Lol. Yan. Yes, they are good-looking. One of my brothers married a Venezuela girl and has three daughters, they are lovely and beautiful!
But later that Venezuela girl asked for divorce. For her, or for those girls, it may be just a game, and divorce is very popular I guess… The relationship just can not last long.
Thank you kcuc0574 for your information. Yes, I have heard that it is hot in Vietnam, now here it is hot too. But here we have four seasons. My friend is in Ho Chi Minh too. She used to complain that it is too hot and the sun is too big so she can’t have white skin.
Yes, it is unrealistic to look for bf or gf on website. Strong character @.@ lol… nobody wants to be “strong”, but the fact is, if you are weak, then you will die, or lose yourself.
Is it because of that black-white photo? Now I deleted it lol.
I have been here and active on blog and forum for a long long time WITHOUT PHOTOS. Some say they do not talk to people without photos, some just choose to ignore those without photos...
And how many of you can really read a person's inside world or write to somebody before watching their own photos?
lol. Just a few, and I can name them out too. But perhaps it is not good to write their names here.
Anyway, I will keep reading your comments before I decide to write you a "love letter".
Drea111. Your this blog is deep. And perhaps I can not understand all of the meaning you express because my comprehension and my reading skill are a bit poor. But this title did remind me of the following picture:
Ha ha. Yea. You know, when girls gather together, we like to gossip or talk the bad things of other girls who are not there. It seems that we will feel better to gossip about whose hairstyle is outdated. Lol. Really horrid. Like a group of garrulous hens, including me.
Yes, some dreams are very mysterious. Sometimes we can find answers from the dreams. There are some researches or some explanations about dreams in China or in other nations. It is said that Zhougong can explain the dreams. There is “Zhougong Jiemeng” in China.
Ha ha.. She is in another city and her boyfriends are far away from me lol. So she should have no worries…
No, it is not the title of my novel. It is just the title of my blogs here. I don’t think I can write a novel in English and I don’t want to either. When I wrote my first chapter, I didn’t think that I could write such a long-wind daily life. And to be honest, to use the same title does help me a lot, as I do not need to think what title I should use in this blog. Ha ha..
It is something like "Life in this Ridiculous Place".
If I had thought of "Life in this Ridiculous Place"when I wrote it, I would had used “Life in this Ridiculous Placce” instead of “Vanity Fair and City”, as “Vanity Fair and City”is too serious or too self-righteous, which may make some people throw eggs to me. (lol, have getten some.)
Yes, they are not clear. But we could see two big and clear rainbows at that time. The above one was larger but blurrer, and the below one was smaller but clearer. I don't konw why they were not so clear when taken in the photos. Pehaps it is because of the light of the sunset. Or the angle. Lol. I am not a photographer...
hi calmheartseeks, don't worry. I know what you meant in your previous post. Now look at me. He yelled at me yesterday, so I yell at my blog on CS. lol..
Yan… I didn’t aim to be a writer. I used to hope that I could be a writer, but now, I don’t aim to be a writer, as I don’t like “writer” this name. I like people call me female rascal, but not female writer.
I have never said that I don’t use Chinese sites to write Chinese blogs. I write for a magazine as a part time besides my full time, and I write martial arts novels in another Chinese literature site. I just do not like to boost what I have achieved.
I write here, first for some certain reasons, now just for fun. Some people on this site look down upon Asian women, thinking that we are just vases or idiots who just want their money. Ok I will show them we are more intellectual than them and we can take good care of ourselves by our own ability and we do not need their money and mercy.
Melodyy I always appreciate your insightful comments. Yan asks me why I write here. See, I write here, and meet you, because of some common feelings or some common thinkings or so on… to gather friends who share the same interests by writing and reading…
It is extremely simple. Who can speak their own mother language on a website which only allows English or languages which are formed with a,b,c and d??? If you can ask CS to allow Chinese characters, I might turn all my blogs into Chinese.
And it is also simple that, everybody uses English to communicate with foreigners. When a German talks to a Chinese, oh, don’t tell me you will think that the German speak Germany to the Chinese and the Chinese speak Chinese to the German. That’s a talk between a goose and a duck.
Why don’t you ask Russian girls, Germany girls, or African girls, South-American girls why they only speak English on a singles dating site which only allows English? I guess most of them will laugh to death because of this silly question!
