Why aren't men constant in their behaviour with women ? (76)
HJFinAZ: ANd for years, and years, and years, women have tried to change them..
I gave that up.....
That's why I'm single now! 
mylifewithu: Yeah they tune out on purpose.
Yes they do!!!!!!!!!!
HJFinAZ: Good for you...
Hey Baby if you can't beat em join em!!!!!!
gingery: Men are never constant in their behaviour. Sometimes they are sweet and caring, other times they are just statues !!!!!!! HUH !! Why ???
inconsistently Consistnent
Some days I will not understand your moods.. your distance.. your overall demeanor..
It does not mean you love me any less, or think of me less often, or nessesarily want to be left alone,
Although.. in that instant, that may very well be the case..
It may mean that you are simply not up to explaining yourself at that given moment,
And that it may very well be up to me, to try and bring you out of it,
Or ...if that is just not what is meant to be..
To leave you be, in the hopes that tomorrow,
You will reveal what it was that made you seem so cold, so distant, and aloof.
We as humans are very complex beings.,
And as such are not always able to see into each other's hearts,
To understand what is tormenting them so, at any given moment..
All we can do is stand by and be supportive,
and hope that in time, before too much time has passed,
They will understand ..no matter the petty differences that brought us to this place.
That we are still there for them no matter what..
And that more than anything else,we really care and..
We would like to be their someone special again.
somechick: Cause just like us women men are only human.They have flaws too.I doubt if I'd expect any man to be perfect.
I agree. We're all capable of inconsistencies, especially when it comes to being in love...love makes us all go a bit nuts at times!
druidess6308: I agree. We're all capable of inconsistencies, especially when it comes to being in love...love makes us all go a bit nuts at times!
I am pretty nutty anyway, do I still need to fall in love?
mylifewithu: All I said John is I threw your remote control to your tv and stereo in the trash. Did you hear that??????? I bet you did.
Ears Wide Open ......... That Constitutes War !
HJFinAZ: I am pretty nutty anyway, do I still need to fall in love?
That's up to you, my friend. 
druidess6308: That's up to you, my friend.
I wonder if I can find some "Hottie" that is a millionaire to "fix" me??
She cannot be to "bright" though..
jvaski: Ears Wide Open ......... That Constitutes War !
See I know how to make a man listen.
RillyNiceGuy: Its a funny thing....if you treat someone badly they will treat you badly. if someone treats you badly and you treat them nice, they seem to change and be nicer. Of course...the self centered people only take the more you give.
There is an old story of a mountain man coming to a town to find the most beautiful woman in town to marry. He finds a plain woman and marrys her. He opened the doors for her, helped her into the wagon, talked to everyone about how sweet and pretty she was. Then they left town. The following year a woman comes to town and she is a beautiful woman, a perfection of beauty and grace with a sweetness unmatched by any. The whole town was a buzz about who this woman was. She must be a Queen of some royal line. Later that day the mountain man came up to her in his wagon. He gets off the wagon and takes the ladys hand, kissed her cheek and said, "My dear precious one, it is time to be heading home." He helped her into the wagon and they left. It was the same woman. He indeed had found the most beautiful and sweetest woman in town..................or did he make her so?
There is an old story of a mountain man coming to a town to find the most beautiful woman in town to marry. He finds a plain woman and marrys her. He opened the doors for her, helped her into the wagon, talked to everyone about how sweet and pretty she was. Then they left town. The following year a woman comes to town and she is a beautiful woman, a perfection of beauty and grace with a sweetness unmatched by any. The whole town was a buzz about who this woman was. She must be a Queen of some royal line. Later that day the mountain man came up to her in his wagon. He gets off the wagon and takes the ladys hand, kissed her cheek and said, "My dear precious one, it is time to be heading home." He helped her into the wagon and they left. It was the same woman. He indeed had found the most beautiful and sweetest woman in town..................or did he make her so?
What a lovely anecdote, Rilly.
If men are consistant in their behavior, why do women complain? The "should" know what to expect..
The "should" know what to expect..RillyNiceGuy: Its a funny thing....if you treat someone badly they will treat you badly. if someone treats you badly and you treat them nice, they seem to change and be nicer. Of course...the self centered people only take the more you give.
There is an old story of a mountain man coming to a town to find the most beautiful woman in town to marry. He finds a plain woman and marrys her. He opened the doors for her, helped her into the wagon, talked to everyone about how sweet and pretty she was. Then they left town. The following year a woman comes to town and she is a beautiful woman, a perfection of beauty and grace with a sweetness unmatched by any. The whole town was a buzz about who this woman was. She must be a Queen of some royal line. Later that day the mountain man came up to her in his wagon. He gets off the wagon and takes the ladys hand, kissed her cheek and said, "My dear precious one, it is time to be heading home." He helped her into the wagon and they left. It was the same woman. He indeed had found the most beautiful and sweetest woman in town..................or did he make her so?
