I am not too sure about the horn thing myself, but in 20 or so years, I will let you know.
If young Asians are hooking up with older white men because of money, then that is their business. I am not sure how they would expect to love that man as a person if they are solely going after him for his money. ....sounds like greed to me?? If it is not worth it to them, well...they get what they have coming to them, I suppose. I am not sure what they were expecting. It is simple common sense.
I completely agree with you there. If a cute little Asian ever wants to become serious with me, that thought will be the first thing on my mind (unfortunately....again).
I am certain your insight here may actually help many out.
I would be interested in hearing what some young Asian ladies have to say about this.
I know there are many young Asians on this site.
Like you....I would like to hear about some older men too.
However, your statement (in OP) says there are many advantages for both parties involved. Maybe you are looking at it the wrong way? Or, maybe that is what you are trying to point out? ....the fact that there are "advantages." Does a relationship really need to rely on advantages?
But, you may recall my post about getting together with a younger woman....to avoid baggage a woman brings into a relationship. As L.L. asked, I say it is because they have less relationship experience; therefore, they will have less baggage. I also said there were some downfalls to dating a younger woman. One of the downfalls is that they may not fully understand how a relationship may change their lives. Once in a relationship, they may discover this is not exactly what they hoped for or wanted. I almost wonder if some of these young women you speak of didn't really know what to expect in a relationship.....however, in the beginning, they were truly in love with the older man?
I agree. Asians are very attractive to men...young and old. I would also suspect a lot of them from overseas marry here in the states for citizenship. A man has to be careful (depending on his age). But a guy on his last legs (especially with nobody to leave his wealth to), he may not care so much.
For me, age is not an issue. I have been attracted to women in their 50's before. I think an older man can bring so many enlightening experiences (maturity) to a younger woman's life...therefore adding value to her life.
If both people are happy in the relationship, then it is worth it.
You know....'is it really worth it' can be assigned to ALL relationships. From all your responses CH, I almost get the impression that you "personally" do not like these older men chasing younger women. Perhaps I am wrong....but this is just my opinion.
I feel sorry for women, actually. Because as they age, they actually lose their value to a man. I think that is why it is so important for couples to work out differences in their relationships. Who knows....that might be the last relationship a person (man/woman) has the ability to be in.
I think I state in my profile I am looking for somebody with intelligence. That does not mean I am smart, I am just looking for somebody to carry me through life....simple. I think you are looking too deep into things. lol
I tend to agree with your position with chaos. It does create challenges for us to overcome. I myself, do not mind a challenge once in a while. For example, I am thinking about using two rocking chairs.
Thanks for posting that song. I did listen to it. It seems as if his music comes from a dark place within himself but he sings it in a peaceful nature.
With how you explain things, which I do not find any discrepancies in it, something does not add up.
Is it possible that life is such a complex thing and our human brains operate on a much more simplistic level that our free will does seem intact from our conscious state? So, maybe from our human form, we actually do have free will. (maybe?)
Otherwise, we do not have free will (just a grand illusion of it).
or
God is not all knowing and our lives are not predestined.
I can imagine from a more "scientific" viewpoint, people would probably be more inclined to think the latter.
Just how intelligent are we?
Hello Z....Very funny.