If someone is being given the polite escape answer, then "nice" would likely refer to being less than one wants or is attracted to. A nice guy is one I can leave my purse with & know it's there when I come back. If someone is just plain nice, they're pleasant but not spunky enough to keep up with me. Trustworthy but not passion inspiring.
I have to say, there may be a couple of very sweet people here who bring a smile to my face. To each of you who share bits of your world with me, I thank you. To you who I exchange lovely notes with, thank you.
When I think of the ideal man, I see one who doesn't self destruct, taking the relationship with him. A man who knows how to have his own friends & still make time for his mate. An active, good natured, interesting individual willing to do what it takes to keep his world together without burning all the bridges around him. A simple person, full of potential.
If someone is still married, even if they're in a separation, I will not consider them. They are not single in my eyes until that divorce is final. A separation is reversible, a divorce is not. A separation is still a stage of the marriage contract & therefore an obligation that must be dealt with before I will even consider any involvement. Even during a separation, one's actions can reflect upon the final judgment & outside persons can be pulled into the divorce... just another reason to remain sovereign until matters are resolved, completely.
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Flashing back...
Thought about tasting...A~ I can't think of much I haven't had.
My match...
A~ I did find my match but he ran off with another girl.
Oh well.
Q~ When was the first time you saw a person of the opposite gender naked?