Regarding the stories we read here, what do YOU think might have led to the breake-ups or divorces? (96)
Elley: Sometimes it,s best not to know. The past is the past and not necessarily an indication of how things will go in the future. Ignorance is bliss.
That may be true for some people Elley.
My last relationship was with a very jealous man, the first time in my life I had encountered such a man. He didn't like to know anythng personal about my past life and he admitted once that it was because he couldn't bear to think of me with another man.
I thought this was really weird and unbalanced, he accepted and met my kids a couple of times when they visited me in Spain but somehow managed to block out the fact of how and with who they were made!
Guys have a little faith in us.
You voted 'she is definately the liar'
You voted 'she is definately the liar'
lusciousmile: Koni woni boni foni.
You quoted Ship not Indy.
You quoted Ship not Indy.
oops Sorry about it, guys ...
Thanks Princess
Gotta Go ... my Brain is screaming for food ...real food
lusciousmile: P.S. This poll does not refer to any one specific post.
Ok. we've read a gazzillion stories here that make losers of our exes.
The thing that inspired the poll was that, we have both male and female friends here whom we always support.
Thing is, a man will come on here and narrate how their nagging ex gave them hell, ate popcorn all day over juicy gossip sessions over the neighbour's ramshackle fence, right before she taking off with everything including his dirty underwear. Everyone says they believe the guy, condemning and virtually killing the said 'villain or witch ' .
Two minutes later a woman will say her ex lover/husband was a cheating, abusive, dirt bag who never lifted a finger to help with the housework, and again everyone suports them sending the 'violator or loser' straight to hell.
So what would happen if all our ex lovers/ husbands joined the site? Would there be a conflict regarding trust??
Do you believe everything you read or just most of it?
Ok. we've read a gazzillion stories here that make losers of our exes.
The thing that inspired the poll was that, we have both male and female friends here whom we always support.
Thing is, a man will come on here and narrate how their nagging ex gave them hell, ate popcorn all day over juicy gossip sessions over the neighbour's ramshackle fence, right before she taking off with everything including his dirty underwear. Everyone says they believe the guy, condemning and virtually killing the said 'villain or witch ' .
Two minutes later a woman will say her ex lover/husband was a cheating, abusive, dirt bag who never lifted a finger to help with the housework, and again everyone suports them sending the 'violator or loser' straight to hell.
So what would happen if all our ex lovers/ husbands joined the site? Would there be a conflict regarding trust??
Do you believe everything you read or just most of it?
It's human nature to be supportive, on-line or IRL. We don't mean it though or do we?????
lusciousmile: One person voted 'she's probably a liar'
Show yourself!
Show yourself!
ME ME ME!! I voted that!!
Didn't see the choice "SHE'S A B*TCH!"
j_goose: ME ME ME!! I voted that!!Didn't see the choice "SHE'S A B*TCH!"
Goooooooooooose, i believe you.
Bad boy.
People, just like rocks erode, so do humans.
It is easy for a human to want to latch on to another human, male or female. People aren't "bad" or "wrong" or "wicked" or "evil" brecause they desire someone other than you, be you male or female. Nobody is right or wrong. It's a decision each individual chooses.
These desires should be talked about ahead of time.
If you want monogamy, your must make it known upon meeting your parther, If you want open relationaships , this should be openly divulged soon after the couple meets
It is easy for a human to want to latch on to another human, male or female. People aren't "bad" or "wrong" or "wicked" or "evil" brecause they desire someone other than you, be you male or female. Nobody is right or wrong. It's a decision each individual chooses.
These desires should be talked about ahead of time.
If you want monogamy, your must make it known upon meeting your parther, If you want open relationaships , this should be openly divulged soon after the couple meets
KrazieStill: It's human nature to be supportive, on-line or IRL. We don't mean it though or do we?????
Yeah, i guess so.
Skeptikos: People, just like rocks erode, so do humans.
It is easy for a human to want to latch on to another human, male or female. People aren't "bad" or "wrong" or "wicked" or "evil" brecause they desire someone other than you, be you male or female. Nobody is right or wrong. It's a decision each individual chooses.
These desires should be talked about ahead of time.
If you want monogamy, your must make it known upon meeting your parther, If you want open relationaships , this should be openly divulged soon after the couple meets
It is easy for a human to want to latch on to another human, male or female. People aren't "bad" or "wrong" or "wicked" or "evil" brecause they desire someone other than you, be you male or female. Nobody is right or wrong. It's a decision each individual chooses.
These desires should be talked about ahead of time.
If you want monogamy, your must make it known upon meeting your parther, If you want open relationaships , this should be openly divulged soon after the couple meets
****highjack*****
See dude, post like that. That's what I want from you!!!
Well, I think there is two sides to every story. I think why some come on here and talk about what the other has done to them is because maybe they don't want others to know what they have done. Or maybe they want to talk about it and get feedback and can't look past that persons faults to see their on.
I know I am guility of posting things about the man I am with. I have put in my posts that I am also at fault as well as he is. I've done wrong as much as he has if not more. I'm no angel, but I have tried turned my ways around.