Yan, but it is quality over quantity. Some comments are long, but they are really good. I have noticed certain people on cs can write very good and insightful comments, and I do very appreciate their comments or their blogs. Really.
Hi calmheartseeks, yes, I agree with you, she is really obnoxious. But I pity her more. After all, she is so naive and she spoils herself in this way.
Mike3478. perhaps you misunderstand me. That younger girl dialed the wrong phone number. She wanted to dial to her rival in love, but she made a mistake and dialed to me.
Mike3478:“Are there a shortage of intelligent men in your country?”
Janmei: "What a funny question! Intelligent men give birth to intelligent daughters. It is that simple."
Yea… actually I am quite happy at the moment. If I was really so sad, perhaps you would not see me here.. hehe… I don’t take my “bitter side” too seriously. I have come out of it and now, think it as a joke, yes, a joke. Quite funny.… If it still mattered, I would not write it as a joke here..
Actually I don’t care how many read it. To many people, English is not their mother language and it is quite boring or difficult to read long blogs. I seldom read long blogs either. Waste so much time to read the long blogs…. But the irony is, I write long-winded blogs. Lol.
Thank you outdoorgirlsun. Yes, you are right. And thank your for your kind advices. I won’t rush. Somebody told me "this is just a darker today for a brighter tomorrow". Being blind is also another kind of life which is full of wisdom.
Hi Smitten. Every age has its unique beauty. Yes, things do happen for a reason, something comes for some reasons, and something goes for some reasons too. Actually I am quite happy at the moment. Really. Just sometimes when I looked back, I would regret because, I could have done better to change things, but I didn’t try my best. And I am happy you like it.
Yes, I read the news that it is extremely hot in India. Many people die because of it. Haven't seen you for some times, I thought you were one of them. Now you are back.
Now I know more about the American Indian. I use to be very interested in the horse back culture of those American Indian and read some reports, books and watched some movies about them. But anyway, there is not much information.
I didn’t think I am smart or know a lot. I may have some stubborn opinions or prejudice, but I will still read others’ opinions and may change my minds because of their opinions sometimes. CS is a good place to know others’ opinions. Some of those good comments written by some excellent people do really benefit me a lot---broadens my horizon and makes me know how people from other places think.
Actually I don’t know much about my grandpa. He spent nearly all his life in HK and I am in mainland. But he is a good father. My grandma died when he was only 40. At that time he was young, handsome and rich, he could remarry easily. But he stayed single because of his four children. You know what might happen if he had remarried.
Yes, you are right about the “honor” and “sinner”. And thank you for your kind advices. Perhaps I give you a bad-girl impression. I wouldn’t say that I am a good girl or, I wouldn’t say that I am not a bad girl. You know, we are what we behave, not what we always say.
Hi Drea111. Well, if I talk about that part of history, I might be thrown out by CS. You see calmheartseeks has given some information and a link to Iris Chang and her book. You might read some about her and her book then you will know what it is about. But, before you read, I should tell you that, if you really read that book or see the photos, perhaps you will feel extremely uncomfortable, can not eat, can not drink, can not sleep, or feel suffocated…
since you write your blogs and your love publicly, you should get ready to get flowers from others or eggs that are threw to you.
the world is big, people have different opinions, you can not order others only to praise you. remember, criticism helps you a lot. i do think, if you hear others' criticism, you will become better. you have some problems.
and do not ask smitten to go to hell. because, "say don't say anything at all it makes you look like the loser". lol!!!!
I didn’t know her until she died. At that time news about her and her book were nearly on every newspaper. And only at that time Chinese people knew her.
In schools, we learnt that history. We remember it.
I still have no courage to read that book, because even I read some parts of reports about this or just some photos, I still feel very uncomfortable. But you know, CS is an international site, it is not so good to talk much about it.
lol, hannah used an irony in her comment, or use an irony tone in her comment, so you used an irony to refute her.
i am not attacking your comments, i am very objective, i agree with some of what you said, and disagree with some of them; just like i agree with some of hannah's comment, and disagree with some of them.
What is reasonable in my brain, i will agree; what is reasonable in my brain, then i won't disagree.
and at last, i am friendly to you. so don't be unnecessarily complicated.
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RE: i need opinions
Well, good luck to you.but be careful.
people wear masks and lie.