What I should have added onto the posting was that I have hope for the future as I watched the love around me, well it was in the middle of the night when i wrote it It was a beautiful sight to see as we can become cynical in our search for that special someone. It refreshed my outlook in life that we will all have someone if we allow it to happen. I rarely feel lonely as I enjoy my life immesensly,it was just one of those moments were the lighbulb goes off in your head kind of thing, for I, do all the things that couples do such as going out to a nice resturant,movies or on a holiday, I just simply do it alone.
All the movies on TV at the moment or in the cinema revolve around the theme of loved ones where a unrealistic view of life is portrayed of a Christmas where a person is surrounded by family and loved ones.If you are are in the position of not having either around you, it can intensify your feelings.
As you can tell be the late hour of this posting I cannot sleep. When I lay my head on my pillow tonight I had many thoughts swirling around. One remained constant as a result of spending the weekend with my siblings. While some of you were meeting people on a date possibly for the first time, some were at the ice skating, others at home alone, I was an observer of love . I watched my parents, brother and sisters with their spouses, each having a special moment. Even though we were a family together, each couple were encased in a bubble that only they could be in. My brother-in-law caressed my sisters hair unknowingly, it was a simple natural thing for him to do, when he became aware of her watching him, he smiled just for her as he lay his hand on his child’s head who was sitting on the floor at their feet. While this was happening, my brother had 2 of his children on his knee, with his wife tucked into his side with her hand over his. My other sister sat hand in hand with her husband watching the children as they played, possibly wondering when will they have a child to hold and love. My parents were sitting close by watching over their family like two very proud matriarchs with their little fingers entwined.
Whilst this was going on around me, I glanced towards the window and noticed a woman sitting alone. It took a moment to realise that I was looking at me.
I returned that night to an empty house wondering if I will experience those moments for myself. Will I have those moments when my hand is being held or caressed? Will I be tucked into someone’s side?
I take he is marrying some else in August I know its easy for me to say forget him..it will be a difficult time for you to let him go, but it is something that you have to do. Do not get bogged down in thinking about revenge as the only one that will be hurt in the next stage will be you. Revenge, even served cold, will only make you angry for longer. You have to ask yourself is he worth all that time and effort? God Bless
Too true!! If a woman asks "does my bum look big in this" even though she may have a bum the size of the back of a bus NEVER EVER TELL HER!!! Just suggest she wear something more flaterring such as a skirt or if you want to get out of the house within the next 24hrs simply say " your bum looks wonderful in those trousers"
"is she prettier then me", your response should be "My goodness NO! I was actually thinking to myself I am such a lucky guy to have someone as beautiful as you!"
"did you love her as much as you love me" The only response that you can give for this one " I love you" because if you say anything else it will end up in a debate followed by tears!
"you like shopping with me don`t you" Your response should be " Yes, I love the way you can spot a bargain and are able to get everything done within the hour" It may take time but it will work as each shopping trip gets shorter and shorter.
On a more serious note......be honest about the important things in life and follow your instincts the rest of the way
Have a look at the "ice skating " thread...it is a get together that has been arranged by a member here. It should be at the top of the page on Forums..look out for "Events"
It looks as if it was more of an Adware problem,it has a tendancy to block the ones you dont need blocked, and doesnt block the ones you need. Those of you that have Norton or McAfee will experience the same problems.
If you have restored etc your system always do a "search" on your pc and look for "Hidden Files". Remove them as they will contain links etc to the initial problem that you have.
Always use an Anti-Hacker programme especially on this site, as I have had attepmts on here from hackers trying to access my system on average 4/6 times each time I am log on
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What I should have added onto the posting was that I have hope for the future as I watched the love around me, well it was in the middle of the night when i wrote itIt was a beautiful sight to see as we can become cynical in our search for that special someone. It refreshed my outlook in life that we will all have someone if we allow it to happen.
I rarely feel lonely as I enjoy my life immesensly,it was just one of those moments were the lighbulb goes off in your head kind of thing, for I, do all the things that couples do such as going out to a nice resturant,movies or on a holiday, I just simply do it alone.