Johnny_Sparton Blog Comments (7,940)

RE: What is honesty?

lol Mimi...I got one sitting next to me on my desk. How funny.

RE: DATING or SOCIAL SITE

Hello Simmo,

I think it is a combination of both.

From what I can tell, a lot of members on here are not too quick to find new partners....for whatever reason (maybe something that happen in their past). But, as they socialize with people, they begin to get a deep understanding and feeling of these people. And who knows, maybe one day a meaningful relationship would spawn from that.


My take on this site.

RE: What is honesty?

FJ.....it is all starting to make sense to me now. They are taught and paid to use their words carefully.

RE: What is honesty?

Hello FJ,

First off, I love the bottled water that comes from your country.


I think you ask some good questions...both tricky to answer I think. Nothing is more annoying to me when people play off of using the "correct" words to be dishonest or to not own up to their mistakes. I know somebody like that. In my opinion, people like that are not very successful in life....eventually, people will see through them.



As far as not telling the whole truth...if that person knows what you are trying to get out of them but they are dancing around answering it....then I would call that dis-honest.

If you do not say anything at all....well, technically you are not lying. Lawyers will inform their clients all the time not to say anything. But, do you want to have anyone as a friend who has to work on "technicalities" to get through life?

RE: What Is Reality?

Hello Soc,

It is something how "reality" can be manipulated by the media, liars, and deranged people. I suppose we can call some of these realities sub-realities.

I think as we discover more of what is out in the universe, we will be changing our current view on reality.

RE: Grievance Blog....Most Every Thing Goes

My 2 pennies Snook....if somebody asks you too personal of a question, just let them know that you think that is too personal of a question and you would rather not answer it.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Ian......good luck with that one.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Ken,

I was involved in a discussion one time with somebody about that exact subject....laws inhibiting our natural order.


I will admit, he did make a lot of sense; but, on the flip side, if we are to live as a civilized society, we do need certain laws.

Thank you Ken.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Z....that is your long version of the answer? lol


Thank you for your thoughts on this matter.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Hello Sol,

I like your take on this subject....the understanding of how and why a relationship takes that course. With your assessment, it makes me wonder why they would remain married? But, I suppose the reason for that would be unique to each and every marriage. Thank you for the additional information to consider.

RE: Who Needs A Hug Or Two??

Sorry to hear about your kitty DC...

RE: Who Needs A Hug Or Two??

Heck DC, it took me 10 minutes to scroll down to request a hug from you. I do not want one from Pepps.. She is not cheap.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Calm,

Yes....that would be a huge danger. Now, I never said I was going to partake in anything....lol. It was just an innocent hypothetical question that happen to cross my mind after some married woman kept winking at me.

I am for single to mingle....even though, being a beautiful woman...it would be tough....but I would stick to my guns.


:)


Thanks for confirming I got it right with Zar. That is what I thought. Sometimes I am not the quickest out there.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Zar.....to funny. Sounds like you could use some Herbal Essence too. lol ....gosh, I hope I understood your post correctly.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Call, that is where I am siding too. Thank you for your input.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

CH....that is the true beauty of life. We get more enlightened/smarter as we move along.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

L.L.,

To my knowledge, I do not think it happens all that often. But, with the way our society is moving today....who knows, it might be on the increase?


But, it sounds like you are not against it. :)




Thank you L.L.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Ded....thank you for your post. It looks like we got some for and some strongly against. Maybe Ken is on to something with the nature of our upbringing....or, something like that he started his post out with.

Thanks Ded.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Hello Wen,

That is an interesting look at this topic. Does physical beauty play a roll in things? Hmmm...something to ponder there.

Thank you for your input.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Hello KN,

Thank you for your thoughts on this topic.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Hello Ken,

With your initial response, it begs for a philosophical question. Do you think some man-made laws interfere with the nature of our beings?

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Hello Ken,

Thank you for the psychological aspect/natural world perspective on this. With your individual situational breakdowns, it seems that all roads lead to a dead end.....or, to nowhere good....for the most part.

Thanks for sharing that more scientific view. It certainly adds a logical look at this situation.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

CH,

The intention would not be to ruin any marriage. Like I mentioned, it would be okay with everyone...including both of the people in the marriage.

Who knows, it could actually improve their marriage.


But...it is nice to see everyone's points of view. Min, I think addresses what you say. It would be possible that deep feelings could arise and possibly break up a marriage, even if that was not the initial intention.


With that said, I do not think I would partake in a situation like this. She would have to be divorced.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

CH,

No....not yet anyway. But, I do not think I could bring myself to it. Now, if she got divorced, I could justify doing something like that.

But....


Like Pepps says, it really is a difficult decision when you are put into a real life scenario.



I would guess for a woman it would not be that difficult to turn down. They have been hit on by men all their lives and well-conditioned to situations similar to this. For a man, well...we do not get hit on by women all of our lives. So, when something like this occurs, it is much more difficult for us to know how to appropriately deal with our feelings and emotions. My thought on it anyway.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Well Pepps....I do get out around a lot of people.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

DC....boy, you are making this easier for me by the minute. j/k

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Pepps....I completely agree with you. At one time I would have been against the idea. However, once you are in that situation and the chemicals in your body begin to react.....it is surely tough to decline.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Outside, I will make a note of that.

Would you partake in an open relationship?

DC....I was a boyscout and you are right..."Be Prepared."

Would you partake in an open relationship?

Min....thank you and you bring up another very good point. There could be a potential of the marriage dissolving, which might lead to hard feelings. I have heard, murder usually occurs over money, drugs, or love triangles.

So, one would need to be concerned about their physical well-being.

Thanks for sharing.