would u date a disable person (69)

Apr 13, 2011 12:39 AM CST would u date a disable person
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do


How is a person with a broken leg with a plate in it considered disabled?confused You need to look up the difinition of disabled.
Apr 14, 2011 8:55 AM CST would u date a disable person
the_saint
the_saintthe_saintChapelle-lez-Herlaimont, Hainaut Belgium5 Posts
Well, here is the opinion of one who is blind but has learned to live independantly. A lot of people stop there (not just girls) and think that blind is all we are. Naturally, if I needed help 24/7 a day, I could understand some or much apprehension. But it's not the case with me and yet... the mere mention of it seems to cause people not to get close
Apr 14, 2011 8:59 AM CST would u date a disable person
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ccincy: How is a person with a broken leg with a plate in it considered disabled? You need to look up the difinition of disabled.


I wouldnt class that as "disabled" either Cin dunno
Apr 14, 2011 9:01 AM CST would u date a disable person
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do


I'm not sure I understand where the problem is ...

Unless you are totally into extreme sports and felt strongly about him sharing in your activities dunno
Apr 15, 2011 2:29 AM CST would u date a disable person
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do


To me that is not disabled. If he can still walk, and just has a plate then he is fine.

I broke my hip in one leg and have pins and bolts. It was just as good as the other until I tried to do bootcamp hell dancing. I ended up with the same leg developing a pinched nerve. I still dance, etc, but am going through physical therapy so that both legs have the same strenth.
It's a pain, but accidents happen.

I also got through it without pain pills. I did not want to get hooked on them.

Sometimes true disabled people have more guts and will power than those that work and are couch potatoes.

The Dobe
Apr 15, 2011 4:45 AM CST would u date a disable person
puppypower
puppypowerpuppypowerRockhampton, Queensland Australia9 Threads 2 Polls 757 Posts
the_saint: Well, here is the opinion of one who is blind but has learned to live independantly. A lot of people stop there (not just girls) and think that blind is all we are. Naturally, if I needed help 24/7 a day, I could understand some or much apprehension. But it's not the case with me and yet... the mere mention of it seems to cause people not to get close



dude I just read your profile ...

hope ya find everything you deserve cheers
Apr 15, 2011 4:50 AM CST would u date a disable person
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
Arlene101: Do I get this right that he broke one of his legs and has a plate in it?
You think he is disabled?
I think you should dump him so he can meet a very real and great woman.
Jeeezuss!


wave Arlene...can't help but agree...wonder how she would feel if she were married to a guy and he became disabled....would she divorce him????doh
Apr 15, 2011 4:56 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
OMG ... I click on the wrong button... I mean yes..not no...


In fact I have a friend... ooooh I so wish I could date him... ooohhh smitten smitten

hehehe... but he has a disability.... so what... who cares, I dont... he is the nicest guy, and a very very dear friend.. lips
Apr 15, 2011 4:58 AM CST would u date a disable person
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do

This is nothing at all, this would never bother me. About dating disabled otherwise, it depends on what it is, he must still be physically attractive to me. I am disabled myself in a way and dated many people. I have AS and social phobia, but I can get pass through, I have my special ways.
Apr 15, 2011 5:03 AM CST would u date a disable person
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
tstone61: yes I would also date somone who is diaabled as long as they are dealing with it in a positive way and had them self together emotionaly and mentaly
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thumbs up thumbs up this is very important
Apr 15, 2011 5:14 AM CST would u date a disable person
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi.

I see no major problems . & yes i would . its when youv been through things in your own life you work through them ,
i have & still do , i know my weakness & can handle pain & thats extreme pain as well.

Ill tell you what tho it can make or break you in a relastion ship. or it can make you very strong to gether,
& yes there can be hurdles to over come , & when you do that , then is there a problem , not in my book ,
Apr 15, 2011 5:24 AM CST would u date a disable person
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
my sons father has cerebral palsy ..so yes i would wave
Apr 15, 2011 5:33 AM CST would u date a disable person
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Most people are disabled in some way,could be mental or physical.Its whats inside a person,their heart,their spirit,their attitude that really matters,not a handicap.
Apr 15, 2011 5:39 AM CST would u date a disable person
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
When I was younger I would have said no, to be honest. But know it would be ok, but depending on the severity of course ! I wouldn't want to be a full time nurse.
Apr 15, 2011 5:44 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
RDM59: When I was younger I would have said no, to be honest. But know it would be ok, but depending on the severity of course ! I wouldn't want to be a full time nurse.



