ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
Yeah, sure people can change. Question is, do they want to? And how long are you willing to wait for that change? A week? A month? A year?
If it is/was a one time occurrence, you may consider forgiveness. At the second time, I would start considering consequences. And at the third time best show him where the door is....
felinelady: How can you trust somebody that lied to you?
Trust is the basis of a relationship.
Yeah, sure people can change. Question is, do they want to? And how long are you willing to wait for that change? A week? A month? A year?
If it is/was a one time occurrence, you may consider forgiveness. At the second time, I would start considering consequences. And at the third time best show him where the door is....
amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia327 posts
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
I don't think a persons moral outlook on life ever changes much. If you think its okay to lie to people to get what you want, or get out of trouble, I think you always will.
I think one of the problems with serials liars is that IMO they become so adept at it, they never get caught out. It becomes effortless for them & eventually second nature. Sad really. I've told lies and always feel sick about it afterwards, not because I did any major damage, but because it just wasn't the right thing to do. I don't know how serial liars sleep at night; it must be exhausting trying to sort the fact from fiction.
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
Yes your bum does look big in that dress, now do you still hate liers?.
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
Depends on what they were lying about. Sometimes, people lie to save people from being emotionally scarred.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
Yes, once a liar always a liar! Without doubt....
Someone once told me you know where you are with a gambler, with an adulterer, a thief, an alcoholic, etc etc but you will NEVER know where you are with a liar.....
Strangely enough, the person that told me that was my ex-mother-in-law. As much as she loved him, she knew her son was a chip-off-the-old-block. She was right!!
roseofsharon: Yes, once a liar always a liar! Without doubt....
Someone once told me you know where you are with a gambler, with an adulterer, a thief, an alcoholic, etc etc but you will NEVER know where you are with a liar.....
Strangely enough, the person that told me that was my ex-mother-in-law. As much as she loved him, she knew her son was a chip-off-the-old-block. She was right!!
yoursupergurl789: ive been lied too and then lied to about being lied too, im just curious what other single people think about the say "once a liar always a liar? or can people really change?
we all tell white lies sometimes; that's human nature;
I think though, your own statement answered it. I've been lied to then lied about being lied to.
So many women will listen to a guys BS over and over and the lies just pile up but the women keeps believing them. Then when the train wreck finally occurs, they are confused.
If a guy lies, and you accept it, he will always lie.
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