are you afraid of commitment? (79)
hell no.
ready as ever to dive in that pool again.
I've learnt how to swim the last past years and now I am swimming for the gold medal
ready as ever to dive in that pool again.
I've learnt how to swim the last past years and now I am swimming for the gold medal
deblake60: A date? What's that??
Given time, its a sticky and delicious thing.
jac379: Given time, its a sticky and delicious thing.
Zimzane: If I said what I really wanted this thread would head into the direction of being deleted.
You can probably find some of what u r looking for at that Cat-House in Las Vegas....LOL
Actually when I read profile, everybody states they r looking for the same thing....If that is the case, what is so hard about matching up??? I just don't get it...
Buffy327: You can probably find some of what u r looking for at that Cat-House in Las Vegas....LOL
Actually when I read profile, everybody states they r looking for the same thing....If that is the case, what is so hard about matching up??? I just don't get it...
Actually when I read profile, everybody states they r looking for the same thing....If that is the case, what is so hard about matching up??? I just don't get it...
Maybe afraid of the chance of being rejected?
deblake60: Maybe afraid of the chance of being rejected?
why should you be rejected?
carenza: why should you be rejected?
When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
deblake60: When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
Well, don't let that Witch Stop U...Ur an absolute doll and only a dufus would not c that....
joelle2107: because you love your freedom? relationship breaks-up frighten you? not ready to take responsibility?
I had responsibilities all my life ,so Im nut running away from them
Freedom is just an illusion
Commitment is a two way street fulfilled with sacrifices compromises and above all love
deblake60: When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
what a terrible thing to say!
you are not ugly at all!
I apologize as a female for that unkind woman.
but hey....no love lost there....
you look fine.....don't worry and I know for sure you will find her.....as soon as you drop a few of your jobs....where do you find time to be with your new friend, I wonder...
deblake60: When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
That's the kind of thing that ugly people do, hun. Don't take it to heart.
Buffy327: Well, don't let that Witch Stop U...Ur an absolute doll and only a dufus would not c that....
It did sting, and I admit that I don't email that much anymore. Other than the friends that I email here.
I appreciate the pep-talk though. Thanks!
carenza: what a terrible thing to say!
you are not ugly at all!
I apologize as a female for that unkind woman.
but hey....no love lost there....
you look fine.....don't worry and I know for sure you will find her.....as soon as you drop a few of your jobs....where do you find time to be with your new friend, I wonder...
you are not ugly at all!
I apologize as a female for that unkind woman.
but hey....no love lost there....
you look fine.....don't worry and I know for sure you will find her.....as soon as you drop a few of your jobs....where do you find time to be with your new friend, I wonder...
Well, thing is one job got dropped, when I cracked my ankle!
deblake60: Maybe afraid of the chance of being rejected?
U think they would refuse Zimzane service????
Now I really would like to know what it is he is after....
I hear U deblake, but being afraid will not get u what u r seeking...U have to test the waters, rejection is part of the game, always has been and always will be...The REWARD of finding that one true love is worth all the pain or U would not c all of us here.
We all been there and done that...
jac379: That's the kind of thing that ugly people do, hun. Don't take it to heart.
Thanks Jac, at the time, like I said before, it did sting. But you know what could have been worse??? I could have actualy hooked up with her and discovered what type of person she was when its "too late".
deblake60: Well, thing is one job got dropped, when I cracked my ankle!
good!
well, not about the ankle.....but the job dropping.
perhaps you should change your profile a bit...it's just a suggestion...but if you don't seem to have much time to be around a beautiful girl, they will not choose you as a mate....I think.
you have a nice smile.....
that is a very strong point, so I think you should take advantage of that..
carenza: good!
well, not about the ankle.....but the job dropping.
perhaps you should change your profile a bit...it's just a suggestion...but if you don't seem to have much time to be around a beautiful girl, they will not choose you as a mate....I think.
you have a nice smile.....
that is a very strong point, so I think you should take advantage of that..
well, not about the ankle.....but the job dropping.
perhaps you should change your profile a bit...it's just a suggestion...but if you don't seem to have much time to be around a beautiful girl, they will not choose you as a mate....I think.
you have a nice smile.....
that is a very strong point, so I think you should take advantage of that..
Thank you, Carenza, I think you have a nice one too. I think I will take your advice and change some things.
deblake60: When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
OMG
That's unbelievable that someone could be so rude. You are a very sweet man. I hope you don't let that email stop you from the search. Rejection is always there and so is acceptance.At this point in my life, I perfer my freedom. When I was married (1962) I was expected to have dinner on the table at a certain time. I couldn't have any friends much less invite them to the house. I was on a very strict budget and had to account for every nickel. Making a decison was out of the question.
Even though I miss being being interactive with a man, I prefer to be my own woman and run my own life.
When I was younger, committment was part of my personality. Now I can do what I want to do when I want to do it and not answer to anyone. I like it that way.
joelle2107: because you love your freedom? relationship breaks-up frighten you? not ready to take responsibility?
It's not commitment I'm afraid of...
deblake60: When I first joined I emailed a lady that had similar interest that I had. When she replied (wish she hadn't) but basically told me I was ugly and so ugly that I could stop traffic and then told me to run out during rush hour to test the theory.
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
All I wrote the first time was "I read your profile and I see we share the same interest and hobbies, would you like to get to know each other?"
Who is she to comment about GOD creation? we all are GOD creation, we cant choose or order to be like this , like that. When someone said that someone is ugly, mean they not respect GOD's creation and said that God's creation is ugly. who we r to comment about that?
deblake60: Thanks Jac, at the time, like I said before, it did sting. But you know what could have been worse??? I could have actualy hooked up with her and discovered what type of person she was when its "too late".
Yeah, I know what could have been worse...being like that oneself. You have an opportunity to be a little smug here.
carenza: hell no.
ready as ever to dive in that pool again.
I've learnt how to swim the last past years and now I am swimming for the gold medal
ready as ever to dive in that pool again.
I've learnt how to swim the last past years and now I am swimming for the gold medal
Didn't you say in my thread, Carenza, that you weren't ready for a relationship yet?
Ambrose2007: Didn't you say in my thread, Carenza, that you weren't ready for a relationship yet?
I changed my mind....all of a sudden.
I met a very nice guy here in the forums.
He's a lucky guy.I am afraid to commit myself to answer this question.
I should be committed... 
Kaybee50: I should be committed...
True. 
Kaybee50: I should be committed...
I could think of worse things than being commited with u
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