too, did he say that as a friend or did he say it in a way of a proposal?

Makes a big difference...

reindeer
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#9
Dec 21, 2008 5:43 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
mike69spain: I bet these guys are the best friends instead, right?

The difference between a very close friend and a partner is the passion only, as I see it.

That is too the reason for a lot of jelousy, when you have better friend chemistry with your friends than with the one you share the passion.

As you say, it can really mess things up


You´re right... they are my two best friends... and it´s funny because everyone thinks that one of them and I are a perfect match for each other... there was a customer that I got really chatty with during the summer, a lovely woman from Denmark... when she left the restaurant she wound up in my friends bar, where she in turn got really chatty with him. Upon finding out that he was single she said, "I have just met the most perfect woman for you..." yes, she was talking about me...laugh

I´m dogsitting his lovely black lab until after the New Year, I love him to bits but could never imagine making love to him! As far as jealousy goes... my SO would have to understand that friendship means just that to me, and I would hope that they would become friends as well... I have no tolerance for jealousy!
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#10
Dec 21, 2008 7:51 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada25,438 posts
For me it would mean divorce....I want to be with a partner who loves me...and I'd be damned if I would stay in a marriage with someone who likes me....roll eyes doh help
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#11
Dec 21, 2008 9:33 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
solitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina4,041 posts
Lucidfjb: You forgot one - he is sooooo cheating on her.


I think that you have forgotten another one:
you are a mere convenience and though you get along together, he's still waiting for 'the love of his life'
Unfortunately, many marriages are like this...either he or she have met the loves of their lifetimes or they are still waiting; either way, you're not it... very sad.
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#12
Dec 21, 2008 9:59 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
He probably means he enjoys the convenience of having you as a wife, but that you shouldn't take that overly personally.professor laugh confused dunno
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#13
Dec 21, 2008 10:05 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
HJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA17,068 posts
Ambrose2007: He probably means he enjoys the convenience of having you as a wife, but that you shouldn't take that overly personally.


I have had ones I loved, but I sure as hell didn't like them at times..dunno
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#14
Dec 21, 2008 10:17 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
gingery
gingerygingery., Majjistral Malta7 Threads 10 Polls 11 Posts
gingeryOP., Majjistral Malta11 posts
jbibiza: That you fit all the criteria of a good wife, taking care of home and family, that you project the kind of image he wants others to see of his family life, but he feels no passion for you.


Yeah I think this is the one !! But I can't figure out why he says you're good as my wife, but I don't love you !!
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#15
Dec 21, 2008 10:18 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
HJFinAZ: I have had ones I loved, but I sure as hell didn't like them at times..

wave Yeah, Pat, it could work that way, too. Whatcha gonna do?laugh dunno
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#16
Dec 21, 2008 11:15 AM CST What does it mean, if a men tells you 'he likes you as his wife, but he doesn't love you' ?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
hopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA6,660 posts
JMO, he's either cheating or just wants a maid! professor uh oh
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