groovyme: The meaning of those wedding vows is lost in ages gone by when women were property, and men expected not shared experience, but blind obedience.
You reveal a LOT about yourself, by posting this question.
Here is my question to you ladies...
Would YOU marry a man who wanted obedience from you?
No way would I marry a man that expected obedience from me. I probably would not even date a man that expected obedience from me. If he changed after we were married and decided he wanted obedience from me the marriage would be over before the honeymoon.
In response to: She has on her profile...if you want obedience ....get a pet!!
What is the meaning of the wedding vows ...to love and obey??
would you date a woman who has on her profile ...if you want obedience ...get a pet????
First of all why the hostility; there are times when we obey our spouse; it talks about the give and take of a relationship; too many people have lists of what they want instead of realizing the work it takes to make it succeed.
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