I hoped my observations are deemed logical, and under the circumstances,my preference to not advise on the topic of sorting out an adult's future online as good (legal)counsel.This situation may directly effect the other family members in a very serious manner,as she claims HE is aware she blogs here -in HIS name ? A "victim" could be any and all persons, depending on the participation ..including her readers.CS blogging can not sort it out, anymore than any other social media. Even privately mailed responses have been exploited when " taking sides". There's heartfelt interest in sharing burdens,but committed friends might better sustain someone in a dire need.
You are quite a teckkie..what's your latest gadget? I wanted a kitchen device that will self-baste anything,surely there must be an easy solution...please note I baste with beer.
RE: Women,.............
Why do you suppose there is a title such as: Mother Superior.