Do women divorce for financial gain? (103)

I had a couple that wanted to get away from an a**hole..

well you should of told them to just roll you over, hell, that way you could of both been happier..

"Roll me over in the clover, lay me down, do it again."

Your character and strength are admirable.

Stop...it was their loss...

I think it has to do with the amount they ask for in child support. Its bloody ridiculous. They are bringing laws in also where the money is monitored and ensured it goes to the kids not to the mother who wants a good night out or Father.

Parents seem to think child support is extra income for themselves. The money is for the children. I for one wouldnt mind seeing it spent on the kids a bit more.

I am economically worse off which is statistically the norm.Divorce is expensive,emotionally draining and not a good way to earn money.cheaper to just run them over with the car and collect the life insurance...

Yes, it was & I told her so many times..

and she didn't listen? tsk

Well JB in AU a lot of the time it does go to the ex's and not the children, that's the reality of it.

I know........................

ah well, just chalk it up to experience....

I told her over, and over, and over what a good deal she was throwing away.... She just would not listen..

She was "experienced", I seen to that..

you are bad!

yes you do , the facts speak for themselves 68% of women file for divorce in 2007. and if you got kids the husband looses the house and 40% of his come, now you add the income tax, national insurance, council tax and tv licence, that is a whooping 83% of his income gone. Its very rare a woman will suffer this fate. Read the ginger bread report just released on family courts etc. If a woman has no income she can get legal aid while the husband who is working has to pay, plus the csa hammers him, no court in england will never kick out a woman with kids. But even with out kids the divorce courts are still more in favour for woman that men etc.

bw

40% of his come is lost, he is gone...


Hey Tina

firstly it get some information on what is going on in ur country. I donot know what the laws are in spain but child support is usually about child support. Its about demonising men as dead beat dads when they cannot pay or if they do pay they are left in real poverty. In the uk, the image is fathers are deadbeats like in the usa but the reality is the system here favours the mother overwhelmingly, this is in the area of child support and the family courts. The father loose access to his children the day she moves out with them, he can be charge with kidnappeing if he takes his childrn from his wife, she cannot. 99% will pay for their kids its just one per cent that doe not dispite the rubbish headlines. here the child support agency is a law to themselves, they have more power than the taxman and they strip father of their income to the point they canont go to work or stay heathy. Many fathers have killed themselves because they are hounded by the csa. Its also the idea that father have no responsibility but when the kids were with him he was considered responsible, now because she takes them he is considered dead beat, its not true.

Here if u are on government benefits the ex wife only gets 10 pounds per week so if the fathers has to pay 500 pounds per month she gets 40 the state gets 460, the state says the csa is to help get kids out of poverty that is the biggest lie, 40 pounds is either for one child or for 10 childern its not going to do much, and the state benefits are so low this was why the government decided (conservative) to bring in the csa. The reality is this, the CSA is about making money by stealing off fathers, which in turn cannot see their kids and get called deadbads for not providiing for their kids becuase they have no money. The father loses out the kids loose out and the ex loose out because it all goes to the government.


The idea that dads are deadbeat fit comoforably within the mindset of feminists
bw

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