And I am not surprised to read those statistics…I know it…that’ why so many people come here to seek for their “soul mate”… I guess more and more people here will become like what those statistics show…and I don’t like it…
lone i completely agree with you. here too many bad guys and they are just playing~~~ i think in the real world we can meet the right guys easier. i seldom meet friends on the internet~~ i think men on the internet are handsome but not real. yes, there are always good men, but maybe we can't find them easily. many of them are just liers~~~ in the real world i am very unsuccessful. throughout my life i only love one boy and i loved him when i was 15. now i am still missing him. but the result just makes me unhappy. because of him i can't pay attention to others around myself. that's why i came here. i hope here there is somebody who can help me forget him. but it turns out that friends here are too unreal. the distance is too far. the culture is too different. and we all have the totally different background. so i think it will be better if i turn back to the real world. Maybe you can turn back to the real world, too. maybe in the real world you can find a better one easiler. happy to know you. you are real and good.
well, i said life is harsh, it doesn't mean poor or lake of things, goods or products. actually i live in a rather rich city, far better than hunan or henan(of course it may not be as good as yours.) I haven't been to henan or hunan or those areas.
life is harsh because we have to struggle to live a better life. better life means: free life without pressure from work or daily life or financial burden. healthy life far away from pollution and crowd. good life that have a positive attitude towards life and some hope to the future.
No, janmei is just part of the pinyin~~~no meanings. and i have added some changes to it. i don't have an english name~~ english name is very unknown to me. and english name doesn't seem to have its meanings. well i think most of us get lost~~ if somebody is born in a rich family, he or she may be spoilt. i was born in an unrich family. but i don't think i am good enough. what i know is that life is harsh.
ha ha, how1e!! Your comment is interesting. do you know that, if somebody reaches a highest place, he or she will feel so lonely? In Chinese, there is a saying, which means that: it is lonely at the top (or He sits no sure that sits too high) yes, it is lonely at the top because no one can understand you, no can share your happiness, even no one can defeat you.
Everyone is lonely deep in their hearts, no matter how many people surround you. As i grow up, my heart is not as happy as before. I find that I am lossing something, something that makes me laugh from the heart. But now I am a little happy to find that there are some people who can feel the feeling I have felt.
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thank you david. your poem is beautiful..