sweet_saucy2008 Blog Comments (189)

RE: Is MONOGAMY healthy for the mind or spirit ?

If you are in a "relationship" it can be. If you don't feel that this is the type of lifestyle for you, stay free. It works for some people as it gives a level of comfort.

What creates the problems is when one or both parties find this to be too confining. Therefore there will be mental stresses and feelings of being torn between duty and happiness.

RE: wow!!

Well I guess I can say that you beat me to this one. I have wondered the same thing about men. I am who I am. I don't have time for those who are so conceited it makes them pathetic. I have met men who thought they were all that and a bag of potato chips. I will bow down to no one to earn brownie points.

RE: Life has a funny way of throwing you a curveball..

I am a true believer that things happen for a reason. There will be plenty of time to meet others wherever you go.
Congratulations.

RE: At what point is it acceptable...

It has been my experience that true love does exist, for someone else. I have pondered the idea as to when if ever I will find it. I am open to the the concept, but not hard pressed to find it. You hear that when you are not looking for it you will find it, and although I haven't looked period, I am still without it. So I guess all we can do is wait and see until the day they lay us down for our eternal rest.

RE: Seniors vs Youngsters

My late father taught me that we continue to learn until we die. We will never have all the answers, just experience to share. The best train of thought was to go with the times and think outside the box.

RE: As if dating were not hard enough...

It would seem, that dating sites are just the name of the game. Now if you do find someone close to you and your profiles seem to be compatable, you get no response.

I have to wonder if most of those listed want something, then don't. I have listened to married couples, thoses living together and those just together all with the same complaint. They cannot do the things they use to. They have someone to answer to and freedom is what they crave again. To do as they choose and live as they please.

I can see where they are coming from as I have been divorced a few years and have my life set up the way I like it. Not to say I would not be willing to be flexible, but for the most part the other person will try to change you rather and care for the person you are. I want to live by my own rules and live my way with my 3 yr. old. We are a package deal, yet no one has to raise her and I can get a relative to sit with her if I wish to make plans.

I have had inquiries, but nothing serious enough to count. Let the games begin.

RE: married men lying

I am afraid that things work both ways. Woman can play the game as well as the men and sometimes better in fact. It is once thing to play a player, but another to play a nice guy.

RE: IS THERE ANY HONEST, DECENT, NICE MEN ON THIS SITE

From my experience that is in the realm of possibility. Now getting things off the ground and stay on track in yet another thing. Let's just say that the rules of engagement are the same if you were meet someone in person. Many make promises, but just can't seem to follow through. All I can say is good luck as there are couple who make the connection.

RE: Whats wrong with me seriously??????

Patience is a virtue. You must give things time.

RE: i need praying for

Allow me to be the first to ask this question. Are you looking for a sugar mama or do you have a mom complex?

I hate to tell you this, but women of that age group have raised their children and certainly are not into going back in time. They have their own lives, friends, and activities. I just happen to have the life and activity part. LMAO. I enjoy doing what I want to without someone standing over my shoulder to either do it for me or criticize the way I am doing it.

So think very hard about this and ask yourself why you are praying for something you will never get? My understanding is that God will give you what you need and apparently that is not it.

RE: age

Well let me tell you my experience. Men who are older are not interested in me perhaps because of my age or mainly because I have custody of a 3 yr. old granddaughter. Want to know how many will accept that?? Next to none.

I would like to meet someone between 30-50 because I am not able to travel and do not care to, I want to have fun and not sit in some rocking chair or have to nurse someone back to health. In truth I have my baby girl to do that with and do not want to be tied down to anyone else. At least with her I don't feel like I am stuck in another marriage.

I am willing to bet that you have never read my profile. I think I would remember your face. Believe this or not, but raising a second family make you look and feel younger. I am having a blast and living by my rules.

I use to feel as though the guys had the right to pick over me, but now it is more the other way around. I am as particular as they are, but claim they aren't. I know this because I checked some of them out and I just didn't fit their mold.

RE: Falling in Love

I have to agree that age should not be a barrier when falling in love. An open mind and heart can bring many new things to the table. People impose too much upon age. With my epxerience it has been younger guys who want to experience an older woman like being with them should be such a previlege in itself. None have been interested in who I am, just what they can gain from me.

RE: Sometimes moms have to be dads

I completely agree. Although my son has not been a father to his daughter and I have custody of her, I will not speak badly about him. Just in the last week he acts like he wants to be a father for once, but who knows how long that will last. I have worn many hats as I am her mother, grandmother and father. It has not been easy, but we manage.

RE: ... Come out of yourself and Discover the World...

I have to tell you that I have stopped to smell the flowers and appreciate nature. I like things to be drama free. My granddaughter and I go out everynight to admire the stars and search for the moon sometimes behind the trees. Yes, we live in the country where the air is pure and there are no neighbors around to disturb the quiet.

