i think what some consider settling could be a good match, after all. has anybody been with someone when an other approaches, and out of loyalty, stays only regretting not giving the other a chance?
all i can say is, it feels good to share good news. if you are happy, its hard to contain the energy. the fact is, we all have experienced a break up, i think. so, this is a friendly place to feel better during a difficult time. it's none of our business but we wish everyone the best, anyway.
i don't think all the sites are the same. i've heard a lot of negative stories about pof. i don't think it's a good idea to only look online. keep your eyes open when you do your errands or shop. don't be afraid to pay a compliment. don't be afraid to talk. it doesn't have to mean anything but it will build your confidence. if it goes somewhere, great.
Aa, it is difficult to accept consequences for some. It might have been from being punished as a child. If a person has a conscience, the guilt will stain the mind. Now, for liars. How and why do some people think it's ok to lie even when it's plain that they are. To get a liar to admit the truth can be impossible. There are some people that I don't bother asking because I don't know what their truth and truth is anymore.
LJ, I'm sorry to read this. It seems, no matter how great the partner is, some eyes wander...I don't understand this. I boil it down to ego and need. I do believe it takes a miracle for change, so I don't think change happens, ever. I also think, when trust is gone, it may take a lifetime to earn it back.
i once worked overnights. on my way home, i passed a lake and would park. on that particular day, i got out of the car and had a seat on the curb by the sand. while quietly sitting, i caught something in the corner of my eye. it was a big turtle, right next to me. i watched as she slowly paddled with her hind legs, in the sand. then, to my amazement, she began laying eggs! it was so exciting to watch. i sat very still and watched her lay no less than 12 eggs. it was a great morning.
unfortunately, corruption is everywhere. i do appreciate the LDS church for helping my parents, even if I don't want anything to do with it. lol it's a way of life and they seem to benefited from it.
Non, it is so unfortunate that we must teach children to be cautious of persons that are in place to be mentors. i am not religious and never was in a position like this. i have been around adults but my cautious nature probably saved me.
i want to believe that people in the office of doing good, do good. it's pure evil, if people use such office to do harm. we can only hope that such an office appeals to the good at heart, and the good at heart prevail
RE: Settling for less than perfect
i think what some consider settling could be a good match, after all. has anybody been with someone when an other approaches, and out of loyalty, stays only regretting not giving the other a chance?