RDM59 Blog Comments (299)

RE: Everything you do, Matters!

I agree in what you say. But also looking to the negative aspect, if it is necessary to verbally chastise someone there is the danger of that being passed on to others by the upset recipient.

Knowing of this potential, how can it be avoid ? A wrong doer can't be allowed to escape a bad deed because of these negative consequences....

RE: World War III - On line International Battles

Hi Tim, what frustrates me is that when I do perhaps have a differing opinion to a post and question it in a polite and underogitary manner, in many cases it gets ignored. It obviously touches on a nerve that does not want to be exposed or addressed.

Some people just like to blow there own trumpet and then quickly retreat, not willing to debate the issue. What is the point of that ?

RE: My First impression on arriving in China

A great read, it all sounds amazing. Looking forward to the next instalment, hopefully not from a hospital bed ! Safe travels to you !!....

RE: Everything happens for a reason...

I've always had problems with this statement.... "Everything happens for a reason"

Who is in control of this reasoning ? Who is pulling these strings if you think it is not just down to pure chance? I see you are religious, so are you talking about some benevolent devine intervention being involved ?

RE: The Son of a Preacher Man....

and a spelling class to !!!

RE: The Son of a Preacher Man....

Just got to poke my nose in, you're getting far to many beautiful laddies in here with your sweet takin' Prof..... Can I join your class please ? .....

RE: Benefits of Brevity

don't worry Prof there will be no more cut and paste brevity humour from me .....

or will there ?? ........

cheers

RE: The last and final blog entry by choice....

Thanks for giving Tim. Why not just take a wee break laddie and pop back again soon. What ever the issues or dissolution here I think this is a normal come down from the initial hiatus of joining CS or any other site. Perhaps I'm way off track here..... .... apologies if so.

Cheers to you Tim

RE: Twas the day of Thanksgiving....

Bravo Sir, well written, very amusing indeed ....

I hope you remembered to stuff the Turkey with Haggis and had a wee celibratory dram to yourself. Bet you did and that's what inspited the poem....

Hope you have a great kilted Thanksgiving family meal and holiday, wish we had one here but not long to go now until the Xmas festivities.

Cheers .....

RE: [b][i]The on-line dating question of the year: Wh

Good advice as usual .... but it is not always wise to test the depth of water with both feet !

RE: ENLIGHTENED PERSPECTIVE

Some very good and profound statements in there ......

RE: one question

I'll drink to that, well said Anuna ...

RE: Ok so do give up or keep on keeping on

have you thought about taking up knitting ?.... Be patient and I am sure it will happen but you need to be active also, as you are being here....

Best of luck .....

RE: TO LOVE OR TO BE LOVED. . . . Which would you choo

Unless the balance between love given is comparable with the love received then it is a waist of time if perfection is what you seek.

RE: precious metals dealer

Oooops, no humour allowed..... I get the message.....

For all your countrymen/women to get the message perhaps you could set up a "Peru Group" to help inform them all.

RE: precious metals dealer

perhaps he wanted to find out if you are a gold digger ? ....

RE: photo rating

But it can be a good way of expressing your liking for someone.
Just another communication tool, not a self judgmental one but perhaps it is viewed like that for some. The votes I have received that are recorderd by members are usually high but my overall rating is low. Non members or signed out members must be the influence on that.

RE: Too cute not to share

Can you paste a YouTube link please Jim, this embedding is disabled for me.....

RE: Ok girls help me understand why it no big deal if

Perhaps you could focus on ladies who are also single parents so they have a complete understanding of the situation and the difficulties.

Best of luck to you....

RE: Any young down to earth, sensitive, sweet romantic

Hi Moon ....would an old farmer suffice ? ....

RE: Do you feel your love one failed to understand you

I agree with MJ, and as time passes people can also change and grow apart from each other as was my case. It can make you very wary for the future because of the repeat possibility. But that is a negative attitude that I'm currently battling with, but I am also very much a realist, not a romanticist.

RE: Indian goverment

I would buy a copy. It is a noble and selfless
task you undertake, I wish you best of success .....

RE: HI!!!

Yes, I agree it is a good way of learning a little bit about people and whether you see eye to eye on life, humour, goals etc, etc. But only when you meet can you find out if there is chemistry and the potential for passion which is the icing on the cake. But what is a cake without icing ..... it is necessary for most I think !

Good luck to you and welcome to CS .....

RE: Too good not to share

most enjoyable.
What an amazing bond. Perhaps he was a grizzly in a previous life ? ...

RE: is interacial the way

prestidigitator1 .....

I read it differently, is he not referring to the people that think that interacial is easier as being the ignorant ones. If so, I would agree with him. It is difficult enough for men and women to get on harmoneously but without the added confusion of different cultures, traditions, religions perhaps, etc. I would think all this would make it even more difficult....

RE: What can i do to keep him. . .

Online long distance relationships can be very hard I think.
When you realise that the only way you could ever be together means one of you has to give up their current way of life, job etc and move to the other one's country. It is a big risk but you have to be 100% positive about taking it, or else what is the point of getting a LDR started ?...... And if you have children then that is a near impossible thing to contemplate, for me anyway.

Wishing you the best of luck though, it can and does happen here.....

RE: Joke of the day

..... excellent ......

RE: when we understand who we are

I agree, it's a bit like falling off your bicycle, hurting yourself and being fearful of getting back on it again.
One has to find courage, dust yourself down get back up and try again.....

RE: All I want for Christmas

Very selfless of you Jim .... thanks for sharing ....

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