We each only have so much time, energy and resources and it takes alot of all three to really get to know a person. So in the initial stages of deciding how much of yourself you want to invest in another you will be wise in keeping the lines of communication open. But if you don't feel they are going to be the one or your interest may wane it's still advantageous for you to still try to be polite by slowly sliding back from them. Being blunt isn't always the best policy. I like to think that most people have common sense and that they will figure it out when your chats wither away to nill. That's when they should know that you're politely deferring to their interest.
Yes I've done it a few times and it's perfectly normal if the love is there and you or they or both have the capability to travel frequently or relocate. I even went so far as to relocate to the other side of the world, New Zealand, to be with my first wife. Life's an adventure and why only limit yourself to partners and love right in your own backyard when there's a whole wide world of possibilities out there.
I trekked halfway across the world for love to a psychologist in New Zealand. Met her here in Texas and she drug me back to the Southern hemisphere. NZ is a beautiful country but collectively speaking the grass was not greener on the other side in that instance. I missed the States and the life I had back on the mainland.
However, I'm currently in Kauai for some months and have to say the grass is definitely greener here, all things considered! Surfing, hiking, luauas, and just living life on Hawaiin time(doing nothing) is assuredly better than life back in Texas.
So sometimes the grass is greener on the other side, sometimes not. It's worth taking the adventure/trip to find out.
Got to go with man's best friend, dogs! Cats are very aloof and too independent to sufficiently bond with. Dogs on the other hand love human interaction and rely on man for their very existence. Thus they are easy to grow fond of and bond with.
I do alot of travelling, I'm currently in Kauai for two months. When I visit a new locale I always try to get to the off the beaten path places which the locals frequent. The amature travellers mistake is to only hit the tourist venues. When you follow that approach you miss out on the real life day to day experience that the city has to offer.
It really doesn't hurt per se but is a sensation you grow desensitized too as the artwork progresses. If you tense up then it may sting a bit. The trick is to be relaxed and just let your body work with the artist.
Never! I've learned through the school of hard knocks over the years that once a door slams shut you should never as so much try to crack it open again! The trick to being successful in life is to move on.
I prefer a woman with long nails. Usually this type of nails will be worn by a lady of leisure cause lush, long nails are easy to break off if you're doing any type of real work or labor. Only drawback to long nails that I can foresee is that you can get marked up on your back pretty bad during an intense coupling. But long nails with a tastefully manicured and polished are a definite turn on. Not just any woman can wear long nails and pull it off. You have to be hot to start!
If you have feelings for somebody else and it's not mutual then it's best to move along to the next potential partner. No need wasting time on someone who doesn't fully appreciate you. You've got to have more of a degree of self esteem than that.
I've met quite a few females off of the site that I chat with on IM and on the phone. Just try contacting the one's that interest you with a short hello and let the cards fall where they may. Good luck!
Anybody that has lived a rich and full life has had their heart broken and emotions trampled on at one point or another. And I've broken my share of hearts as well. Just the way of relationships in general.
Equal provisions all the way around! Both canoe inhabitants knew what they were signing up for when they boarded the boat. Seems the man in front is of a much higher IQ than the rower though. Supervisors/managers generally earn alot more than mere laborers/peons so possibly the man in front should receive more provisions since he is by default in the managerial position.
My preference is towards taller women but it really depends on the whole package. I have been in successful relationships with women on the shorter side. So it's all relative I suppose.
When the person and situation is right you know the time to voice that deep emotion. I've said "I love you" to numerous partners in my life. And I truly was in love with each of them. However, it is possible to fall out of love or to have your love diminish. Just as it's also possible to move on from heartache and find love once again. Saying I love you is something I do daily to the lady in my life at any point in time. I believe it's important to voice it when it's truly how you feel.
It's a no-brainer. Got to go with hamburgers cause they are so much more substantial than hot dogd. I love grilled burgers with all the works. I've had plenty of experience on my nice grill and I make burgers come off the flames like masterpieces of culinary delight! lol.
I want to be remembered in as accurate a rendering of the truth as possible. Therefore I want to be remembered as the life of the party and somebody that lived their life to the fullest, no holds barred. I want my funeral to be a celebration of my life and not a sad occurence. Death is only a temporary trasitional phase to the afterlife. Nothing to fear but something to welcome with open arms. Truly a reason for rejoicing. That joy should also be manifest with loved ones that remain behind.
Well possibly if EVERY girl you meet finds fault in you there might be something to it. Perhaps try a different approach to all things dating and improve upon yourself. You're never too old for a self improvement program. Empower yourself. And you're adopting the wrong attitude by thinking that it's all over for you by the age of 50. You still have some good decades in front of you most likely. Sounds as if you are just in a temporary rut. This too shall pass as all bad things are apt to do.
Start mass checking out profiles of ladies and the ones that interest you send emails to. I used the same technique when I first came on here and now my inbox stays chock full daily.
When a man with gumption sees what he likes, and that just so happens to be a woman claiming she's taken on a dating site, he infers that she is still available or she wouldn't be on the site to begin with and intiates contact her. Reading profiles? lol. People actually take the time to do that? lol.
I'm about sick of this Texas heat. Even my swimming pool doesn't cut it at this juncture. I'm heading off to Kauai for two months as of the 10th of this month and think every time I drink some mai tais after a luau or what not I'll come to this site for a good laugh and clown someone! lol.
Next up in line is a fabulous listener. They probably could teach us all a lesson in humility. Should've been voted friendliest in school. Has hand eye coordination that would amaze even the Shaolin monks. Is here as a beacon of hope amongst an otherwise drab and obsolete site. lol.
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Best of luck in your search.
Howdy From Texas!
Thanks divamagic. Send some of that magic here to me in beautiful Kauai!