If I was married and we fell on really hard times and she offered to sell her body to get us out of debt, I would consider myself to be a total failure at being a husband and provider. I don't think I could ever look at myself in the mirror again.
ooby_dooby: If I was married and we fell on really hard times and she offered to sell her body to get us out of debt, I would consider myself to be a total failure at being a husband and provider. I don't think I could ever look at myself in the mirror again.
Very likely the answer is then no. The immediate one would be, but if she was dead set on doing it and nothing would sway her from it, then I would probably be supportive but very likely as just a friend and no longer as a boyfriend.
A one time deal as I said before...
As a profession... nah that just isn't a relationship change I think I could be comfortable enough with, so I would let her go her own way and do what she wished to do.
You see I am really confused at this point. I went from learning a lot about ppl (here on CS) back to knowing nothing.
I would say that you worded it well about learning a lot about people, Laura. We never "know" people...can't be done since we're all individuals. The only person you can ever really KNOW is yourself, and that takes a lifetime for most of us, since we're changing and growing with every experience we have.
However, it's an interesting question that I like seeing people's responses to as well. To clarify, what I agreed with Pretz about was it would also be my 4th divorce if I were married to the person. Three previous divorces, and one widowhood...I think he and I are tied there if I've got it right.
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
NO
dont think I ca say it any more plainly and definativly than that. there is no amount of money or lack there of that would make this an acceptible thing. it would destroy the very foundation of a relationship in my opinon.
The13thWarrior: Well.. I don't see much evidence in support of "that" claim! Frankly, i'm disgusted. Have you nothing better to do with your time?
the same could be asked of you ...are you constently on the rag, or are you just naturelly unpleasent....you could always visit a less "absurd" thread...such as the sci-fi thread...
druidess6308: I would say that you worded it well about learning a lot about people, Laura. We never "know" people...can't be done since we're all individuals. The only person you can ever really KNOW is yourself, and that takes a lifetime for most of us, since we're changing and growing with every experience we have.
However, it's an interesting question that I like seeing people's responses to as well. To clarify, what I agreed with Pretz about was it would also be my 4th divorce if I were married to the person. Three previous divorces, and one widowhood...I think he and I are tied there if I've got it right.
I know Dru, and I'd be the last person to generalize... yet I do see lots of common tendencies here. Some of which are very unnerving.
And we can't really say "can't be done since we're all individuals" -
what about modern clinical psychology, other branches of science about human beings?
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Would u accept/encourage your wife or g/f,...... BE HONEST MEN(Vote Below)
Full or part time?
What if her job(or hobby) provided about 70% of the household income?
Just a Question to see if money is more important than loyalty in some peoples eyes.