This is just my opinion. I'm not knocking on anyone.
I know I am guility of posting things about the man I am with. I have put in my posts that I am also at fault as well as he is. I've done wrong as much as he has if not more. I'm no angel, but I have tried turned my ways around.
This is just my opinion. I'm not knocking on anyone.
sensitive: Well, I think there is two sides to every story. I think why some come on here and talk about what the other has done to them is because maybe they don't want others to know what they have done. Or maybe they want to talk about it and get feedback and can't look past that persons faults to see their on. I know I am guility of posting things about the man I am with. I have put in my posts that I am also at fault as well as he is. I've done wrong as much as he has if not more. I'm no angel, but I have tried turned my ways around. This is just my opinion. I'm not knocking on anyone.
There's nothing wrong with that either darlin...Feedback is good..
Hugz_n_Kissez: There's nothing wrong with that either darlin...Feedback is good..
Yes it is. It has helped me a whole lot. I appreciate everyone's comments.
sensitive: Well, I think there is two sides to every story. I think why some come on here and talk about what the other has done to them is because maybe they don't want others to know what they have done. Or maybe they want to talk about it and get feedback and can't look past that persons faults to see their on. I know I am guility of posting things about the man I am with. I have put in my posts that I am also at fault as well as he is. I've done wrong as much as he has if not more. I'm no angel, but I have tried turned my ways around. This is just my opinion. I'm not knocking on anyone.
This isn't about you Mary, you know you have my full support. You are one of the most honest people on here by the way.
Are you doing well?
lusciousmile: This isn't about you Mary, you know you have my full support. You are one of the most honest people on here by the way.
Are you doing well?
Are you doing well?
I know dear. I appreciate lusciousmile. I truly do. Thank you. I try to be honest about things.
Yes I am doing well. Thank you for asking. How are you?
I'm really into my schooling and that keeps me occupied.sensitive: I know dear. I appreciate lusciousmile. I truly do. Thank you. I try to be honest about things.
Yes I am doing well. Thank you for asking. How are you? I'm really into my schooling and that keeps me occupied.
Yes I am doing well. Thank you for asking. How are you? I'm really into my schooling and that keeps me occupied.
Nice to hear that Mary. I'm off to bed now, catch you later.
sensitive: Well, I think there is two sides to every story. I think why some come on here and talk about what the other has done to them is because maybe they don't want others to know what they have done. Or maybe they want to talk about it and get feedback and can't look past that persons faults to see their on. I know I am guility of posting things about the man I am with. I have put in my posts that I am also at fault as well as he is. I've done wrong as much as he has if not more. I'm no angel, but I have tried turned my ways around. This is just my opinion. I'm not knocking on anyone.
Hope you are sitting down!!
Believe it or not,, even I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime!
lusciousmile: Nice to hear that Mary. I'm off to bed now, catch you later.
Ok. Good night lusciousmile. Sweet dreams. rasgumby: Hope you are sitting down!!
Believe it or not,, even I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime!
Believe it or not,, even I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime!
No say it ain't soooooooooooo Hey haven't we all....
rasgumby: Hope you are sitting down!!
Believe it or not,, even I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime!
I just fell out of my chair. Believe it or not,, even I have made a lot of mistakes in my lifetime!
We all have made mistakes. No one is perfect. What counts is if one has learned from them.
Hello Alex
It's good to see you.
It's good to see you.
I think everyone has their own truth.
THE MILKMAN...
mastic55: THE MILKMAN...
I know right?
And What happen to size thing? 
I can honestly say my ex husband is not a bad man We just got married far to young both of us changed as we grew older. He went out a lot i let him because we had nothing in common. I decided i wanted my life back as i felt alone. So the break up was both our faults. I don't regret it and i hold no resentment towards him and if we meet we chat i is a nice guy but not for me.
PILIPALA: I can honestly say my ex husband is not a bad man We just got married far to young both of us changed as we grew older. He went out a lot i let him because we had nothing in common. I decided i wanted my life back as i felt alone. So the break up was both our faults. I don't regret it and i hold no resentment towards him and if we meet we chat i is a nice guy but not for me.
Well that sounds believable to me.
I cannot answer any of your questions. IOt was both of us and being young. It was both of us no matter. I dunno how to answer your questions. They don;t make sense to me.
PILIPALA: I can honestly say my ex husband is not a bad man We just got married far to young both of us changed as we grew older. He went out a lot i let him because we had nothing in common. I decided i wanted my life back as i felt alone. So the break up was both our faults. I don't regret it and i hold no resentment towards him and if we meet we chat i is a nice guy but not for me.
I also don't regret marrying him i was happy for a time and he is my son father that will never change.
Lionhearted1967: I cannot answer any of your questions. IOt was both of us and being young. It was both of us no matter. I dunno how to answer your questions. They don;t make sense to me.
It's a simple question with simple choices.
Do you believe everything you read here regarding reasons people have broken up?
There, paraphrased ( i think) and clearer.
But you don't have to answer.
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I disagree my friend. I would want to know if someone interested in me was a child molestor or devil worshipper before.