....Barren, from my view, you have taken a delicate & fragile issue & conceptualized it into both eloquent & cogent words.....those are my sentiments exactly, but framed much better.....my immediate response was an issue of "emotional availability".....or "inability to connect".....I mean we come here searching, but if the "real" one presented, how would we (or one) react.....Jolly Good post my friend, although your private dialogue would, I'm certain, be much more telling....
Best,
T
PS --- FYI ---- My vote was "confused".....which seems to be shared by many.....
ocean78382Rockport- Corpus Christi area, Texas USA210 posts
I had noticed this somechick had 4 posts in one thread removed by the moderator and as I am against censorship - I just asked her "What could you have written to be removed 4 times in one thread?"
I couldn't get a straight answer "just leave it alone"
Gee if something is important enough to post 4 times and if there is someone who is actually interested you'd think I'd get a reply.
That's it no flirting no request for a date. I did ask her about two streets with old houses in cincy but that too was ignored.
loverboy690: is it jeliousy or people who are just playing around?
I was being nice
Me + Not being nice = they were a lot of auld spiteful b**** that did that , whoever they are. Wouldnt you think they had something better to do than that
Me + Not being nice = they were a lot of auld spiteful b**** that did that , whoever they are. Wouldnt you think they had something better to do than that
That is so true they are probably just mad cuse they can't find anyone.
ocean78382: I had noticed this somechick had 4 posts in one thread removed by the moderator and as I am against censorship - I just asked her "What could you have written to be removed 4 times in one thread?"
I couldn't get a straight answer "just leave it alone"
Gee if something is important enough to post 4 times and if there is someone who is actually interested you'd think I'd get a reply.
That's it no flirting no request for a date. I did ask her about two streets with old houses in cincy but that too was ignored.
Why so negative mabey you would feel better if someone gave you a chance?
ocean78382: I had noticed this somechick had 4 posts in one thread removed by the moderator and as I am against censorship - I just asked her "What could you have written to be removed 4 times in one thread?"
I couldn't get a straight answer "just leave it alone"
Gee if something is important enough to post 4 times and if there is someone who is actually interested you'd think I'd get a reply.
That's it no flirting no request for a date. I did ask her about two streets with old houses in cincy but that too was ignored.
Well, no one's under an obligation to reply to a particular inquiry. I ask people things here all the time, and often get no response. C'est la vie.
That said, I do think it's rather more polite to reply to a direct question, in general.
Ambrose2007: Well, no one's under an obligation to reply to a particular inquiry. I ask people things here all the time, and often get no response. C'est la vie.
That said, I do think it's rather more polite to reply to a direct question, in general.
ocean78382: I had noticed this somechick had 4 posts in one thread removed by the moderator and as I am against censorship - I just asked her "What could you have written to be removed 4 times in one thread?"
I couldn't get a straight answer "just leave it alone"
Gee if something is important enough to post 4 times and if there is someone who is actually interested you'd think I'd get a reply.
That's it no flirting no request for a date. I did ask her about two streets with old houses in cincy but that too was ignored.
I'm not going to get into a childish arguement with you but Ocean I did respond to you and told you to just leave it alone cause the posts were gone and the whole reason for them being removed was the mods choice.If you wished to know or was that concerned of why they were removed why didn't you just contact the mods instead of contacting me about it and ask them yourself. I can't remove them myself cause once you post something it becomes the site property.
As far as the old house here in cincy goes. I've only resided in Ohio for only 3 yrs and don't know the whole area that well.I lived in Michigan prior to moving to Ohio and didn't know evry signle home on every street either.
somechick: I'm not going to get into a childish arguement with you but Ocean I did respond to you and told you to just leave it alone cause the posts were gone and the whole reason for them being removed was the mods choice.If you wished to know or was that concerned of why they were removed why didn't you just contact the mods instead of contacting me about it and ask them yourself. I can't remove them myself cause once you post something it becomes the site property.
As far as the old house here in cincy goes. I've only resided in Ohio for only 3 yrs and don't know the whole area that well.I lived in Michigan prior to moving to Ohio and didn't know evry signle home on every street either.
loverboy690: Don't mind him he really needs a woman
I'm not the least bit worried about him or anyone else like him.He's just twisting my words in my reply to him in a mail is all and I wanted to set the record straight with him.
somechick: Jeff I had a photo up when I first joined in July but someone here (and I won't mention their name cause they know who they are) saw to it that my photo was taken down by the mods.So I'm not putting anymore pics up.
Why on earth would someone see to it that your photo was taken down by the mods....
I thought your photo was very beautiful and appealing....
What was wrong with your photo......
Naughty Naughty people for having this done on Anna.....
somechick: I'm not going to get into a childish arguement with you but Ocean I did respond to you and told you to just leave it alone cause the posts were gone and the whole reason for them being removed was the mods choice.If you wished to know or was that concerned of why they were removed why didn't you just contact the mods instead of contacting me about it and ask them yourself. I can't remove them myself cause once you post something it becomes the site property.
As far as the old house here in cincy goes. I've only resided in Ohio for only 3 yrs and don't know the whole area that well.I lived in Michigan prior to moving to Ohio and didn't know evry signle home on every street either.
If I may say...I have no desire to offend
Chick...A lesson I learned in life..its a waste of time...
Explaining or complaining...so do waste your breathe trying to explain yourself to those who have not earned that privilege from you, you dont owe it to anyone
Anne I believe you are a wonderful and special lady. Any man would be lucky to be with you. When you are ready for one the line will be long to court you.
somechick: Jeff I had a photo up when I first joined in July but someone here (and I won't mention their name cause they know who they are) saw to it that my photo was taken down by the mods.So I'm not putting anymore pics up.
I don't understand why anyone would do that. There was nothing wrong with that pic. It was a "glam" shot, but showed your face, and wasn't overly revealing. You had that pic up for a very long time. I'm sorry that someone was nasty enough to do that to you, Anna.
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