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Obsessive thoughts

Traditional Chinese medicine is not practiced much here in the States, hence the lack of widespread interest in it.

Oh, sweet mystery of life,at last I found youuuu!!!

I was thinking more along the lines of pole-vaulting.

banana

Oh, sweet mystery of life,at last I found youuuu!!!

I'm with Paws on this one.

Wonders what about wrestling with other boys inspired his "blessing."

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Oh, sweet mystery of life,at last I found youuuu!!!

Eat your hearts out, ladies...look what I just got!!! (from another site)

"jeanc,

Intriguing profile. Enticing pics...

Love to get know you. Penpals, friends, flirt, future ??? Enjoy hiking, palates, yoga, travel..I'm curious about you...

Love to send you my pics(friends say I look similiar to Johnny Depp in the movie he plays the writer, not trying to be vain). Let me know your preferred destination. Feel free to email me at (happy to share story with you in the future, discovered my blessing in the shower room after wrestling practice in High School. You can imagine all the nicknames the High school kids gave me, the teachers even harmlessly addressed me by nicknames).

I'm curious..."

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I can't WAIT to get packed so that I can receive his "blessing."

Oh, the worm joy is already seeping out of me, even as I type...



barf roll eyes

RE: Which Gilligans Island member would you be?

Hmmm..maybe a combination of Ginger and Maryann..

Who's gonna be Wrongway Feldman and Tongo???

grin

Obsessive thoughts

Yes, I agree, but it wouldn't be a healthy obsession to just be mentally obsessed with ending hunger or helpign the homeless...it is only by doing something to effect positive change that helps. And when that's done, it no longer becomes an "obsession," IMO.

I agree with the not smoking thing. And drinking. For years I said..."tomorrow" I'll quit. And never did, when I did it that way.

One day I just said. This is the day. And that was it. If you let something have control over you, it will have control over you.

Negative thoughts can be replaced with positive ones; it's a matter of just refocusing. But it also helps to have people with whom you can relate, and a source of strength and encouragement.

This is a good group of people who realize that we all have our crosses to bear, and are pretty much nonjudgmental in that regard. And that is a very nice thing.

hug

Obsessive thoughts

Hey, there are worse things to obsess about, you know? Like ...whether or not your worm is joyful????



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Obsessive thoughts

I rarely watch the news at all. Sometimes I'll watch the headline local news and I almost never watch world news. You can always keep up with what's going on in internet forums or Yahoo or whatever, if you want.

News can be depressing, because "good news" is not typically reported.

Any debates I have on the Internet stay on the Internet. I don't really keep up with what's going on here, to any great extent. It provides an outlet for me to talk, share, have fun, debate issues, etc., but it in no way really influences my "real" life.

I agree that choosing to think other thoughts is the best way to effect change, but sometimes that is easier said than done. It is certainly doable, but it does take concerted effort at times. It is a matter of being determined to make it work. It takes practice, it takes focus, but it can be done.

Obsessive thoughts

LOL...now, it could obsessive. It all depends...one still has to eat, you know..no, wait. Maybe I should rephrase that. wink

RE: You may not have known this.....

I knew there was some reason I liked polar bears.hug

RE: Taking Responsibility

I completely agree with this, and it's not mentioned here, but I disagree, to a large extent, with what many people seem to do, and that's have a "blame the victim" mentality. Now, in situations where, say, a woman is being abused and she stays in it and keeps inventing excuses why she can't get out? Hmm...I'd have to question that.

But in a situation where you are a victim of someone else's wrongdoing, whether or not you, in some form or fashion, may have "contributed" to it, I still say the overwhelming majority of the blame and accountability lies with the offender, not the victim. To say that a victim is somehow responsible for the offending actions of another is to, at least in part, defend those actions. And that's just incomprehensible, to me.

Obsessive thoughts

Do you ever find yourself having "uncontrollable" obsessive thoughts?

About anything: your health, a certain person, war, crime, poverty? Whatever?

If so, what do you do to combat it?

What, IYO, are some good diversionary tactics to obsessive thinking?

RE: What men do that irritate us about them and what women do that irritate men.........lol

Why not both cook and both wash them? Or order a pizza!grin

RE: What men do that irritate us about them and what women do that irritate men.........lol

Don't wash the dishes? Who says it's her job to wash the dishes????

dunno

RE: Was anyone else born with a mother?

Yes, she was in the same room and everything..

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RE: Country Boys...and...City Girls...

There's plenty going on in the city..it's just a major widespread ever-increasing problem in the country, too. Abandoned barns or old houses...a lot of people don't even live out there; they just run the labs there.

RE: Country Boys...and...City Girls...

I don't know how the numbers statistically compare with the city, but meth manufacturing in rural areas is a growing, almost epidemic, problem. I mean, to the point where it's polluting the air.

I can't post links, but if you'll do some googling on meth manufacturing in rural areas, there's plenty of info on it.

RE: Country Boys...and...City Girls...

Scared of the country? LOL...about the worst thing that could happen would be getting sprayed by a skunk.

Izzy??? What happened to:

El Diablo!

devil

RE: Women, who understands them?

"Matter of fact: I don't think it's possible to sustain an other kind of relation in the long run."

Considering you've been married four times, that much is obvious.

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RE: Women, who understands them?

There are obviously similarities, but we are not "all alike," thank you very much.mumbling

RE: Women, who understands them?

I'm afraid I don't get it. What is there about women that's so difficult to understand? Can anyone provide specific things that they're having trouble understanding? Maybe we can help shed some light on the subject if you all weren't so vague.

dunno

RE: Bum Touching...

LOL...you'd like to think so...wink

RE: Bum Touching...

Anticipation...an ti ci pa a tion is making me wait....

RE: Jas

No, I'd do plenty of "talking." You, on the other hand, wouldn't, because it's not nice to talk with your mouth full..

RE: Jas

Bring it on, big boy; if ya start driving now you can get here by in tomorrow afternoon. See, I'm not into this amateur cyber stuff...

I don't tease...I please.

*Saaaamoooch!*kiss wink wave

RE: Bum Touching...

I think I just saw a vulture fly overhead...wave

RE: Jas

If you saw it, there'd be a lot more in motion 'sides reverse psychology...

RE: Jas

hehehe..oh yes i ca-annnn...tongue

RE: Jas

I couldn't do that to ya, hon. I wouldn't want to be held responsible for the fact you'd wind up a drooling vegetable...

RE: Jas

Yeah....and that's why it took you so long to get back to me after you saw my loooong, smooth, silky legs. Kinda hard typing with one hand, isn't it, Skippy?


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