TO LOVE OR TO BE LOVED. . . . Which would you choo

Sometimes if we love someone and that someone dont love us back it leads you to hurt,disappointment,tears and sadness .
But how about to be loved?
How about loving back a person who had love you , how about loving a person who all this time is lurking at your corner watching you from afar. . . ?

What is the worst thing that could happen along the way ?

To love or to be loved. . . ??
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wave me I would like be loved and loveangel angel beer wine drinking
All the best for you Anuna. . .
a bit of both would be nice .love
Hi Irish. .
Yes, it would be nice if both are possible. .
if someone loves you but you cant reply with the same feeling, its only bothering you. much more if the person is your friend. its painfull to see how you hurt just because you have no feelings...
its hard to love someone who dont love you back. but i will always better chose to love not to be loved. and need to always remember- love is not selfishness... true love is something much higher than wishes that he/she was with you... When you truely love someone you will just all the best for person no matter what it will be... and who love is never alone.
i believe in desteny and that all what happen- happens for good...

just be patient and never make a wall arrond yourself- love is the best thing what can happen teddybear teddybear teddybear
Unless the balance between love given is comparable with the love received then it is a waist of time if perfection is what you seek.

wave bouquet
if you don,t love:don,t expect to be loved!
I love to love and love to be loved... but since you said no "both" answers... I will go with loving others... It makes me feel good to love others!! I love to give love!!


teddybear wine
I love to love and love to be loved... but since you said no "both" answers... I will go with loving others... It makes me feel good to love others!! I love to give love!!


teddybear wine
I love to love and love to be loved... but since you said no "both" answers... I will go with loving others... It makes me feel good to love others!! I love to give love!!


teddybear wine
To love is to sacrifice
To be loved is to enjoy the feeling
Hi Casiopey. .
Well its true, but it takes courrage to love. . .
Somehow for me, rejection is bitter not sweet..
But going with a person who i dont love will be useless too. . .
dunno
Hi fieldir,
hmm that kindda reminds me of a saying, the love we take is equal with the love make. . .
Thanks
Hi Stevano. .
How are you? Well i love to love aswell but sumtimes that loving is not needed by others. Like a bubble of hope floating higher and higher and that person you love burst your bubble with a pin.
Hi maxmate,
i like the word enjoy than sacrifice i guess. . Hehe Lol
well....I think we generally tend to prefer enjoying more and sacrifice less. that is why people are more heartbroken and ahve had a sad lovelife.

I think if we all choose to sacrific more, the world would be a lot better place and our love lives would be much better! Isn't it?
Well said Stevano. I am full with love and i hope i could just stick in loving others and not expecting any in return. But i know im getting there. . Thanks for the great advice Stevano. Have a great week end too.teddybear
"All you need is love, luv. Love is all you need..."

Obviously, it is not true love unless both people love each other.
However, if one is forced to choose one or the other only (to be loved or to love) it might be better to choose to love. For love fills the heart with joy. Philosophicly, love is a total understanding of another. In order to achieve that total understanding one must be dedicated to doing so. That dedication to focus is evidence of love. cheers
wait...I want to know first..
who is..."a person who all this time is lurking at your corner watching me from far. . . ?..
right..
left..
looks like no one..
well, I prefer to be loved..

kiss
To love or to be loved, ofcourse many people prefer to be love
but they tend to forget that love is a 2 way street you have
to love & getlove in return, so i conclude by saying i prefer
both because for a successfull relationship they are neccesary.

if I were able to choose both then I would, but seeing as you have asked to pick one then i would choose love, because there will always be great feeling in my heart knowing I have shared my love, but if i choose to be loved then I am garunteed to get a broken heart.

giving love can never break my heart nor anyone elses, but to recieve love your heart is garunteed to get broken somewhere along the line, how mnay times it is broken depends on how many people refuse to give you love.

JayJay
1 + 1 = 2 and 2 is better than 1.
To love it is.
hi Jimnastic
love brings joy...... and hurt aswell .....grin
hi Cicihoa
yeah to be love, i guess thats make two of us...
i think to be love is much safer dont u think?
but it seems most here choose to love..

confused
hi mavazi..
getting both would be called LUCKY...thumbs up
I hope i will get lucky.. sigh
hi jay jay..
like i said before getting both would be called lucky..
but love does brings butterflies....
hi eaglo
yes 2 is better than 1 but.... my problem start when there were 2 people involved...
when theres only 1 ( me ) i never had this much of headache.. doh
hi Giean..
i see that u are in the to love votes..
take care and good luckwine
hi fieldir..
yes love is the truest form is sacrifice yes?
thats why true love is worth the effort, the search ,the fight..
that is why true love is so hard to find because its pure..
like gold it never fades away nor forgotten..
true love stays and only seperated by death..blues
Kasih, I have loved and not been loved in return and it hurts, it makes you do stupid things and think stupid thoughts. My opinion is it is better to keep your eyes open for that one who maybe is loving you from afar, but too unsure/shy to let you know. To be loved is probably the greatest thing in the world;hope some day to find out.crying
Being loved is nice but I think loving is more powerful because it moves us in many ways.heart beating
Hi Jadehawk. . .
So its 3 of us that choose to be love. .
My "to love" expirience ussualy ends up in a mess. .
I dunno why women often falls for bad guys?
Hi its all me. . .
Yeah to love and actually be with the one you love is great...
what u give is what u get, to love is to be loved
its better to seek a person who luvs u rather then to seek to luv.rio
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