There is an old story of a mountain man coming to a town to find the most beautiful woman in town to marry. He finds a plain woman and marrys her. He opened the doors for her, helped her into the wagon, talked to everyone about how sweet and pretty she was. Then they left town. The following year a woman comes to town and she is a beautiful woman, a perfection of beauty and grace with a sweetness unmatched by any. The whole town was a buzz about who this woman was. She must be a Queen of some royal line. Later that day the mountain man came up to her in his wagon. He gets off the wagon and takes the ladys hand, kissed her cheek and said, "My dear precious one, it is time to be heading home." He helped her into the wagon and they left. It was the same woman. He indeed had found the most beautiful and sweetest woman in town..................or did he make her so?
Rilly, that is awesome. Thank you for sharing it. I would say her inner beauty shone through even more when it was appreciated and loved by one with matching inner beauty.
cause they forget what consistant is ...
love you guys for bringing that up..
love you guys for bringing that up..alishia: cause they forget what consistant is ... love you guys for bringing that up..
Who forgets? Men or women??
The_Icon: its the type of men that women going after, if you go to bed with dogs your gonna get fleas
QuietStormF: inconsistently Consistnent
Some days I will not understand your moods.. your distance.. your overall demeanor..
It does not mean you love me any less, or think of me less often, or nessesarily want to be left alone,
Although.. in that instant, that may very well be the case..
It may mean that you are simply not up to explaining yourself at that given moment,
And that it may very well be up to me, to try and bring you out of it,
Or ...if that is just not what is meant to be..
To leave you be, in the hopes that tomorrow,
You will reveal what it was that made you seem so cold, so distant, and aloof.
We as humans are very complex beings.,
And as such are not always able to see into each other's hearts,
To understand what is tormenting them so, at any given moment..
All we can do is stand by and be supportive,
and hope that in time, before too much time has passed,
They will understand ..no matter the petty differences that brought us to this place.
That we are still there for them no matter what..
And that more than anything else,we really care and..
We would like to be their someone special again.
Some days I will not understand your moods.. your distance.. your overall demeanor..
It does not mean you love me any less, or think of me less often, or nessesarily want to be left alone,
Although.. in that instant, that may very well be the case..
It may mean that you are simply not up to explaining yourself at that given moment,
And that it may very well be up to me, to try and bring you out of it,
Or ...if that is just not what is meant to be..
To leave you be, in the hopes that tomorrow,
You will reveal what it was that made you seem so cold, so distant, and aloof.
We as humans are very complex beings.,
And as such are not always able to see into each other's hearts,
To understand what is tormenting them so, at any given moment..
All we can do is stand by and be supportive,
and hope that in time, before too much time has passed,
They will understand ..no matter the petty differences that brought us to this place.
That we are still there for them no matter what..
And that more than anything else,we really care and..
We would like to be their someone special again.
nice...did you write that?
Hi and yes I did.. but I wish I had written what Rillyniceguy did.. Now that was awesome..Very powerful message there for all.. A few kind words.. and the right person can take someone from the depths of despair.. into the light..
QuietStormF: Hi and yes I did.. but I wish I had written what Rillyniceguy did.. Now that was awesome..Very powerful message there for all.. A few kind words.. and the right person can take someone from the depths of despair.. into the light..
well, what you wrote was nice too.....hi QSjlw45: well, what you wrote was nice too.....hi QS
Hi and thanks hon... and thanks also for not pointing out my spelling error as I did to you that night when I was bored..
Hope you are doing well... 
QuietStormF: Hi and thanks hon... and thanks also for not pointing out my spelling error as I did to you that night when I was bored.. Hope you are doing well...
if your going to point out my spelling errors, you'll be up all night long ....i'm ok....hope you are doing good too...
QuietStormF: Hi and thanks hon... and thanks also for not pointing out my spelling error as I did to you that night when I was bored.. Hope you are doing well...
the fact of the matter is, i did'nt notice.... 
jlw45: the fact of the matter is, i did'nt notice....
Well then you my dear... are a better man than I... wait what am I saying?
gingery: Men are never constant in their behaviour. Sometimes they are sweet and caring, other times they are just statues !!!!!!! HUH !! Why ???
It has been said that the only thing that is constant is change. Many times we find ourselves picturing one another in only the most pleasant of scenarios. But life's picture is a moving picture. Time, motion, contrast. Perhaps only in death shall we be allowed to be still.hedistuff: It has been said that the only thing that is constant is change. Many times we find ourselves picturing one another in only the most pleasant of scenarios. But life's picture is a moving picture. Time, motion, contrast. Perhaps only in death shall we be allowed to be still.
In a poifect woild..........
gingery: Men are never constant in their behaviour. Sometimes they are sweet and caring, other times they are just statues !!!!!!! HUH !! Why ???
Well,,,we don't live on emotions only. To me,,,it is strange how women cry all the time. Bizzare!
JamesBraginton: Well,,,we don't live on emotions only. To me,,,it is strange how women cry all the time. Bizzare!
Wouldnt it be nice, just for once, to have not man-bashing, or woman-bashing posts?
What is wrong with everyone? Have we all been so hurt and made bitter that we cannot move on? I for one, am not bitter. Just seasoned from life and moving on.
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