That is the one area I am a bit of a hard head about. Now, I'm going with the theory, we're talking about an ex. If they abandon me, they are done. I am the kind of person to work very hard to fix problems & make forgivenesses, when needed. Once the final goodbyes are said, the book is closed... period.
I have many of these same questions on my mind right now. I care for someone who lives in another country. I think he is well worth the sacrifices I would need to make to be with him. Everyday, I think through all the details surrounding the move & how to accomplish what I want... a safe move, a pleasant transition & a successful relationship.
In order to obtain what I have always wanted, I have to leave behind my whole net work of friends & family. This would mean not being able to see my beloved grandparents at a moments notice, should they need me. That part is hard since they are getting up in age. I'll have to abandon my current college enrollment & pursue a different future. That part isn't so hard, as my #1 University choice is actually in his area... or being a parent isn't bad either. Most of all, I have to put my full faith in a stranger. As some here know, I did that not so long ago... I got involved with one of our own & it ended very poorly. I was left bewildered & very hurt. After spending so many years single(yes, years... mostly due to my work), the emotional risk I took getting involved again, made the impact of the end result even worse. None the less- for him, my special someone, I could do it.
Now, I'm never the one who would tell anyone to just say "screw it" or "suck it up- life is cruel" when it comes to these heart matters. I refuse to. Even the most difficult personalities can find a suitable partner(Yes, even some of our well know hard *sses). I know it. It just takes a small amount of unselfishness... and plenty of love.
So, perhaps I'm simply trying to lend a little support(in my own way) to anyone who has a risky choice to make. (I know of at least one other person here who is in a slightly similar situation... I know he can use it. )
Come on kids... colour outside the lines, run with scissors, go get that love!
Henri Matise prints a confident man a passionate kisser guys who eat Mars bars making Tiramasou for someone special a guy who can use tools better than I can. nuzzling
There's just something to be said for the simpler things, like a proper kiss. Even if I have to stand on a step or two to get to his lips, to be able able to breath each other in and work it up to a rather decent moment goes a looooong way. I want to kiss someone who can use their hands & body as part of it... taking moments to absorb the passion & let me catch my breath.
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RE: In my pants
"Glass Spider" in my pants.