Yes i dont like passive aggressive types. I prefer straight talkers who say it as it is and not in a rude ill mannered way. Ive never understood people who know they have done wrong and yet still dont or wont apologise and admit that if they do they hate it.... find this leans to a nacissistic nature of sorts.
Yes im well removed from the initial hurt and real pain that it caused....i think i wanted to gain some wider knowledge and experience of how others have dealt with something similar...its why im here, to learn...and have fun.
Completely agree with you Harbal. A lack of facial expression, tone of voice, body language leads to all kinds of confusion. But yes you canr please everyone theres all types here...the political, religious, trouble makers...people pleasers and worst of all the ones who think they are perfect and do no wrong...who read themselves into what others say, then watch the poison being spread... But no more than life itself youll figure who to stick with and who not.
I find ur humour really funny and i think ur sorely needed here.
To all that i havnt personally responded to, thanks for your shared stories and your good advice.
Hope no one felt this was a sympathy thread as it certainly wasnt meant that way.
What happened was many moons ago, yet still pops its head up every so often, but ive read all your comments and want to thank you so much for taking the time to give your advice.
Ill take alot away from this. Also sorry to those of you that have experienced your own pain, thanks for sharing your story
I was always here at the beginning because it was new and just wanted to see what it was all about...plus circumstances meant i had the time to be here.
My time here after the first few months is dwindling...plus im not able to be here all the time either. Its not healthy to be here all the time as, well you will see all that for yourself.
I enjoy your threads though Greg, you bring something new and fresh here....you communicate and interact with manners and i like your ideas.
I find men look for your number straight away and i find that a little odd. Some have said its because they want to get closer quicker which i also find odd.
Id rather take my time like i would in real life, but its hard to get this point across to some men on sites.
Always take things at your own pace and what u feel comfortable with, that way you wont be long finding out who is worth getting to know and who isnt
I think a small amount of jealousy is good and healthy...between two emotionally healthy people.
But as u say if that balance is off and one is more secure than the other it can cause problems. Both should come into the relationship with healthy realistic expectations. But a certain small amount of jealousy is good in a relationship as it shows they care and dont want to lose you.
Not to the point where, a relationship i was in, i couldnt even talk to his friends and he would get jealous, theres no room for that kind of behaviour in a relationship
Block him from your phone..facebook...viber watsapp etc. Keep yourself busy. Round your friends up and head out for a night or away for a weekend. Realise there is more fish in the sea.
I would have to be wild and free. Maybe a bird, would love to have a birds eye view of the life we live, plus i could drop a "present" or two on some!!
I like dark men, by that i mean dark hair and eyes. Tanned would be nice but not necessary. Im not sure i have a favourite nationality as ive only ever dated Irish and one African man.
I love nice eyes and a great smile....
But also its far more important what he is on the inside....how he treats others is a thing i lool for when interested in someone first...if they treat people with respect aswell as having some charisma with it, then im pretty much sold on him then.
I agree Greg....i dont like people who show boat about how great they are and what they have....and have too high or unrealistic expectations.....its a romance killer for me.
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