nomindgames Forum Posts (3,154)

RE: Monogamy

I go with th crowd on this one. I, when in a relationship of commitment am very satisfied with who I am with or I wouldn't be with him. If simply dating now and then,I know some people enjoy variety. However I believe most who are commited are that way out of choice. Those who cheat on thier partner should get out of the commitment.Obviously they are not happy being a couple. I think we as humans for the most part want and prefer monogomy.Just my opinion.

RE: Happy Birthday Sommer!

I can't get the cake emoticon to come up,
But Happy B Sommer and hope you have many more good ones happen.

RE: Anybody from Ohio?

Another buckeye here,but far from Dayton,btween Ashtabula and Cleveland. Have you been in Oh forums? They are slow but might find someone around your area . Don't remember seeing you here so nice to meet you oh okay . We all need more of those.

RE: Y?

I feel bad for you that you keep ending up meeting people you don't enjoy the time with. I am sure it must get frustrating at times,but ask yourself that ? Y? Sometimes you have to kiss alot of frogs......
I have had only 1 not so good meeting. Fortunatly so far the men I meet are genuines far as I can tell. Haveade a few real friends from meeting. Others just wern't what I really want,or my heart would start to thump. I feel blessed I have not had many bad meetings. Maybe you need to talk on phone more and ask ?'s before meeting?
I personally would not keep it up over and over. Would just say forget it and get a good book.Maybe need to get to know them better first. Think of the meetings that have been disasters and how could you maybe keep from having it happen again? If you meet a real person who is who he portrayed himself to be please share.

Anyone want to share a great week or just want to vent?

Are you free 2nd week of August?

Anyone want to share a great week or just want to vent?

good for you both. Hope it works out well,if not then hope the time you spend together is fun and enjoyable.

RE: I'm new

Nice to meet you stormec. Jump right in.

RE: Pics and your profile.

If it feels good to you,for you,do it. It is your perogative. Personally I like to see different photos of a person I see in forums. I wish I had many more to put on,well delete a few and add a few. Have the limit on now. PB you have a very positive attitude and sounds like you have a good self-concept .
I change mine from time to time(of what I have on here) just cause I get tired of seeing same photo all the time.

Anyone want to share a great week or just want to vent?

Yes another of my threads asking how all are doing.What's new? What good thing has happened lately to you?
Or a place to rant and get whatever off your chest.
The positive things are always good to here. The negatives make you feel better having let out your feelings. So anyone?

I have a great day going for me.First day I didn't have to put on the air.Windows,doors open,fresh air,the boys love it,sitting in the window. I got 2 very pleasant calls today and I am not experiencing the pain I have been so often latley. I am blessed always,but today is great . So far anyway.
Hope things are good for all the cs folks. If not it has to get better.

RE: I'm opening a new driving school

So good to see you stranger . Hope you supply helmets.

RE: North East Ohio: Is there really a good place for a first date????

all. There are many ,many things to do in N.E. OH. or not a far drive away. As for a first date,I had what I thought was very romantic gesture by a gentleman,who turned out not to be 1 but anyway...he took me on a horse pulled carriage ride and we had a picnic in a beautiful country setting area.

Any first date is getting to know the other person better. I don't think you have to try to impress by what you do as in where you take her. Impress by being you and be nice .
Even one of the beautiful parks in the area,walking,frisbee,horse riding,picnic,could be fun. How about a fire at dusk?

RE: Hey ( I know the most generic thread name.)

glad to have you aboard!

RE: When someone on the street whistles at you or compliments you, your:

At my age,walking down the street and getting a whistle? I'd be smiling all day. Of course here men have been more into honking at ladies walking down the street than whistling. Then again heard that it happens when a lady passes a construction site.

RE: 25 years ago today

Is it me,or does this girl look much younger than her age???

RE: Would you give your life to save your mates?

Not unless I had a terminal illness. Hope he wouldn't want me to. I wouldn't want him to.

RE: Interesting concept..

Interesting Pat,like the Khosla quote.

RE: Friendships and what they mean to you.

I believe we all know in our hearts who our real friends are if any. Though we use the word lightly,friend,we usually don't consider everyone we use the word to describe as a real friend.
Real friends stand by you,they find the time for you when another says there is no time right now.A friend cares and feels almost the same pain in the heart that you do when something negative happens and you are hurt.Real friends don't drift away and use the excuse,I just got busy or we are to far apart. I believe real friendship takes time to aquire btween 2 people. Once you have it,it is there always. I have 2 friends. I had 3 others through the yrs. that all passed away at young ages. the 2 I have now I cherish. There are others who say they are my friends but I call them aquiantances.

