All I can say , is that a new man in your life helps you get over the one you lost. Always you meet men when you least expect it.I answered a babysitting ad in the news paper. I took the summer off and my son was 12 and his son was 12. Turned out we were in the same grade in high school. We were together ever since he passed away from cancer. What magazines say : walk a dog in a park and in turn you might meet a guy with his own dog. While grocery shopping look ia a guys basket and see that he is buying little and is not married, cooking only for himself.Go out even if you don't like a guy , you might like one if his friends.My son and his friend while in collge use to crash weddings. They would get all dressed up an put an empty envelope in the gift box. To my surprise , I scolded him . His buddy did meet someone . They would always tell people I'm a cousin of the brides brother's friend or somthing like that.Once they were standing near th bar and the groom passed them , turned around and said hey guys I'm going to throw the garter now. He had no clue. Good luck and I hope you find someone. Holly
When I feel lonely I either hop in my car, hit the freeway, crank up my music and just drive and get away from town for a while or watch a movie. Romantic or if that would bother ya even more, watch a comedy.
Those are pretty good options. I like the one about eating ice cream every day for 2 years, and the one about faking illness. However, what if they call your bluff and treat your fake illness?
Maybe if you follow hunky guys home and sneak in their bushes and peep at them through the window, they will take pity on you and let you in.
Are you lonely cos you're single, or just plain lonely?
Either way, get out there and do things that you enjoy doing, either alone or in a club/group situation, whatever you're more comfortable with.
Take yourself out for dinner, to the movies, to a club, whatever ..
Being on here won't cure loneliness, but it does fill in spare time. It's good for relating to other people, but you do have to attend meets and go on dates on a regular basis, if it's actual people contact you want out of it, with a view to a companion
•Accept the next bloke that asks her out •pray to GOD •walk out side and lay on grass
And just a couple of more ideas (out of 100's):
•start a completely new hobby - something you never even thought you might find interesting •go out with female friends •travel some place by yourself (even just go see what bus routes there are, get on one of them and GO!) •go for a drive with some fantastic music •go to a massage parlour •find an older lady who's happily married and visit her to chat about life •get a puppy (although then you might never need a man anymore for company! )
MetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA875 posts
pinkfaerie: Thank you your opinion is valuable!!
Are you Alone or lonely? There is a difference! I think some of us here are alone in a sense of a relationship.Being lonely means noone and thats a very sad thing.If a girl is lonely she should get out more and stop crying in the toilet like your post says lol
•Accept the next bloke that asks her out •pray to GOD •walk out side and lay on grass
And just a couple of more ideas (out of 100's):
•start a completely new hobby - something you never even thought you might find interesting •go out with female friends •travel some place by yourself (even just go see what bus routes there are, get on one of them and GO!) •go for a drive with some fantastic music •go to a massage parlour •find an older lady who's happily married and visit her to chat about life •get a puppy (although then you might never need a man anymore for company! )
I opted for "dye your hair blonde", but here is my two penny bit:
Think logically. Be postive. Look outwards. Shed yourself of all the hard skin. Keep your chin up. Join a biking comunity.
well..all i can say to you to be patient, if all your efforts have failed to search for a partner/company, because patience is the greatest virtue of all...
Dec 7, 2010 3:40 AM CST What shall a female do if she is lonely and single??
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
To vote: click your choice below Sit in toilet and cry Accept the next bloke that asks her out pray to GOD Fake illness and meet new man in hospital walk out side and lay on grass scream at strangers to pls help sing a song at top of her voice on train dye hair blonde eat kfc every day for a year eat icecream every day for two years
inkognito: To vote: click your choice below Sit in toilet and cry Accept the next bloke that asks her out pray to GOD Fake illness and meet new man in hospital walk out side and lay on grass scream at strangers to pls help sing a song at top of her voice on train dye hair blonde eat kfc every day for a year eat icecream every day for two yearsyou forgot: or create polls like that one
or she could just email me to find out if i am available....
In my opinion a mastur***n can take away the loneliness and make you feel contended,self sufficient.Try it once if doesn't work for the first time do it again and again! If all of that fail then come to me and the success is guaranty!
•Accept the next bloke that asks her out •pray to GOD •walk out side and lay on grass
And just a couple of more ideas (out of 100's):
•start a completely new hobby - something you never even thought you might find interesting •go out with female friends •travel some place by yourself (even just go see what bus routes there are, get on one of them and GO!) •go for a drive with some fantastic music •go to a massage parlour •find an older lady who's happily married and visit her to chat about life •get a puppy (although then you might never need a man anymore for company! )
Wouldn't be wiser to get the toy instead the dog ?!! Much of the same result can be achieved,yet the toy is easier to maintain.
reading, cooking, gardening, make up house, visit family....many positive thing to spend time (not wasting time). when you are single u have big chance to increase ur study level or career. Coz u can focus and no disturbance. make urself as very happy single....
Or visit orphanage, play with kids there. In orphanage you will feel much better than they are in orphanage. You still have parent, family, friends......so even single, you still lucky. dont be lonely....
Get out in the real world,stay busy,find a group to join that likes the same things you do.You can't meet him or make real world friends setting behind a computer crying can you.Put a smile on that face,laugh with the world,be happy,enjoy life your young go for it.
im single, but i have my children... not feels lonely much, since i have my children to light up my days... if you dont have children, u have friends and family around you, focus on them, n they will makes u less lonely...:)
go to toilet, cry as much as you want, and as much as much as you can
then dye your hair blonde
eat ice cream once a week only...
then go out meet some friends (if any) or go out your self, shake hand to stranger in a club while we have drinks, and start fun conversation ( do not think much at first fun talk, just find friend to talk)...
more of...keep your smile on your face. do not put or or
Ummm..errr..sit in toilet and cry?!?! How do you even fit?? Your option list is very bleak..I would suggest you stop looking for a man to fill your loneliness. Crawl out of the toilet and join some fun groups..find some hobbies..look for friends before BOYfriends..things will seem brighter.
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
nanners2863: Ummm..errr..sit in toilet and cry?!?! How do you even fit?? Your option list is very bleak..I would suggest you stop looking for a man to fill your loneliness. Crawl out of the toilet and join some fun groups..find some hobbies..look for friends before BOYfriends..things will seem brighter.
Whoop de Do.There's my girl How's life treating you?
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
nanners2863: Ummm..errr..sit in toilet and cry?!?! How do you even fit?? Your option list is very bleak..I would suggest you stop looking for a man to fill your loneliness. Crawl out of the toilet and join some fun groups..find some hobbies..look for friends before BOYfriends..things will seem brighter.
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