As for looking for a soul mate, I doubt they exist. I am not looking, just riding the wave to see if someone does come along. Prospects don't count as that is like a broken promise. I don't live for the here and now, I just live. Everyday for me is a new experience. I am very spontaneous and many just don't understand the reasoning behind it.

RE: NEW! :D

Now I remember why I did not stay on my space. Rather than argue in person or on the phone it was made public for anyone to read. Give me a break.

Since being here it has been pretty nice and if you cannot get along with someone then it it not broadcast and the subject is generally dropped.

Yes, we're cool here.

RE: Proper English

Not to name names, but the last couple of male notations have given credence to the problem of grammar and spelling. I suppose next grunting will the the language of the day.

RE: Proper English

I may be the first to agree with you on the use of the English language. I seem to notice it with men more so where they will write a few words about themselves and the diction is all wrong not to mention the spelling. That leaves me to try and figure out what it is they want to say. Whether it is laziness or use of the internet shortcuts that has become so popular, it gets under my skin.

I agree that some of the blogs are hard to fathom so I just skip over them. I have never been comfortable with the shortcuts in spelling and poor use of grammar. I did well in English where writing was very important in college. It was after that proper grammar and spelling became important to me. I do find myself judging men according to their spelling and grammar skills. We all make mistakes, but then that is all you read. I am not saying I am so high above them, but I would like to be able to communicate with them on an intellectual level or have to spell even the simpliest words for them.

RE: how are you

Have you tried counseling. It could help to open up any underlying reasons for the problem. Non communication is one of the biggest problems aside from any infidelity. This is not to say this has occurred.

Going elsewhere for the attention you desire would be the worst thing to do especially if you want to save the relationship.

RE: happy 4th everyone be safe

I suppose it cannot get any safer than this. I am home alone, no date, no plans while it is storming outside. Yes, can't do better than this.

RE: HAPPY FOURTH TO EVERYONE AT CONNECTING SINGLES!!!!

Well my little girl is camping with her father and that is a good thing for her. He has not been around to see her in months. As for myself, I am alone, no bells and whistles, but I do wish that everyone has a great day.

RE: WOW!!! <33333

I don't get why anyone thngs you will go to hell for what you believe in. There are a lot worse reasons to see that happen. One thing though if I may say, if you wave it out front, people will target you. That is how it goes when they don't understand.

RE: THE THIRD OF JULY!

For myself it is just another day of the week. While my sons and their families are camping or whatever I am still doing what needs to be done, shopping and cleaning. If my little girl goes with them then it is a day I can get things done and have a little down time for myself. No fireworks, no partying or even a date. It is what it is.

RE: 4 th of July

If it had ne been for the King of england's higher taxes on tea, we never would have anything to celebrate. Those brave men sttod their ground and helped to win our freedom.

RE: hi

It has become hot enough today that I had to take the window screens out and turn the air on. It doesn't feel too bad outside considering I have been cleaning my little girl's pool. Bought a cover for it to keep it clean longer. I hate have to skim bugs out of it daily. Al least it will be ready when she is.

Hope you have anice 4th. I will be alone as she is going with her father for a visit. A first in many months. It is a family camp out down at Land Between the Lakes where the buffalo are.

I find myself lost when she is gone, but I have some cleaning to do that should keep me busy.

Havexa good one.

RE: What are you wearing?

Honestly if any guy was that hard pressed to find it, all he needs to do is stick a finger up his deriere and yell snake.

RE: Love me without fear...

That is a nice poem, but it it were that easy I would have hooked up with someone who contacted me long ago. Nothing is taken for granted anymore. You almost have to have a resume or fill out a job questionaire with most people. In a perfect world this may be the case, but nfortunately nothing is taking by chance any more. If you have one gliche' in your personality you are out. Perfection has been been replaced by acceptance.

RE: What are you wearing?

I tell them I am wearing combat boots and a parka. Jeez, like we are going to discuss our fashion wear to turn them on.

RE: love and trust

I have found that it is quite easy to love someone, but not be able to trust them usually because they were caught lying to you about certain aspects of their lives or for indiscretions. This is also possible when you loved one person who betrayed you badly so when someone else comes along all their love is not enough to keep you from wondering if they will do the same thing to you.

RE: Triumph's & Disasters

I sincerely doubt that any of us will forget where we were or what we were doing at the point of impact. I found myself in complete shock as I watched them board until the explosion occurred. I knew they would never make their maiden voyage. It was only later that evening while alone that I cried for their lost souls. Wondering how much they knew before it happened, what went through their minds, and how much pain they suffered at the point of the explosion. I could feel the pain that the families of each member felt that night. I cried for them alone as no one else would understand the pain I was feeling at that moment for people I would never know.

RE: IS EVERYONE BIASED?!?!?!?!

What people believe or choose not to believe is their own affair. It seems like you have been going out of your way to give people a reason to be biased or could that be your your view of yourself. I don't care if you choose to have a religious belief or not. Generally we don't wear a badges either way so unless we bring it up who is to know? There is enough insanity in the world than to beat ourselves up for what we choose not to believe in, real or imagined.