I Have had my heart broken so many times should i really try to get back in to dating ( Archived) (52)

if you mean you had your heart broken MANY TIMES there might be something wrong in your own style and appreoach,getting proffesional advice og a consoler is recommended
best of luck this time

I gave up dating after a few heartbreaks, but it wasn't the only reason I gave it up. Some time off will help you focus on what you really really reeeeally want, and not just what looks good on the surface.

"Me Time" is an okay thing!

if the HORSE throws you, you have to get back on !

In time, it is absolutely vital to put the pain behind you and move forward with your life and love. Otherwise, you are giving away your power to the people who hurt you. But only do it when you feel completely ready, only you can predict how long it will take.

Hey,you just have to dust yourself up each time you fall.
But before you get back,i want you to sit & think about what's causing these heart breaks.take a second loke at your character,approach,manners,style & the rest.maybe it's one of these things that has been driving your partners away.
And please don't rush.take your time.6 months is not too long.

the men would say "ready when you are"

This might be the time when you will be happy forever so dont give up yet

one night stand would be my advice...

I tend to agree with the post strict made...
it might be helpful to speak to someone who can help you understand why this keeps happening "so many times."

It seems if you were truly ready to get back into dating you would just do it with no reservation.

Perhaps your heart is "asking you to slow down" and take a closer look at yourself, your circumstances, and how you seem to find yourself in relationships with the same end result.

I looked at your profile and it states you're separated. If you are still married, whatever the situation, it can make it difficult to move forward especially if the experience of this separation (and impending divorce?) is part of your heartbreak.

I just sense a lot of loss and grief. Maybe it's worth exploring why your broken heart is "crying," and what it's going to need to feel whole again...
Listen to your heart. Therein lies your ultimate truth & wisdom.

Love & Light to you.

Believe me - Grandparents, Parents, pets, Friends - you will see many or all pass away in your life and it will "break" your heart.

In life, Love goes on - but those you love will change.

- nothing is static - everything changes, evolves

keep going. you will find the one for u.

This is how facing adversity and heartbreak were explained to me when I was a kid. Pearls of wisdom from my mom that I will gladly share with you:


"IF YOU HAVE TRIED AND HAVE NOT WON, NEVER STOP FOR CRYING. FOR ALL THAT IS GREAT AND THE GOOD THAT IS DONE IS JUST BY PATIENT TRYING."

It is hell to have your heart broken. It is better to gain something from the experience than to give up. Take time make to yourself stronger and go in with your eyes wide open. You gain nothing when you give up.

Lifes too short to let one guy mess it up..Enjoy every day while you can and forget about him