RE: SPIRITUAL BUT NOT RELIGOUS

I am a Christian and I put Christian-other,because currently I am not part of any religion.People often get the two mixed up,Christianity and religion. back in I go now as I know how these threads get going and I won't be part of what I am sure is coming. By the way Indy if your still around I know your

RE: Another One Passes Away

always sad to hear of someone who was active and seemed to be healthy passing away.This is 3 famous people this week and 1 I knew,an aquintance and the boyfriend of a e-mail friend he was 46. This is upsetting to the phyche. I wasn't close with any of them but I feel very down,not like myself after hearing of each of the deaths.
1 thing about Billy Mays,his items really did work.Many scam artist do commercials knowingly trying to get your money for a product that is not as advertised. B. Mays had many of his items tested on different shows and all passed with flying colors.

RE: Spare time!!!!!

When I first got a comp.,I lived online. When I got on CS,qst dating site,I lived in the forums. I know exactly what you mean.I gave up doing much of what I should do to be on here. Time goes so fast when on here too. I was addicted,but in time I lost the fascination with having it and started doing more have toos and some want toos. Took me about 4 months to get where I did not wake up and switch on pc. Think it happens to many of us.

RE: Update on my brother Mike

Star wasn't aware of this at allbefore this thread. Thanks for sharing.Prayers will be said for you,your sis,all family and then of course the gravely ill man. you seem to be very level headed about it and realistic so you will probably do fine. Hope your sis is strong as you are. Hope for Gods will be done.
Keep us updated please.

RE: Hell and Heaven

I know I should just sit this one out .
I will say just my reply and then not reply again.

I believe Heaven and Hell are where we go when we die after a sleep until the rapture happens. Some to heaven some to hell,it will be for eternity.This life we have on earth is just a journey. My Christian opinion.

RE: Fathers day gift ?

Hey girl always good to see you here
You know that e-mail cards were thought off for people who procrastinate Saved me many an occasion I forgot till day before. Or maybe your Dad has no computer?

RE: Jesus

Interesting thread. No actual name calling? Seems this type of thread always ends up in battle of wits,or dimwits.

My 3 cents,Jesus is the son of God,sits at the left of God in heaven. In Christianity Jesus is only way to eternal life,prayers answered,etc. You must accept Jesus died on the cross for your sins so you could be saved.When you acknowledge that,you are a Christian.

To those who believe otherwise . To each his/her own belief. I love all people,even those who may not like me or what I say.

I was not aware that Quran believed in or thought of Jesus as prophet. I have not read much on this religion and will to educate myself only. Not to look to converting.

RE: Fathers day gift ?

To those whose fathers are no longer with you, .I dread the day I get the call.

I hope those who have a dad still alive who deserves it,will think of those who wish thier father was still here and remember to tell your father what he means to you. My dad is 83,still healthy and active. He lives in a state far from me. I am still his Daddy's girl at 54. I write him a poem each holiday and email it to him. I gave up the store gifts when I was about 22. Started doing things like,his laundry or a dinner out my treat. Wrote a tribute to him and it hangs in his home office.So many gifts we can give and they don't all cost $. I only wish I could have through the yrs. bought my dad a sailboat. He always wanted 1 but never bought for himself. I never have been in a position to have done that,but that is 1 that $ can buy that would be thoughtful and appreciated.

To any fathers out there in forums, I wish you HAPPY FATHERS DAY.

RE: Woluld you date a man if he was Good looking or not good looking but as a gr8 heart ?

Then it is sad for you. Your chances of meeting the right person for you for years to come is slim.
Your right strongest survive. Has nothing to do with looks. However you feel you must be right, and have seen enough thread posts of people who feel they know what all humans feel and think. I don't personally care what your opinion and I am not into the cut down replies or meaningless argueing posts that go on and on. So hope you can someday see the beauty on the inside of a woman you meet and if day comes you have to,hope you survive. Live Well Don't know but heard that many times makes every woman a beauty so Take care.

RE: If you could drop everything...

If I had a place to stay and someone to show me the area,I would give them a try,but been to 3 other mountain chains and that was the best to me.
Do you live near mountains??

RE: Bad dates

Now wish I had said that. I totally agree with this post. great answer.

RE: If you could drop everything...

If God allowed me to I would visit Heaven for awhile.
OR


Would fly to Co. or Wyoming and get myself up in the rockies. I would spend time as I looked out at the breath taking scenery and think,clear my head,write some poetry or journal and sleep under the stars. Benn many years and I still say it for me,would be the best med. for any stress,depression, heartache etc.

RE: Woluld you date a man if he was Good looking or not good looking but as a gr8 heart ?

Snuggs is soooooooooo right . However reality of humans so all I can do is my thing,my way. Can't change anyone,but they can change if they want to.
Maybe I have been here too lng but this type of thread has been done soo much.
I don't see the outer crust,it's what's inside that matters to me.Besides when we get to know someone and maybe love them,they are good looking to us. Again beauty is in eye of beholder,geez that is said so much,but it is true.
Personally,looks arn't what I care about,it is just a fringe benefit if he is good looking.
Now why do you want better than average looking girl? If your an average looking guy?