Hey, you have a disability ... can I date you...????


hehehehehehegrin
Apr 15, 2011 6:00 AM CST would u date a disable person
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Merriweather: Hey, you have a disability ... can I date you...????hehehehehehe


Now yer got me curious? Enough for him to join the circus???conversing



(gawd...please, please...no-one take offence at what I write!!!uh oh )
Apr 15, 2011 6:06 AM CST would u date a disable person
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Merriweather: Hey, you have a disability ... can I date you...????hehehehehehe


bowing... I'd be honoured to take you out on a date young lady ... rose

Regarding my disabilty, in our case I would concider my partial deafness as a definite bonus.

blah blah blah blah blah blah blah


laugh tongue hug wink
Apr 15, 2011 6:07 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
venere08: Now yer got me curious? Enough for him to join the circus???
(gawd...please, please...no-one take offence at what I write!!! )



Hey up.. wave

I reckon that every bloke who disables his social forum tools and too lazy to reconnect has a disability...

Well, time for a buzz hey????

I will tinkle U... angel
Apr 15, 2011 6:09 AM CST would u date a disable person
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Merriweather: Hey up..

I reckon that every bloke who disables his social forum tools and too lazy to reconnect has a disability...

Well, time for a buzz hey????

I will tinkle U...


rolling on the floor laughing blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

tongue laugh
Apr 15, 2011 6:10 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
RDM59: ... I'd be honoured to take you out on a date young lady ...

Regarding my disabilty, in our case I would concider my partial deafness as a definite bonus.




Hark... I hear a faint echo of myself.... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Evening there good sire... grin
Apr 15, 2011 6:16 AM CST would u date a disable person
curiousgeorge2
curiousgeorge2curiousgeorge2magnolia, Mississippi USA11 Threads 5 Polls 488 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do


a PLATE in his Leg ? is that what you are so worried about ?

CHRIST ! my ankles legs and pelvis are ALL hinged and plated with Titanium & my spine is broken ! FIND something SERIOUS
to complain about !
professor
Apr 15, 2011 6:21 AM CST would u date a disable person
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Merriweather: Hey up..

I reckon that every bloke who disables his social forum tools and too lazy to reconnect has a disability...

Well, time for a buzz hey????

I will tinkle U...


Ya mean he's turned skype off??? The beggar!!!

rolling on the floor laughing



I'm ready when you are...conversing

wave
Apr 15, 2011 6:45 AM CST would u date a disable person
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
RDM59: ... I'd be honoured to take you out on a date young lady ...

Regarding my disabilty, in our case I would concider my partial deafness as a definite bonus.
crying My disability wasn’t enough to seduce him, maybe yours is better. good luck to you Merriweatherwine
Apr 15, 2011 6:55 AM CST would u date a disable person
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Merriweather: Hey up..

I reckon that every bloke who disables his social forum tools and too lazy to reconnect has a disability...

Well, time for a buzz hey????

I will tinkle U...
I am sorry merri but I got tickled when I read this. In my parts alot of times if a lady needs to go to the restroom she will say I need to go tinkle. I don't think you meant it in that context. But the difference in languages bought a smile to my face. I think sometimes that sadly language is where a lot of our misunderstandings begin. But just in case hmmm R might want to stand back untill he sees what kind of tinkle you are givinglaugh teddybear
Apr 15, 2011 7:11 AM CST would u date a disable person
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
nevica: My disability wasn’t enough to seduce him, maybe yours is better. good luck to you Merriweather


grin wine tip hat
Apr 15, 2011 7:14 AM CST would u date a disable person
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do
a broken leg is not a disabily i broke my arm twice! and yes i would date a disabled guy
Apr 15, 2011 7:20 AM CST would u date a disable person
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
JMNEISHA: i met this really nice guy on cs site and fell deeply in love with him. but the thing is, he had an accident and broke on of his legs. he now have a plate in it. what should i do


OMG.... if every person who has a plate because of broken bones is considered disbled, then the worlds is full of them...uh oh
Apr 15, 2011 7:43 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
nevica: My disability wasn’t enough to seduce him, maybe yours is better. good luck to you Merriweather


Hi nevica... wave

I am sure you could manage a cyber hug with him..hug

cos I dont mind sharing... bouquet






( we are good friends, and he was one of my hosts when I was touring the northern hemisphere)tip hat
Apr 15, 2011 7:46 AM CST would u date a disable person
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Happygolucky4u: I am sorry merri but I got tickled when I read this. In my parts alot of times if a lady needs to go to the restroom she will say I need to go tinkle. I don't think you meant it in that context. But the difference in languages bought a smile to my face. I think sometimes that sadly language is where a lot of our misunderstandings begin. But just in case R might want to stand back untill he sees what kind of tinkle you are giving



Hi ah... wave


I am cracking up laughing... a tinkle is a phone call... Jeez.. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 15, 2011 8:06 AM CST would u date a disable person
roosterbones: cut off the leg , cook it up on the grill
put some A-1 steak sauce on it , eat it off the plate.
He wont ever run around on you


how if its happen to you? u may get accident also scold

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